Well, don't know if the marriage is worth saving but the counselor was very hot in bed. Do you think it's her first time or is this a regular thing? Is so, I'm not sure if she's worth dumping the marriage. Would she be wearing those short skirts making her legs super long & curvy if she didn't think all the good ones are taken? Wow she's hot. What should I do?
2007-11-07 11:04:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're my hero. What's this counselor's number? Is she board certified??
2007-11-07 11:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
I am a counselor. One of the things which is drilled into your head in ethics. I do not think this is the norm. I do not know what kind of setting this is. Is this her private practice? Is her office within a clinical setting? If so, it is up to the senior practitioner to address this therapist directly. All therapist, psychiatrist included, report under the strict guidelines of "The Board of Marriage and Family Counseling Therapists." In my opinion, it is not worth getting involved with her, no matter how hot she is. Sex can be like a drug, and you may desire more and more of it. Also, I would tend to wonder if she dressed like this before you became her client. It is just a hunch, but if she was dressed that way when your first began your sessions, she probably was dressed that way for others as well, and maybe had relations with other men. Remember, therapists are people too, and what is to say if and why she has an insatiable appetite; no offense to you, just a warning.
2007-11-07 19:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by Leonard S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you----I doubt the counselor is worth you dumping your marriage. Yes, you should be honest with your spouse. I doubt you are telling the truth here about doing your counselor, but if you were, you should report her.
2007-11-07 22:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a male marriage guidance counsellor and all I can say is "If you are correct and your female counsellor slept with you, she broke one of the most basic ethics for the counselling profession and I would consider her behaviour to be unethical and unprofessional. There are strict rules around counselling relationships."
What should you do? That's for you to decide. What do they say? "Birds of a feather, ...........".
I can see why you went to counselling.
Carry on with the counselling friend and might I suggest a male counsellor so you can benefit from the help.
Goodluck.
2007-11-07 19:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Christian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like if you were seeking marriage counseling to begin with that your marriage was in trouble. You are obviously not interested in making the marriage work. Get a divorce.
2007-11-07 19:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by justme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should do your wife a favor and sign the house, the kids, the car, everything over to her....give her a quickie divorce and go have your fun with the counselor. Your wife is better off without you. she doesnt need seconds!
if you have any ounce of decency in your body....run to the courthouse and hand her over everything at once.
you dont deserve your wife but i guarantee....someone else will and they will appreciate her and treat her like the queen she deserves to be treated like.
2007-11-07 19:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should change counselors very soon. Obviously if this lady is sleeping with one of her clients, which is you, then she is not very professional. You need to work on your relationship with your wife and talk to her and see if she wants it to work out because she deserves better than her husband sleeping with someone else.
2007-11-07 19:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by Britt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're telling the truth you're a f*cking ********, leave your wife, she doesn't deserve this and you obviously don't care about her, you are part of the reason it's so hard for guys like me to find a good woman
2007-11-07 20:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Undead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! this reminds me of the Movie 1st wives club where the counselor sleep with the hubby . when she finds out i hope your get what you deserve
2007-11-07 20:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some states it illegal for a thearpist to sleep with the patients.If you want war tell your wife .I'd tell her to let her know how much she means to you [0].You can't keep your mind on her to get help and you need it. Be fair and let her get on with her life your not husband material.
2007-11-07 19:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by oatesmokid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't couples go to marriage counseling together? haha
Dang if your wife can't even show up to counseling, you might as well "do" something to get your money's worth.
2007-11-07 19:31:33 · answer #11 · answered by ♬♥YouBetcha♥♬ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋