I love my girlfriend with all of my heart and have no intentions of leaving. I have been with her for 3 yrs. We are 7yrs apart. I just want to know how to learn to not let her drive me so crazy! any suggestions?
2007-11-07 11:01:41 · 12 answers · asked by Chris 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She ALWAYS has to be right. she's spoiled! and she has learned some personality traits from her mom and that is not a good thing. :)
2007-11-07 11:07:20 · update #1
Im the older one in the relationship
2007-11-07 11:09:18 · update #2
Maybe she's doing that because you aren't being nice to her or something .. Girls do that when they feel like they aren't getting the most out of the relationship. You only probably think she's spoiled because she's trying to get you to do the right things, but you're doing the wrong things and it "seems" like she's spoiled. She might not be, but then again .. She might.
Personally, I don't know. Try communicating with her differently .. The little things count.
2007-11-08 06:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really love your girlfriend, but do not want her to drive you crazy, then you should learn to be patient. It takes time, and a lot of effort to learn to be patient with someone who drives you crazy, however, seeing you have coped with her for 3 years, you have probably already learned to become patient. Anyhow, don't let her actions or behavior give you a negative view of your girlfriend or even cause fights. Anyway, the trick to not be driven crazy by your girlfriend is to take things easy; don't be so serious! If you aren't serious or don't mind about whatever she does that make you crazy, then it should be no problem. Hope it helps *_*
2007-11-07 11:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by mikey_dude2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, not sure I can answer that one. Next time you start a relationship, tho, target a better 'match' and aim for someone who is 4 yrs. older or younger than you, not 6 or 7 yrs. Not a good match. 2 yrs. older or younger is okay too. Also, same age as you is good. Avoid the "odd" yrs. You're hair will soon turn gray if you choose those options. Start thinkin' about seeing a cardiologist soon with any one of those matches.
2007-11-07 11:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should sit down by yourself and think about what it is she does that makes you crazy, or mad, or annoyed or whatever. i mean, in ever relationship, whether its a girlfriend or guy friend or parent or whatever, the other person is going to do things that make you mad. you just have to decide if you can live with it and accept her flaws or if its a big enough deal that you have to end it. i'm sure theres things that you do that make her mad too. you just have to decide for yourself. good luck!
2007-11-07 11:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you two should get in the ring and just beat the crap out of one another until one of you gives up...
2007-11-07 13:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mark G 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how does she drive u crazy wta did she do u need to give details so we can help
2007-11-07 11:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by coolio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to the people who say shes too young, theres NO AGE FOR LOVE!! sit her down and talk to her. tell her what bothers you.
2007-11-07 11:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Victoria 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what drives u crazzyyy??? what makes u like this find out when u find out then u communicate with her explain how u feal
2007-11-07 11:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by KeePs 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, what is it that she does that drives you so crazy?
2007-11-07 11:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Fugettaboudit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your the younger one then you should break up cause she has her mind set on how she wants to live but if she is younger than you should tell her what is bothering you and you to need to work it out
2007-11-07 11:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by kayla 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋