I left my so-called boyfriend because he didn't want to commit to me..he didn't want the title of boyfriend/girlfriend and I did and I found a guy who wanted me and wanted to be with me...he wanted to call me his girlfriend. Now that I am with this new guy, he holds my hand, and tells me he loves me and misses me (all of which my ex did not do). So things are good and I realize I could have been treated a lot better. The thing is my ex wants to talk to me tomorrow--I am afraid he's going to say he wants to be with me now and commit. But I don't think I want that now...I think my feelings have changed towards him..and I realize I can be treated a lot better (like my current boyfriend treats me). It's to the point that even if things dont work out between me and my current boyfriend, I don't think I will go back to my ex. And even if my ex and I did get back together as bf/gf, I dont think things could ever be the same. What are your thoughts on this?
2007-11-11 07:18:53 · 7 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've answered your own question. You deserve to be treated well and you have realized this. Good for you. Your ex didn't want you with anyone else and now that he sees you happy, he thinks he should change. Chances are that he wouldn't change for long anyway, just long enough to get you back and then you would be regretting it. Stay where you are.
2007-11-11 07:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be done with your ex, and be glad he's out of your life.
Don't "reward" your ex for being a jerk, and "punish" the current BF by dumping him.
Call your ex and tell him you can't meet him. How do you think it will make your current BF feel ?
Spend the time with the GOOD guy instead.
2007-11-11 15:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you have been through the pain of having a realtionship with a commit-a-phob! dont do it again. you said youself that you are really happy with this new guy and thats really great. now if you want to stay friends with your ex or choose to cut him outta your life comepleatly but either way stay with your current man!
2007-11-11 15:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have moved on. you've found someone who treats you alot better and appreciates who you are. those guys can be one in a million. dont throw away somthing great for a guy who wronged you in the past.
2007-11-11 15:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all ready know the answer stay with new b/f and say good bye to old one, just tell him you are now in love with another..
2007-11-11 15:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him too late, and that you found someone who is less hesitant but more willing of commitment.
2007-11-11 15:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by Adam S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you meeting him then?
2007-11-11 15:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋