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Tomorrow i go after school with a girl i met and i got couple questions.

Making - starting - keeping conversation??
Keeping my breath fresh, not smell.
Kiss.
Anything else like advice, thank you.
It is tomorrow, thank you. And im 15 Sophmore in high school. I might go with friends and girls, MIGHT.

2007-11-07 14:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

just be yourself and relax OK the first date can be over whelming but it can be really special. DON'T go with friends its not their date its yours and dates are for two people girl and boy OK, a date is a special time for the couple to get to know each other. maybe this might help you with your decision. My first date was good enough for me cuz i could to get to know my boyfriend by sitting in the park eating fish and chips with him, sharing things about each other and NOT HAVING ANY FRIENDS AROUND THATS WHAT A DATE IS. I hope this helps you and good luck on your date.

2007-11-07 15:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Relax, she said she'd go out with you so she probably is just as nervous.
Make-start-keep conv.
Talk about anything. Pay attention to what's going on around you and use it for conversation. Movies, bands, cars, anything is fine. Be sure to listen AT LEAST half the time.

Brush well before date, mouthwash, keep tic-tacs handy. Avoid gum, it looks silly to sit there chewing and spoils the mood if you have to spit right before the kiss.

AH yes, the kiss. This requires patience and acute attention to her body language. I highly reccomend waiting for her to lean into you before going for the first kiss. If you're too aggressive, you could scare her or piss her off. If you wait too long, you may miss out altogether.

Wait untill the time is right. I can't say it any better than that. When the time is right, if you are paying attention, you will know it. Don't dive on her like a starving dog, but give her a gentle soft kiss, no tongue, and stretch it out just a bit longer than a peck, but not so long that either of you has to take a breath during it. After that, she'll let you know if she'd like another by staying up close to you , or she'll back off a little and you may have to wait untill the end of the date to try again. Don't ever force a kiss on her, and never refuse a kiss from her.

I think going out with a group is a good idea, just look for little moments when you two might have a sec to sneak a kiss.
Have fun, be a gentleman and get your kiss!!

2007-11-07 14:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0 0

Grrls love conversation, if you are lucky she is a little nervous and might be the type that keeps talking when nervous so just let her talk. On a date it is not so much saying the right thing as not saying the wrong thing - don't get up on being all that, just keep it low key. Girls like a guy that is hard to figure out so do not worry about being a bit silent. Look at her a lot, and make sure you let her talk. Make sure she eats an unfed grrl is never good news.
If you really want to kiss her give her a kiss when you first see her, GO SLOWLY, no fast jerks, we don't want anyone getting hurt. Hold her shoulders or hold her face when you kiss her, gently.
Get a dental check up and get your teeth professionally cleaned twice a year. I assume u don't smoke.

2007-11-07 14:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Talk about music... ask her favorite kind, her all time favorite song, her current favorite song.
Talk about movies...
Just talk about anything that interest her...
Shopping... School... Her friends... Her family...
Maybe a joke...
TV shows
About your breath... Get some gum and chew it when your not eating... if you go eat!
And be polite and ask her if she would like a piece of gum.
Be a gentleman! Open the door for her!
Kissing... Maybe a kiss on the cheek at the end of the evening... If you feel like it is right!
Good luck! And have fun!

2007-11-07 14:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Parrish 3 · 0 0

sophmore high love aww... Okay every girl is different... lol... dont get nervos when you are talking to her... be you stay calm and jsut talk... idk how well you know each other... but pretend its just another day talking to a friend in class or w/e... flirt... but not too much... dont make any moves that you dont feel comfortable with... it is more important to have a good convo and feel comfortable around each other then to rush anything... if it seems like she wants you to make a move... take a step... sit close to her and out your arm around her... put your arm around her if you guys are walking somewhere... fi u r walkin next to each other close and her hand seems to graze yours a few times hold her hand...
do simple things that will make you to feel comfortable together and not get anyone worried...
mints and gum are good... if u think u'll kiss gum isnt eh best option beucase accidents with gum happen far to often... lol
If you go with friends... try to get some time alone with her... if y'all are walkin somewhere slow down and stay jsut behind the group...
have fun and make sure u are comfortable!
good luck!!!!

2007-11-07 14:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by stefaniedido 2 · 0 0

Determine to have fun, to have a good time.For conversations, you can talk about anything like movies,music,clothes etc.Get your self some breath mints like tin-tac,menthoes,or gums Don't be anxious and at the same time don't be standoffish.try to find a group in your age group.Then go ahead and have fun,

2007-11-07 14:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0 0

Well just don't think about questions before hand because it will just screw you up later..like you are rehearsing..just go with the flow like depending on were you guys are going feed off of whatever is happening like oh i love that restaurant blah blah..

2007-11-07 14:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1 0

Just talk about what she likes, mentos for fresh breath.

2007-11-07 14:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 0 0

one hint, GO WITH FRIENDS!!!!!!!! Your first date with anyone is going to be a little weird, but as long as your friends are supportive of your relationship, then your good to go. Going with friends is a good ice breaker! Good luck.

2007-11-07 14:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by Totally Confused 2 · 0 0

Sweetie....all u said is true.. but more important...relax and be yourself.. :) make her laugh, ask her things about her, dont make it all about what you like.
I think thats about it and be a gentlemen.. us girls like that..
well most... i do...anways...like open doors.

Good Luck..

2007-11-07 14:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by princess2 1 · 0 0

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