i pretended i did not know by bfs name in front of my friends and somehow he found out and we had this conversation.
him: My name is LARRY!
me: yeah i know i was just kidding around
him: i see nothing comic about this situation
me : it's nothing to get mad about all i said was that i have not been here a lot and i forgot who everyone was i don't even no why i did it i was just being stupid!
him: well ya know that should be easy for you.
me: exuse me?!
him: why are you so funny all the time i don't get it
me: jp and i were just kidding around!
him: oh yeah and just who is this jp guy?
me : MY FRIEND!
him: you hang out with him to much
me: oh now i am not allowed to have friends?
then he walked away later he apologized and we both let go of the situation should i still go out with him
2007-11-11 07:18:58 · 24 answers · asked by mistoemegan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At least he apologized. You should apologize too, say you didn't mean for what you said to hurt him and say it won't happen again. He shouldn't have said 'stupid should be easy for you'. That is not a nice way to fight. If he is like this a lot, he may not be the right guy. But you have to be nice too. Good luck
2007-11-11 07:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he kind of sounds like a controlling a** hole. show him jp, and have jp bring a girl along. confront him calmly about how he's acting. give him a few more chances and if he doesnt improve and give you a little more room to do what you want, ditch him.
but dont pretend you dont know his name. thats not gonna work with most guys. so appologize to him. you kind of did give him a reason to be mad because you said you didnt know your boyfriends name to another guy friend. that could have hinted to jp that you werent that serious and your boyfriend could have felt you werent serious enough to be on a standard level.
2007-11-11 15:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Perisss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you are embarrassed because no one should lie to their friends about their b/f or g/f's name.
Besides that, this fight was nothing.. Everyone fight's in a relationship and that was just a minor one. About still going out with him, you should know deep down inside what your answer to that is.
2007-11-11 15:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Matina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your bf seems like the over jealous type of guy. He didn't seem like he was that serious, considering the fact that I was not in your shoes at that time. Give him another chance, who knows, he might be the lucky one or the rotten one. If he continues with his jerk antics or even decides to raise a hand on you (and god forbid) you decide whether it's over or not. Maybe his being too serious could be a sign that "hey, this is the real me, so if you don't like it, tough." But like I said before, your bf was so overly jealous and it's only normal for guys to do that.
2007-11-11 15:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No you shouldn't! He probably doesn't need a girlfriend like you who is not considerate of his feelings. You shouldn't have said that in the first place and in the second place you shouldn't have mentioned the friend, especially if he was already upset.
2007-11-11 15:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by nochocolate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if use 2 just started dating no he sounds too controlling
and if u have been together for years then get therapy
u have to think of it vice versa though
how would u feel if he did that to u
pretended not to know your name in front of his friends
and would u get mad if he hung around this girl alot
2007-11-11 15:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by cinnamon apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but um
ppl in relationships get into lil fights
he seems as if he might have a controlling side in him to watch out for that.
If this is the first time he has acted this way let it slid but keep an eye out.
And if he keeps it up let him know that u feel controlled by him, and if doesn't change then leave
dont waist your time
2007-11-11 15:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by Shony07 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i have many situations where my friends choose their boyfriends over their friends when the boyfriend gets too serious. if it is worth losing a friend or relations with other people, choose your boyfriend. the boyfriend of my best friend split because he was jealous of her friends and that he doesn't get as much time with her.
personally i think that he is too obsessive.
come to think the quote "what is the difference between love and obsession?"
2007-11-11 15:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
hes just worried that ur cheating and no offense but u gave him a reason to be...i think if nybody should appologize it should be u because u pretended that u didnt know his name
2007-11-11 15:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by {[mAdNeSs]} 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think tht you should confront him about the situation. i mean by this is ask him to understand tht u wanna have friends tht r guys and tht he can trust u. other than tht you should tell him tht u like to have a little humor in ur life and if he takes it offensively go about your comedy in another way such as making jokes tht COULD NOT be taken offensively by anyone
2007-11-11 15:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋