im a quiet person ,and iv been in several relationships with girls who were always talkative and outgoing ,and it was usually my quietness that made them end ,i what is it about quiet people that people dont like?
2007-11-07 10:34:26 · 4 answers · asked by nathaniel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like quiet people a lot so I dont know what people dont like about them. The quiet people are fun to get to know cause from just sitting down and talking to them you can get to know all about them instead of listening to them from down the hall. You will find someone that loves that you are quiet so I wouldnt worry or try and change!!
2007-11-07 10:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by catie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may be that you have a problem with self esteem and where you think it is your shyness that may be only part of it. On the other hand, there is nothing wrong with being a quiet person if you find another quiet person to be with and that means looking for a special person somewhere that you are not looking now, perhaps a library or even a chess club.
You can read the book asamanthinketh at the link I will give you and if self esteem is part of your problem that may help. If you do have high esteem and are very quiet then you have to try the other places to look for someone who is either quet as well or can make you want to be not as quiet around them.
Good Luck to you either way!!
2007-11-07 18:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I hate when people say they hate quiet people. It gets on my nerves.
2007-11-07 18:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll im really shy too and it hurts my relationships as well. they think we are boring.
2007-11-07 18:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋