I've always liked big girls, not just 'curvy' or 'full figured' but girls who are very fat. There is nothing sexier than a girl who has gained a lot of weight and I love seeing girls get bigger.
Should I make this known? I've dated a few fairly plump girls so my friends probably know I'm not adverse to them. But should I make it known when asked that I think huge girls are the sexiest things on this planet, or do you think it will hurt my chances of actually hooking up with one?
2007-11-11 07:34:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think they 'care' as such, but quite often the subject of 'hot girls' come up, mine doesn't quite fit into the norm. I've always stayed quiet, more so that bigger girls don't find it a bit creepy or think I'm only interested because of their size.
2007-11-11 07:38:34 · update #1
Is this serious?? If so your gross! How could you love and find sexy a woman who has no respect for her body, so she just eats and eats until she is huge, thats gross sorry.
2007-11-11 07:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kandiii♥ 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋
There's nothing wrong with admitting who you find attractive. At least you are kind of at an advantage because most guys don't like us bigger girls, so you got the pick of the bunch. A word of advice though, make sure you show the girls respect for their size and treat them as if they were anybody else. Many girls who are fuller figured are very self conscious about it and might feel like you are playing them for a fool if you mention their size a lot, or admire their "extras padding". Good luck finding that girl, there should be more guys like you around =)
Also, (to other people who have answered) just because some people are bigger than others does NOT mean they have any less respect for themselves than anybody else. I am a big girl and I totally respect my body, so there's no need for other people to judge, comment or belittle.
2007-11-11 07:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You know to be totally honest I think that is the coolest thing a guy has ever said. Most guys these days want the playboy bunnies small waist and big boobs. I'm sorry but that is hard to find in an all natural girl who has more important things she has to do than worry about her figure, and which doctor she is going to go to for a boob job. So definitely let it be known! If I knew a guy liked me for not being small I would so be with him. As long as he is trustworthy and all that other good stuff a boyfriend should have.
2007-11-11 07:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if ur confiednet and love urself being a lil fat ur confiednce will refelct on others. but its not only about the look u have to have the character its a whole package. and if u dont wanna lose weight there are alot of plus size gilrs who are nice and sweet and delightful to know. if u refuce to get with a fat gilr who is great but shes not good enough for u coz shes fat then u deserve same treatmnet by girls its fair game then ha! its the person not just the number the scale reads good luck
2016-05-29 05:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by viva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad you are attracted to larger women. Just make sure you get to know them as a person and not just because of their size. That is what I did with my wife - a great person who also happens to be very large at 290. She was the same way with me and I am also large at 620.
2007-11-13 02:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my brother!
He keeps it quiet, just saying stuff like i like my girls curvy and he only went out with one thinner girl, but im sure he likes bigger girls alot like you.
I find it creepy only because I'm big and my bro dates girls the same size, height, look and personality as me :S
But that can be flattering to the big girl if you say it the right way like when youve been on a few dates andyou two are offical you can gently mention to her how sexy she seems to you (I loved it when my bf did that)
2007-11-11 08:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by wowsaz24 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't say it, just show it. Chances are it will hurt her feelings if it gets back to her. Just treat her with respect and love. Trust me she already knows she is a plus size girl.
I have been both chunky and skinny and either way a girl wants to be loved for what is inside either way.
2007-11-11 07:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by momoftwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! YES! YES! although i am a skinny girl (who wishes she had a little more weight) i like bigger boys. i think you should "follow your bliss" in the words of my english teacher. you should be with whoever makes you happy and if that happens to be a big girl then go ahead!
2007-11-11 07:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by cececinnamon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are talking to a bigger girl, I wouldn't bring up her weight, it might hurt her feelings. You just need to tell her that she's beautiful and you are very attracted to her. Good luck!!!
2007-11-11 07:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE!!! do you know how many girls asks questions about that???
Lots of fat girls feels terrible thinking that no guys like fat girls,
Who cares if you like fat girls...My brother has always been with fat girls and he is a really good looking guy and skinny, he never said...oh my i can't date fat girls, what do other people will say?...he is with one now, has a baby,
Go for it, there is nothing wrong with that! they are humans!
2007-11-11 07:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
yes of course there is nothing wrong with liking fat girls, and none of your friends if they are real friends should care, it leaves the average size females for them
2007-11-11 07:38:20 · answer #11 · answered by tom k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋