My bff got married about 3 yrs ago and it was hell for her since the beginning. Well now she got divorced and I've always liked her husband (she was the crazy one in the marriage) and we get along great and have great conversation. I never said or even did anything to express my feelings during her marriage i was very respectful. Her and I had a major falling out but I still talk to him...I think I like him! Our falling out had nothing to do with him... Is that wrong?
2007-11-11 07:22:10 · 7 answers · asked by jana07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'am no longer friends with her and never will
2007-11-11 07:36:00 · update #1
I think if you are no longer friends with her and it nothing to do with him and you were entirely respectful of their commitment when they were together then you did everything right and if you and him get together now, you are doing it with a clear conscious.
2007-11-11 07:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum folk play the game this way: adult adult males u've already dated are off limits to bestfriends. motives why is with the help of the fact nevertheless u would think of ur over him as quickly by means of fact the three of u cling out collectively and that they have got a sort of kissy moments, ur emotions are going to surge. yet u can merely be mad at urself b/c u informed her she would be able to have him. i could play it risk-free and not danger dropping a bff
2016-12-16 05:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by melaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is wrong. You did everything right by her and you and her falling out had nothing to do with him so I would go for it and see where it leads you.
2007-11-11 10:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by dhack567 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that you planned the "fall-out" so you could go after him ...in some strange way people can plan things subconsciously.
I would let him pass by.
2007-11-11 07:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EX-bff
EX-husband
...Well that's an easy one! The double negatives cancel each other out! Go for it!
2007-11-11 07:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if its time to turn afantacy into a reality, and give it your BEST, to insure repeat performances!!!! good luck!!
2007-11-11 11:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, is she still your friend?. In my book, you NEVER date your friends ex's and even if I wasn't friends with that person anymore, I still wouldn't do it.
2007-11-11 07:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋