He is very affectionate and physical. A lot of touching in places like my shoulders, sides, arms and hands. He also likes to put my hair behind my ears and tell. Today at the grocery store he did it and I sked him why and he said because he was flirting with me. He also likes to stare at me when we're driving. Even when we're not talking he likes to look over at me for long periods at a time. At night, after his wife is in bed, he gives me a very long hug and usually accompanied with a small kiss either on the cheek or the forhead. Tonight it was on the neck/cheek. I also accidentaly touched his foot with mine under the dining table tonight and he rubbed mine back. All of this seems to be done when his wife is not around or we're alone. I just divorced my previous husband and ever since then he has done nothing but this. Is he coming onto me? I can't tell. Do you think he'll go any further?
2007-11-07 14:36:59 · 10 answers · asked by Kera L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In all honesty I just thought he was being nice because of my divorce. I'm only 20 and am constantly crying and moping. I thought he was just trying to make me feel better. I am a very naieve person and I really couldn't tell. I am hurting and in shock. I have to live with them cuz I have nowhere else to go. I have 2 kids and I can't just throw them on the street. But I will try to avoid him from now on.
2007-11-07 14:55:17 · update #1
Definitely sounds like he is, and therefore I wouldn't put it past him to try and take it further. You should talk to him about it and maybe sit down with your friend and explain to her what's going on.
2007-11-07 14:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kat* 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, he is DEFINITELY coming on to you....which makes him a definite horny loser, because he is married. i can only imagine what an uncomfortable and unfair situation this puts you in; but it would be wise to tell your friend what he does. not only tell her, but tell him too to quit it. i wouldn't recommend telling him that you'll tell his wife, because if he is a dangerous person, that could lead to quite an ugly altercation. i know it will be hard, but it will be the best thing to do. he's obviously not a good husband or friend, and depending on how your friend takes what you tell her, you'll know if she is a good friend or not. but you wanna take some action before things get out of hand. if your friend gets mad at you and is so quickly to defend him and disregard what you've said, then maybe (at least for now) it's not the best thing to have such a person in your life. during this time you're gonna need someone to confide in and take your word.
2007-11-07 14:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its VERY possible he will go further.
He is definetly coming on to you!!!
I advise you NOT to go anwyhere with him and keep your distance from him.
What were you doing with him at the grocery store anyways?? Also why is he around you when his wife is in bed?? Do you stay with your friend or something?
2007-11-07 14:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and it's terrible.
He'll most likely try and go alot further with you.
You must put it an end to it, before it gets worse.
2007-11-07 14:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO TELL HIM TO STOP IT OR YOU WILL TELL HIS WIFE and if he doesn't stop it tell her or don't be in a room with him alone any more or you could lose you friend over it and beleive it isn't worth it
2007-11-07 14:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by gram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll just echo everyone else's answer. It's obvious to the rest of us that he's coming on to you.
2007-11-07 14:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like it --- possibly the best solution is to not be around him all the time ---- if you are having accomodation problems then see if you can find somewhere else to stay
2007-11-07 14:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he wants you. If you are living with them, move away now. You are in a bad situation. Get out now!
Dangerous.......****
2007-11-07 14:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to knock it off .He is a jerk for doing that to his wife .Tell him to stop or your telling your friend.
2007-11-07 14:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by VintageT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell????? You mean, your in denial.
2007-11-07 14:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋