Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

im mid 20's he is mid 30's he has to be prompted to show any affection towards me when alone or out, its really getting me down, we have been going out 2 years, it makes me kinda jealous a bit to when i see all my friends partners are affectionate towards them and look really 'coupley' especially now as im the last one to 'move in together' (i think he is really not keen on that as changes the subject if i just even touch on the subject) im begining to wonder whats a going on?

2007-11-11 22:26:24 · 12 answers · asked by pink 2 in Singles & Dating

This is the first Christmas in 3 years that I will have spent with my boyf and we're both very excited about it. I normally spend xmas at home, but mum was happy with me coming to see the family on boxing day instead.

BUT.. . she phones last night to say she wants to come up, stay in my flat while I stay the night with the boyfriend and then spend xmas day with us. From the sound of it dad isn't too keen. Second, the boyfriend probably won't be too keen seeing as we were really looking forward to it being just us in the mornng and then his daughter coming in the evening.

How do I tell him my parents have invited themselves to our christmas? I don't want to tell them not to come as spending Christmas together has always been a big thing for us and she obviously isn't ok with us spending it apart so is making the effort to come up to me. BTW we live about 2 1/2 hrs apart!

Thanks!!

2007-11-11 22:25:43 · 9 answers · asked by kittenwhiskers456 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The person you grew up with turns out to be GAY...What would you do?

2007-11-11 22:23:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Also how much of a relationship relates to these factors:
Personality = ?
Looks = ?
Size = ?
physique = ?

2007-11-11 22:22:20 · 8 answers · asked by man_united99 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 22:19:50 · 20 answers · asked by swati 2 in Singles & Dating

since the last years wedding of her younger son mil only pampers the younger dil.. giving her new clothes every other day etc etc . My hubby/I never spk loudly pr rudely to her but my bil is brutal and rough and somehow it is coming up as an asset for him.... now im tired.. my sis in law was arriving home today with her new born kid and i wanted to decorate the house with balloons..but my mil said Ah balloon is not for kids/adults.. its for birrthdays..so now she is decorating the house ..stairs with flowers(petals) etc .. she doesnt want me to do anything ...well im tired..how do i react?

2007-11-11 22:18:15 · 5 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am now a days very confused about my marriage. I do love a girl, (I don’t know whether she loves me or not) and want to marry her, but my family members think that I should do marriage according to their wish. According to them, the girl should be their relative, and, if not, then she should be a working lady, so that she can help me financially.

What do you think, should I go for my love or I should do according to wish of my family.

2007-11-11 22:14:03 · 11 answers · asked by Aamir A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In first look at the boy, what gives you feelings that he is hot

2007-11-11 22:13:01 · 12 answers · asked by J R 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 22:10:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what can be done to feel miserable again

2007-11-11 22:09:03 · 31 answers · asked by redcandal66 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on this girl, Jessica. But I can't stop thinking about her. She's always on my mind. I think about her even sub-consciously. It's become an automatic thing, for me to think of her. And every time I do, I smile. What do you think? A crush or love?

2007-11-11 22:08:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you ever feel bad about that?

2007-11-11 22:03:56 · 5 answers · asked by jacquie 6 in Family

He is married man, as i have said that he is my lecturer, but he will leave my campus. I'm in love with him. should i say the truth about my feeling to him before he leave me n campus?

i have did the several attraction to make sure he likes me or not. such as always take his hand, touch his back, look deep in his eyes. wat shoul i do ya? how do i know he likes me or not?

2007-11-11 21:59:38 · 21 answers · asked by Aristha 1 in Weddings

I am so mad. My boyfriend came over to hang out, and his 10 year old brother came over. My parents bought me a 30 GB iPod video. It was so special. Its the nicest gift I have ever gotten! When I am happy, sad, mad, glad, whatever, I bast my iPod and scribble in my journal. Well my bf & his bro came over and my homework was spread out on the floor. My ipod was laying on my math book. I leave the room for a couple minutes. I come back in, we hang out for 20 minutes, then they go home. When I go back to do my homework: I see my earphones on the floor~ but NO IPOD. I am devistated. I cant stop crying. I had an iPod nano a few years ago....and I lost it.....I felt guilty for months. I still do. And now my iPod, which I love equal/more than my boyfriend is GONE. ANd the worst part is, I was just going to make love for the very first time with my boyfriend in a few days (dont judge), and why would I do that now that my iPod is gone?

2007-11-11 21:57:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Plz giv detailed answers.

2007-11-11 21:53:41 · 7 answers · asked by yahoo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 21:52:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Good? Bad? Completely crap? Let me know!

2007-11-11 21:51:04 · 19 answers · asked by fabulous 2 in Friends

ppl at my skool hu r in SIXTH grade date already, but i don'tthink it's serious cuz ppl change bf and gf ALL the time....what do u think?

2007-11-11 21:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 21:47:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does she need to CONTROL? Why does she even want to CONTROL? She like DECIDES what I buy and she is like SO annoying! She wants discipline and bla bla bla like why the heck does she teach me this stuff that's what I learn in school and she's like wasting her breath for nothing. And when I tell her this she nags at me! And like she asks me to do something and then I say fine I'll do it so I like was switching off my computer and then in 10 seconds she said "can you quickly do it?" Like what the heck is wrong with her?

2007-11-11 21:45:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance will be hyphenating his last name after we get married. He is an awesome guy, what can I say.

I didn't wan't to change my last name for a bunch of reasons (since I'm the only grandchild I wanted to honor my grandfather by keeping his name), but my fiance said he would take my name if I would take his in addition to mine. It's a team effort and we're both happy.

So, my question is, for the reception, will it sound odd or confusing to be announced as "Mr. John Smith Doe and Mrs. Jane Doe Smith"?

Should we be announced as simply "husband and wife"? Or announced using our own names (i.e. Mr. Smith and Mrs. Doe)?

2007-11-11 21:44:27 · 8 answers · asked by reginachick22 6 in Weddings

2007-11-11 21:43:47 · 34 answers · asked by Sam =] 1 in Singles & Dating

Whenever i see her i start dreaming abt her .She is so ravashing that i cant stop my feelings,as i cant do anything with her .I just cherish her in my mind and sometimes enjoy ,even i see her picture and sometimes masterbate .I know its bad ,but as i have no guts for doing something in real ,shld you think having all this limited to mind is ok ?As I have no intentions for making any advances to her.I tried to put those thoughts off ,but whenever we meet or talk fantasy start taking birth.what shld i do?

2007-11-11 21:41:54 · 18 answers · asked by vishi 1 in Family

my ex left with baby when she was 2 now after 11 years ive found her she live 3000 miles away i want to do something for her ie get her a gift but when i ask her what she wants or needs i feel like shes blowing me off ie iask her if she needs a new bike or laptop she says i have a bike and would probably just break a laptop what do i do im planing to go see her but i dont know if she even wants this .i worked hard to find her and never gave up but i think she might feel some resentment or maybe she blames me but it was her mom that took her away i cried daily for over a year after she left .now i cry daily cause i found her(tears of joy) but i wonder if she feels the same weve only talked through emails she says she hasnt got the guts to talk to me yet what do i do ......confussed

2007-11-11 21:40:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a problem may affect in my marriage. my wife do not treate me as a true husband because she sleep in a room and i sleep in another room. she also do not like sex and she do not like to touch my hand. when i ask her she say by time things will change i need somebody to help me or send me an email for anybody who can help me to know if the problem is from my side or my wife is the problem. PLEASE save my marriage i love my wife................

2007-11-11 21:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Who do feel is hot our of the 2

2007-11-11 21:37:11 · 22 answers · asked by analyst 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend has told me that she has smoked a liked it and that she's soon to lose her viginity to a 19 year old.

I don't know help?

2007-11-11 21:36:28 · 12 answers · asked by Sophia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

1. a guy who like to have fun 2. a guy who has a good personality 3.blonde hair 4. brown hair plz help

2007-11-11 21:34:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what kind of man you prefer?????????????
tall or short
black or white
blonde or black?
green or blue eyed?


and how about me??????????http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=RZEEHLK-FDU

2007-11-11 21:31:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

did anything really exciting happen to you? if so tell me, less than 100 words... and will you do it agian ?????

max

2007-11-11 21:31:39 · 11 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4 in Singles & Dating