im married with almost 3 kids but i met someone else and i dont wat to do?
2007-11-07 12:01:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have children. Don't risk ruining their lives for something that might end up being very short term.
2007-11-07 12:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is there more to the story?. Has your husband been there for you or has he cheated on you. Has he been supportive,has your sex life been good, does he still do all the things he did when you guys first met?.
If he's been good, then don't cheat and ruin your marriage. Good men are hard to find. If you have a good man, keep him,treasure him, love him and commit to your marriage.you can both work on your marriage. I know this is not what you want to hear when there's already someone else in the picture. You're lucky the tables are not turned.
On the other hand, if he's cheated,neglected and hasn't satisfied your physical and emotional needs, and you've given it your all, i don't see what's stopping you.
But are you ready for the consequences?, do you have a back up plan?.
Good luck.
2007-11-07 20:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by belle k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
How would you like to be cheated on just because your spouse found someone else? And what would your kids think of you if they found out??
And even if no one found out, wouldn't you feel a guilty? If not then you must have a heart of stone.
2007-11-07 20:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Bess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are you thinking? how could you do that to your children? i can't even believe you would say that! if you are unhappy you need to talk to your husband and figure out what you are going to do together! there will always be temptation, but it is your will to resist that temptation that can make your or break you. are you weak? are you going to let someone break you and your family? get it together girl... and how can you have "almost 3 kids?"
2007-11-07 20:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by californication 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure - 7 outta 10 marriages fail, so you will be fine - get child support from him, and finish raising the 3 on your own....
2007-11-07 20:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. If you don't want to be with your husband anymore, then do both of you a favor and divorce him. But if you truely love your husband, you won't cheat. You would just cause problems for your poor husband and children.
2007-11-07 20:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont believe in cheating. Why be with someone if you dont want to be with them only? I think if you dont want to be with him anymore get a divorce and then you can be with whoever you want to, just don't sink as low as to cheat.
2007-11-07 20:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_sativa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stick to your wedding vows girl, if you cheat, you'll always be thought of as a cheater, even by this new guy, the new relationship"if one ever did happen"is doomed before it starts, and your marriage looks bad to, cause your thinking bad thoughts and wanting to do bad things. get your **** together and save your marriage before its to late????????
2007-11-07 20:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did Tommy tell you to stop? Keep running into the brick wall for god sakes!
2007-11-07 20:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by grind333ing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. You did say the vows right? Or did you kinda just ignore them while staring and fantasizing about the best man?
2007-11-07 20:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by Georgia Girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋