Is my Ex sending me mixed signals?

Question

So It Goes like this..

Ny ex broke up with me 3 months ago, we where together for 5.5 years.

She told me alot of nice things when she broke up with me eg. That she still loves me Etc Etc..

We remaind very close for the fisrt couple of months, telling each other how we miss one and other, she even told me she wanted to remain close and not for it to become the "weird friends thing" and she didn't feel comfortable me calling her by her name..

She has been very busy with her studies latley and we havn't talked much.

I decided to give her some space and to try and let go. we havwe kept in contact via email and i decided to start calling her by her name but she dose not do the same to me. She wrote me a mail the other day and ended ti with xxx..

Am i reading into to much or dose she still feel the same way about me

Thanks

Answer 1

Go find someone else. She doesn't know what she wants and she'll only end up hurting you further.
Get far, far away from her and don't call her or email her!!!

Answer 2

Breaking up is one of the most harrowing experiences we have in this lifetime, especially after 5.5 years. Leaving someone after so long is not an easy thing to do. If she worked up the guts to do it, it probably means she had a reason. Most times, those reasons are deep-rooted. I think she just wants to be careful with your feelings because she actually does love you. She is either no longer IN love with you or is too confused to come back to you. Either way, you shouldn't submit yourself to this kind of torment. If it's advice you are asking for, I would continue to keep your distance. Get out on some dates or get your friends and go to a strip club. Do something so that you aren't obsessing about her. If she ever decides she wants to come back, she'll have to make the move. If and when she does, you'll have to decide whether or not you can trust her with your heart again. Good luck.

Answer 3

I´ve been there myself many times my friend! After long term relationships, it is real hard to cut the bound. You will always think about that person, and miss her a lot and stuff. This is what takes exes to keep some sort of friendship, which eventually just will lead you to bed again. MARK MY WORDS!
She is still there for you, but believe me, this will only hurt you a lot in the end. Stay away for a while. That seems to be the healthiest advise.

Answer 4

Well if you want my advice (which you don't have to take) my suggestion would be to completely ignore her, and that will drive her crazy, and she will either be relieved... or.... she will maybe change her mind when she sees that you are not "needy" and want you back ...but right now obviously she is at the point anyway where she is trying to get away from you, ... take the hint!! Never chase a woman who is trying to get away! they just run faster!.. After being with someone for that many years who decides to be so cruel and uncaring to the point where you aren't supposed to call her by name? Give me a break! get a life! don't chase her anymore and it will be the biggest shock of her life when she will figure that you are making a life for yourself.. she will either be relieved... or she will maybe think she has made a mistake... Never ever let anyone take you for granted.... big mistake... make yourself unavailable for the kind of rudeness that would make a person think its OK to treat you with such disrespect, after being with them for over 5 years. I don't see any mixed signal there I only see one... that says.... I don't want you in my life anymore... guess what..... there are lots of other women out there who will appreciate a good man. Good luck...

Answer 5

I think that it depends on what exactly is being said. If she is still telling you that she loves you etc than she really does still have feelings for you in that way. If she is just treating you like a friend, you know the typical "hi, how are you? How have you been? and Love ya" (not love you) than she is just wanting you as a friend. I know that in relationships that lasted that long, friends just don't happen. One person is always still wanting to be involved. If she just wants you as a "friend" than I suggest that you take a step back in order to let yourself let go of wanting a relationship with her. It's the only way to move on.

Answer 6

It's a test. Women like to test us 24/7. Be strong and move on. If she really felt that way, why did she leave you after OVER FIVE YEARS? Think about it man you two were together longer than some married couples! Let her go. There's plenty of women out there. Go find another wifey!

Feel me?

Answer 7

It seems she wants it a little of both ways. Of course that is not fair to you unless you're satisfied being a puppet on her strings. I think you need to move on; stop e-mailing her; don't answer messages from her. If she continues, then tell her you've moved on because it's the best. And by all means, call her by her name.

Answer 8

I think she is sending mix signals, it seems as though she has made the decision to break up with you, but cannot handle what being broke up means. Who continues to call a ex by there pet name once they have broken up. If this is something she couldn't handle she shouldn't have broke up with u.

Answer 9

NO

You're finished - but she is still trying to be nice about it. Why should YOU be though?

Best to make a clean break ASAP

Otherwise you'll not move on from this no-win situation

Answer 10

me and my ex stayed best friends for years, he came to my wedding too, try getting a new life and think of her as a special friend ,get a good life you seem to be hanging on, you are bound to miss each other, but there must be another lady out there for you ,.life goes on babe. try it you will be surprised how life can be exciting again for you .good luck in getting a new life don't waste your life waiting