Tell me why love is such a mess? Im genuinely asking this serious question..
Tell me why I cannot return the love that some men have for me and the person I love cannot return it back to me?
Love always seems to fall short.. I feel terrible when someone told me they cannot love me, so how can I tell someone I dont love them.. because i feel like they will feel.
Why does it have to be like this all the time?
And who should follow the castes system anyway ! it was abolished in 1948, I believe.
I know tradition is so important for you but the future is developement..
Even tradition changes..
Anyway I know im being silly..
Forgive me to those who I have hurt.
And thank you to those who have listened
happy diwali
2007-11-07 21:18:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Becaue those moen who love but you don't love and men whom you love but don't love you back are not the one for you...Be patient, for someday the man you're going to love adn will love you back will come your way...Good luck, girl! Hope you find your destiny the soonest time possible! (",)
2007-11-07 21:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotion is a funny thing you can love someone because of how they look or if you a a fan of someone you kinda fantasize about them and this is what I call an imaginary love cause it is only you and your thoughts.
If you look at a real person you can not look at them in the same light because it is real and real feelings and these do not always coincide with your thoughts so we have to work harder.
Many years I found men in this light and had my own vison of what I wanted and it always ended the opposite. I then joined a friendship/social club and met people in a totally different light where we chat, dance drink and enjoy all of our companies this is when I met my sole mate, he not hansome, is shorter than me but he is a real cut diamond and I would not change him for the world, if I had stayed in my fantasy world I would not have entertained him for a second and I would not be happy now.
I think the problem is we look for things that are not real a handsome man or a beautiful woman on your arm does not guarantee you happiness look at the beauty within. I also believe friendship has a big part to play as well.
i hope i am making sense:-)
2007-11-07 21:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, smile cutie! Life is precious and so are you. Simularly love is the same way...I have been in that same situation time and time again. This just means one of two things...One, is that you crave and want love from people for the wrong reasons..Or two, you just have not met the right person yet. I believe you fall under category two...When you do in fact meet that special someone that you can love, there will be no doubt in your mind that he loves you in return...This is called unconditional love...I would tell this other person before it gets too serious..The longer you make him think that there is a possibility that you could love him the harder and more painful it will be when you do tell him that you are incapable of loving him the way he loves you..Dont worry cutie, you will find the man of your dreams as long as you keep your eyes open and your conscious clear...Good luck and smile always!
2007-11-07 22:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love was never in any mess as you suggest.It's only when we confine it or try to use it as a tool ,it becomes just like any other action which must invite a reaction.Love is not a commodity and hence there is no question of retaining,reciprocating or returning it.It's human fallacy to insist on possessing anything they love.At the cosmic level,love is all pervading,uniting and conserving and asking nothing in return.As a matter of fact,the moment you possess some thing you love, what remains is attachment and not love.Let's not confuse infatuation or a strong desire for something or some one as love.Happy Diwali.
2007-11-07 22:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is GOD's sacred and precious gift to mankind.We should treasure it,it is always said that love comes unseen.We can only see love when it is gone.Since humans activities are such that either we are selfish or our egoism prevents us from loving someone like LAILA MAJNU,but deep in the heart we love someone sacredly but posthumously,hiding our feeling's for the reasons mentioned above.
2007-11-07 21:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by Singularity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
World is full of likes and dislikes.What you call as love is not real love.It is an attraction.,In Real love there is no likes and dislikes.If you practise real love,you will love all inspite of whether they reject you or not.This is the love that is practised by great people and saints.God loves all.What we mean love is mainly lust.In lust there will be lot of competition whereas in love you dont have to compete with any one.
See,I will love you continously though you may not love me..hihihihi....hihihihi....
2007-11-08 17:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like u don't love that individual.. and don't want to hurt him.. there has to be a reason why u don't love him.... ??
and this goes for the guy u love.. there is something about u he just doesn't care for... be it ur attitude, breathe, or personality..??? who knows?? and chances are he is not going to tell u.. he just no's u are not the one for him..
People seem to go for some one just out of their range. ... and it is a challenge to see if they can win them over..
If love is not smooth as glass in a relationship then u have the wrong person..
love is kind, caring, and all things positive..
2007-11-07 21:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is life difficult question to get the right answer. But let me put it this way. Without gender consideration.Love is how you received and how you give,How you say no and yes...is Love too!.Love as for whole in the feeling of how it made you fell...that moment when you fell the Love but not to the one you admired...it still love,respect his/her decision is love too! Love is not having or taking but giving and letting him/her to go to they felling to the beat of they Love.Let love come to you. Move on living with full of love to give.Yours and my GOD,gave us love every second of our life.
Love is Blind because Love don't choose color or religious or any human related matters...but LOve can see Love that hidden in your kind and honest eyes.
2007-11-07 23:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You not silly at all what you feel it's natural.best part you are honest about your feeling.you don't love some one doesn't mean mess...or some one don't love you.all that one part of love drama(sad one)have faith in your self and trust in god,time comes you going get lots of love and you going give back same way(good,,real good one part)keep smile,,,Happy Diwali.
2007-11-08 10:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by Smita P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person fall in love with someone once in a life time truely then how can you return love to all instead of giving it to one.
2007-11-07 21:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by MEENA M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to love yourself first.period. thats the answer to life. there now I've let the secret out of the bag.Now Im in BIG trouble with the BIG BOSS.Hope your happy now. take this secret truth and run with it, dont worry about me , I'll be ok, just go on and leave me , I'll only slow you down................take care.
2007-11-07 21:38:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋