Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

the guy i have a HUGE crush on is having a big 13th b day party with like 36 of my peeps invited and all of my freinds are invited exeped for one girl who everyone secretly hates... could this mean something... am i a loser? i spent all last night crying. at the beginning of this year i thought that 7th grade was going to b my year, its the toatle oppisot.

2007-11-11 06:15:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's more of a country girl, loves horses and pigs, pretty dry sense of humor and very sarcastic. Remember that I'm not exactly made of money.

I want to give her a good gift though. Last year (before I really got to know her) I gave her 2 dead batteries lol. She wasn't amused, but I definitely was! So I want to get a better gift this year.

2007-11-11 06:15:07 · 17 answers · asked by Me 7 in Friends

Theres this guy in my class, he seemed ok the first day I talked to him. As time progresses he started to get really annoying. He makes jokes of others that aren't even funny. Only he and these 2 people are laughing out of 30 people. Whenever I try to start a conversation he just turns it down and makes it look awkward. At first I humored them to be friendly but after a while I started to sit further form him and ignore him.

He saw me ignoring him so he started to call my cell phone during class 3 times. He was smiling and looking at me but I was all cool since my cell is on silent. I blocked his facebook. Well this one day he saw me on campus and came up to me and gave me a five.

Should I feel bad for cutting ties with him or did I do the right thing.

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-11 06:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

i am having alot of problems in my house and would like
to move out already i can't move by myself it would be with my
boyfriends house the only problem is that we want it to get married on may than leave together in our own house but im having alot of problems and when i go to my boyfriend house i feel relax with no problems screaming what can i due need help!!!we can't get our own apt for now because i have alot payments,

2007-11-11 06:12:37 · 8 answers · asked by Crystal A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-11 06:12:15 · 8 answers · asked by o7dmacko7 1 in Singles & Dating

...she wants to sleep with you--something that made you want her so bad you had to get with her? And ladies, what's the most erotic way you've ever told a man...what exactly did you say?

2007-11-11 06:11:46 · 3 answers · asked by CRM 2 in Singles & Dating

Hypothetically let's say you are 5'8"-5'9" (or if you really are this height or shorter, even better!). Who would you rather be in a long-term relationship and picture a future with:
a girl who is 5'6"-5'7" and slender, or
a girl who is 6'0"+ and husky/big-boned?

Let's assume they both have pretty faces and great personalities. Explain your choice, pleeease and thank you.

Oh, and if you choose neither that's fine too lol (but please explain as well).

2007-11-11 06:08:32 · 4 answers · asked by nightmare hippie girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 06:07:07 · 1 answers · asked by crickey21 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin has been married for 3 years to a man that has not been able to keep a job longer than a few months. During her pregnancy, she supported him, working two jobs and attending college while he sat on his butt. Their son is now 1 and she has been living back at her parents house for the past 2years while he has been in and out of jail. She recently confided in me that her husband was unfaithful to her and as a result she contracted chlamydia from him during her pregnancy. I listened to her and hugged her while she cried like so many other times when he has let her down. Two weeks later he got out of jail and they were "back together" even though they still live seperately and he does not provide for his child. She has made it very clear to me and our entire family that no matter what he does, she loves him. I have accepted that she has chosen to be treated this way. How can I politely tell her that I no longer wish to hear about their ups and downs?

2007-11-11 05:59:11 · 18 answers · asked by Annette 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a repost, wasn't getting any answers:I work 60+ hours a week and I haven't been feeling well so I haven't had the energy but I still did it. I'm beyond baged this weekend and all I want to do is relax by myself. I just want to be by myself today and tomorrow. My boyfriend is upset because it's his sons birthday and there's a party at his parents. I don't feel comfortable there and I like I said I'm beyond tired. My whole body hurts. I'm still going to go to the dinner at a resturant for his birthday next weekend. There's no way I'd miss spending a birthday with him. He's very important to me. So I will still be making his son happy, my boyfriend happy and me happy. My bf doesn't see it that way. He thinks I should attend everything his family does together. I just can't do it this weekend. If it was another and I didn't feel how I do, then I would most likley go. But today I need to take care of myself. Does anyone see it the same way I do? What can I say to make him understand

2007-11-11 05:58:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

real or "just in case"?

2007-11-11 05:51:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i already know:
how to win a (grls) heart
1. Hugs from behind.
2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other(don't make her grab yours)
3. When standing, wrap your arms around her.
4. Cuddle with her.
5. DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING.
6. Write little notes.
7. Compliment her Honestly.
8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
9. Be super sweet to her.
10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
11. Comfort her when she cries.
12.Wipe away her tears
13. Love her with all your heart.
14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it).
15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).
16. Don't let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her!& DONT ever act diff in front of ur friends than u r when its just u and her
17. Take her for a long walk at night
18. Always bring a blanket where ever you go outside when its cold to comfort her and hold her close
19. NEVER LIE TO HER
so i like this boy.how to win his<3

2007-11-11 05:50:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, my mom is 4 months pregnant. My parents and I all have a very close relationship--but ever since I found out about the pregnancy, it seems that my mom and I are kinda distant from each other. On top of that, my dad and I never do the things we used to do (like hiking and cycling), because he’s to busy tending to my mom. Don’t get me wrong, I’m overly happy for them and I can’t wait for a baby brother or sister (I’m an only child for now), but it seems like my relationship with my parents is on hold. What can I do to be more involved with my mom, dad and the pregnancy? She keeps asking me to come with her to the doctor’s office so I can be with her and see an ultrasound of the baby. Do you think going with her to the doctor’s office would be a good start in involving myself with my parents and the pregnancy?

2007-11-11 05:50:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do you think about this? My partner (we are married) went out on Saturday with girlfriends midday and didnt get back til 10pm. She spent all today in bed. She didnt even discuss it first just said she was going out (she has already been out twice this week)
So i had to look after our child all weekend and have had no time with wife at all
I said to her you should spend most time with the one you love ie me, but she wouldnt listen
I am the only earner in our house so work all week just to have weekend with the family and wife - she doesnt work and also we have a full time nanny
is it only me that thinks this is unreasonable?

2007-11-11 05:49:59 · 38 answers · asked by peter w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she came back in the middle of the night just to steal their autisitc sons valium! now shes living with another guy! what kind of marriage is this? shes done this before and he takes her back because of thier son...what do u think of this? how can people be this heartless towards their own family?

2007-11-11 05:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Have your girl friend ever complaint about your...

2007-11-11 05:47:59 · 2 answers · asked by frankie l 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 05:46:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 05:44:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend dislikes sex, she can go without sex for long periods of time, unlike myself who loves it, and can get it everyday. She once suggested that we have sex once a week which equates to 4 times a month, for our age (mid 20's), I laughed really hard at her suggestion. What can she do to increase her sex drive and what can I do to help her with this issue.

2007-11-11 05:44:10 · 5 answers · asked by jfkcash81 1 in Singles & Dating

if your married is it ok to have friends of the opposite sex? like for your husband to hang out with girls? yes or no and why?
is it to much to ask for him not to?

2007-11-11 05:43:45 · 12 answers · asked by ___ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Try and give a mature answer, please.....

2007-11-11 05:40:26 · 19 answers · asked by PRH1 3 in Singles & Dating

i have some questions : 1 - wat time of the day .. shuld i go for it ?
2- how much time does it take ?
3- how shuld i go abt takin off her clothes? heelllp me ppl !

2007-11-11 05:36:52 · 31 answers · asked by Steve S 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi I'm 27, and since I got contact lenses I have been getting looks from guys.. well I happen to look about 19 or 20, because I'm petite. If one of these guys approach me and start talking, and then ask what my age is, and I tell them I'm 27, they might get dissinterested.. like I'm just a boring old lady.. why is this? Am I no fun anymore? Thank you

2007-11-11 05:36:14 · 11 answers · asked by chilipepper 3 in Singles & Dating

I think my girlfriend can do better than me :( I'm 17, tall, handsome (not bragging), and in shape. When I say I think my girlfriend can do better than me, I mean she can find someone with more experience :( I don't even know how to make out, she would tell me how her boyfriend would make her laugh and how he would make out with her. I have no experience at all, and I think she can do better than me. She is always anxious to see me, that's what she and her family tells me, but I don't know how to make her happy or how to feel comfortable around her enough that I could make out with her or just to do things with her.

2007-11-11 05:29:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay. I don't know how much longer I can deal with this. There is this girl that i really really like. I am 15, and my parents are out of town the last 2 nights. i had a couple of friends over, not a party, just to hang out. she was the only girl there. I was trying hard to show her i like her, but i have never had a girlfriend, so i don't really know how to show it. She kept going in on my bed and saying how soft and comfortable it was. i tried to go in there with her to talk to her, but the other guys kept following me in. Last night, she was on myspace on my computer, and she changed her status update to say "i love dustin" then she grabbed the sticky note pad out of the desk and wrote two notes that say "gaby loves dustin" and stuck them on the computer. then she wrote one that said " I secretely want dustin" and put that between the other two. when i went to bed last night after she left, i couldn't stop thinking of her. ---please read additional details below---

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i layed in bed for about an hour and a half thinking of her until I could finally go to sleep. The point is, I don’t think I can go much longer without knowing how she feels about me. Do you think she likes me? How can I tell/show her that I like her. ?

2007-11-11 05:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by dustin_del1 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been going out with my boyfriend for a while, and i even thought its been about a year, i really love him, and on thansgiving break, im going up to vermont with him for a few days, and i know we're gonna end up having sex, im 18, and i dont want any **** of if your not sure your not ready, because i want to do this, but my question is how bad does it hurt the first time, he is more experinced than me,and will he be ok if we go a little slow?

2007-11-11 05:23:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out that my sister drove home drunk last night in our mom's car, and it's not the first time she's done it. She lies constantly to our parents and to me, is manipulative and does not seem to care about how her actions affect anyone in our family. She does drugs and lies about it, and she also smokes in our mom's car even though she has been told repeatedly not to. She lies to our mom about that as well. I don't know what to do about her. The fact that she's taking our parents' trust for granted is sickening to me, and even more disturbing is the fact that she's driving home drunk. When I asked her about it today, her response was, "I wasn't that drunk". She's an idiot. I'm fed up with her. She's 19 years old and needs to grow up. What should I do?

2007-11-11 05:22:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is a guy at work, much older than me around 12 year older. He is successful, accomplished and a gentleman. I was new at work and was really interested in him. I thought he was too as we both would look at each other all time. He never made a move on me. In the meantime i started to like another guy around my age and in a different office. Now this older gentleman started to show interest in me. He showers me with attention. gave me tickets to a show. I just mentioned to him that I had lost my leather gloves and the next day he bought me a very nice pair of gloves. He says that he cares for me and will do that always and that there is nothing beyond that . His actions are otherwise. He must have gifted me stuff for nealry USD 700. Then he invited me to dinner and i accepted, no harm in that I think. He wrote me an email saying that he misses my smile and he wants me to be happy always. What do i make of this. I am just torn. I think I love him. Pls help.

2007-11-11 05:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would u do if this guy that u liked ofer the summer, and he liked u, didnt email, im, or ask about u at all, gives all ur friends his screen name that he uses the most and not u and u emailed him a couplle months ago and didnt bother to email u back, just imed u today and asked u a question and when u responded didnt respond back until15-30 min later, so then u were busy during that 15-30 min, and then got back and sed, i dont get it, and he just signed off. what would u do?

2007-11-11 05:18:06 · 20 answers · asked by rivery 3 in Singles & Dating

what should i do to get the hours she owes me and how do i tell her she pissed me off over it?

2007-11-11 05:12:37 · 8 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Family