Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

Well, don't know if the marriage is worth saving but the counselor was very hot in bed. Do you think it's her first time or is this a regular thing? Is so, I'm not sure if she's worth dumping the marriage. Would she be wearing those short skirts making her legs super long & curvy if she didn't think all the good ones are taken? Wow she's hot. What should I do?

2007-11-07 11:04:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's not my situation- I don't even have a boyfriend! Just wondering what people's reactions are when they find out that their boyfriend or girlfriend was gay or lesbian.

2007-11-07 11:03:10 · 3 answers · asked by -violet- 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok well its not actuallu my son
its more like my brother
but my mom is having this problem
where my brother will not go to school
she doesnt know what to do
shes thinking about telling him to pay bills and
let him drop out but he 16 and is afraid that
he might just leave home
so shes afraid that hell get into drugs
and other things so can u help me to
get him to STAY IN SCHOOL ???

2007-11-07 11:02:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love my girlfriend with all of my heart and have no intentions of leaving. I have been with her for 3 yrs. We are 7yrs apart. I just want to know how to learn to not let her drive me so crazy! any suggestions?

2007-11-07 11:01:41 · 12 answers · asked by Chris 4 in Singles & Dating

I still love my wife, but I am not attracted to her anymore she has put on a lot of weight but she is trying to loose it but it is not comming off, we have a lot invested in our marriage 2 kids and alot of memories, but I just don't have that attraction that I used to have for her, I wnat nothing more than to feel the way I felt about her when I was attracted to her, I just can't help it I find overweight people unattractive, I try to keep my self in shapre for her eyes and treat her the way I would want to be treated should I stay or go?

2007-11-07 10:52:27 · 33 answers · asked by mintman123 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Today in my last mod this boy just went on me. He was like do u have a bf? I was like yeah. His respond was like yeah right. Ur @ss is lying, who would date u? Ur ugly as hell, 4 real. Then every body just laughed saying dam n stuff. I said dats mean. He said, but dat just mine opinion. I al most cried, but I don’t now why. I now I’m not ugly. I think I look on a scale 1 through 10. I’m a 7/8, but dat just mine opinion. My bf thinks I’m cute and dat have a nice @ss. How I know is, he told me like the first couple of weeks when we were dating. A lot of guys hit on me, but still it upset me when people think ur ugly. Ya know? Most people say I’m kinda cute and have a nice figer wit thick hair.

I listen to this song called “Beautiful” by Christina Aguilere. It made me feel better a littlie.
Can I have yawl advice on how I should have handle this situation? What do u think?

Da video
http://youtube.com/watch?v=3caZQtXaoH4

2007-11-07 10:52:04 · 32 answers · asked by Zoey H 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 30....at what point is a person too old to go out and have immature, crazy fun?....Is there such a point in a persons life?

2007-11-07 10:47:12 · 6 answers · asked by richyrich1996 1 in Singles & Dating

like you have your family already and did you still feel that something is missing that its like your not a completed and you dont know what makes you feel completed is anyone feel that way and ask thier self what makes there completed guys feel free to answer this i really wanna hear your answer thanks alots.

2007-11-07 10:45:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now i want one and dont seem like its going to happen. We have been trying for a month now and nothing happened yet. Im getting upset because they keep thinking i am but im not. Is it possible since ive never had anyone in 30years cu*m in me that maybe now i can cant have a baby. When i say never i mean never!!!

2007-11-07 10:44:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is way too shy! I've tried telling him that he can talk to me about anything! we've dated last year, and this has been 2 months now since we got back together! We're in the 8th grade! So there are PLENTY of things to talk about! I know he likes me, he tells my best friend to tell me stuff instead of saying it to my face though! My best friend says he is REALLY into me, but he doesn't know what to say!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO???

2007-11-07 10:41:35 · 7 answers · asked by !amber! 2 in Singles & Dating

To be more specific... I'm currently in a relationship with the love of my life. I love him and know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. However we have different views on having a family. Having a family is important to me, I've always wanted a big family, and always wanted to start early. My love although wants a small family and wants it after his career has taken off (early - late thirties). Having a family early and large is something that I've always wanted. Now I know that things between the man I love wont work unless we agree, and we don't. I feel like I have to choose. Is this fair? What would you do? ADVICE please. Thankyou in advance.

2007-11-07 10:39:00 · 15 answers · asked by ~(Tinker) Belle~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he said hes more attracted to me with braces! is he serious?

2007-11-07 10:38:19 · 25 answers · asked by elliot r 1 in Singles & Dating

who just found out her husband has been cheating on her??She caught them together?? She says her religion forbids a divorce.. but I say staying in a marriage where you are disrespected like she was is way worse than then a divorce..

2007-11-07 10:37:38 · 17 answers · asked by nease174 6 in Marriage & Divorce

im a quiet person ,and iv been in several relationships with girls who were always talkative and outgoing ,and it was usually my quietness that made them end ,i what is it about quiet people that people dont like?

2007-11-07 10:34:26 · 4 answers · asked by nathaniel 2 in Singles & Dating

she has tried leaving before but he just follws her wherever she goes, he has threatened her with violence and barely lets her leave the house without him

2007-11-07 10:32:57 · 27 answers · asked by tom q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

haha, they told me if i have sex, i'll die. and they said im not allowed to date until im grandma's age. haha.

2007-11-07 10:32:22 · 7 answers · asked by Evaの 6 in Family

It can be a real or a fictional family. Why would you like to belong to this particular family?

2007-11-07 10:31:33 · 8 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Family

I am married and my wife and I are having problems. The current issue tends to be that she feels "smothered" but I hardlly ever talk to her because she is avoiding me or does things to keep her busy. So now that she has pretty much told me to BACK UP I am moving on and finding other things to do and basically being as *** because my feelings are hurt but she is loving it and has even hinted that men should "play hard to get like you don't love a woman or that you don't care and then you would be more interesting" WTF!? If I continue to be a distant, irritable guy and it turns her on.. How is this supposed to work. I am quiet with my emotional wall up and she is looking at me lovingly. When I respond with warm conversation she acts like a so-and-so. I get mad again and put some distance between her and I and she can't wait until I return home.. to ignore her basically but when I enjoy the moment with her it turns her off.. WTF #2?

2007-11-07 10:27:10 · 17 answers · asked by Magnus01 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 10:26:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and i bet she is pretty and he knows i like him but he is weird though!

2007-11-07 10:26:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband of four years told me that im getting to emotionally attached. he has been sleeping at our lake house for 3 days. a few months before he left he started acting really weird and suspicious

*we have a 3yo daughter n two more on the way
(maybe hes feeling smothered?)

2007-11-07 10:23:53 · 20 answers · asked by .i. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend told me he loves me but he is not in love with me we where together for 5months

2007-11-07 10:23:23 · 12 answers · asked by distant lovers 1 in Singles & Dating

What turns you on the most?

2007-11-07 10:23:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was searching for a book my fiance had in his storage and I cam across a birthday card, which I thought was given to him long ago. Well it wasn't it was from him to his ex-wife, no biggy. But what was strange was that the same message he had left his ex was about exactly the same things has he had told me.?? Is this weird or should I just let it go? The letter is a few yrs old.

2007-11-07 10:22:04 · 22 answers · asked by Advice25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So It Goes like this..

Ny ex broke up with me 3 months ago, we where together for 5.5 years.

She told me alot of nice things when she broke up with me eg. That she still loves me Etc Etc..

We remaind very close for the fisrt couple of months, telling each other how we miss one and other, she even told me she wanted to remain close and not for it to become the "weird friends thing" and she didn't feel comfortable me calling her by her name..

She has been very busy with her studies latley and we havn't talked much.

I decided to give her some space and to try and let go. we havwe kept in contact via email and i decided to start calling her by her name but she dose not do the same to me. She wrote me a mail the other day and ended ti with xxx..

Am i reading into to much or dose she still feel the same way about me

Thanks

2007-11-07 10:21:36 · 18 answers · asked by CFC 1 in Singles & Dating

To all of you guys out there why do you want girls to shave down there? I mean do you like it or is it just gross to have some hair down there?

2007-11-07 10:21:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy that i like but hes such a player. he flirts with every pretty girl and he would hit on me plus like 7 other girls when he had a girlfriend. so they recently broke up and he asked me for my number and i just couldnt say no so i said "ill think about it"
so the next day im walking behind him and he looks at me and goes "pshhh.." and rolls his eyes then he stops walking and gives me the finger...
WHAT THE HELL IS THAT??!?!
how are you gonna beg for my number and be so sweet and the nest day flip me off??
it hurt like hell cause i like him sooo much even though i know i should stay away from him cause he just a lying unaithful player...i even tried staying away but it lasted like 30 minutes. i always think i can change him or something...
im soo mad at him but i still really like him
what do i do im going insane thinking about him
now whenever i see him i get this feeling like i want to slap him then kiss him and it makes me feel sick
ADVICE
10pts. for best answer

2007-11-07 10:20:50 · 7 answers · asked by brooklynn olivia 4 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i dont have any kids but there is a lot of housework that never gets done and i really need his help. i stay at home (usually im out with friends) he leaves at about 6 am in the morning for work and comes back at 8 then he sleeps for two hours and go goes out for another job as security. i been trying to get him to help out around the house when he is here for the two hours and on the weekends he just sleeps usually how can i get him to help out more?

tried leaving the house and leaving all the housework for him but he just gets angry i even left for weeks but it hasnt changed anything.

2007-11-07 10:19:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if every single man in the U.S went to other countrys and locations to start a new life, family and god knows wut else. how long would the 50 states hold, i would give my knee cap to see that.

2007-11-07 10:16:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents are divorced and recently(September) he told me he didn't want anything to do with me so he could have a normal dating life. I happily agreed and have been living with my mom since. Now he wants to make up, but I'm not willing because of the abusive behavior he has subjected me to for 4 years. When my parents got divorced i was 10 and he told me if i said anyhting bad about him to the courts they wouldnt let me see him again, my mom would take his money which would force him to move out of state. That's illegal, but I was ten so I fell for it. My sister doesn't have a relationship with him either but she always spends time with his family on thanksgiving. He won't let me unless we "fix" things. What do I do? BTW getting back together isnt an option, he emotionally and physically abused me, my mom, and my sister.

2007-11-07 10:15:06 · 5 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Family