since the last years wedding of her younger son mil only pampers the younger dil.. giving her new clothes every other day etc etc . My hubby/I never spk loudly pr rudely to her but my bil is brutal and rough and somehow it is coming up as an asset for him.... now im tired.. my sis in law was arriving home today with her new born kid and i wanted to decorate the house with balloons..but my mil said Ah balloon is not for kids/adults.. its for birrthdays..so now she is decorating the house ..stairs with flowers(petals) etc .. she doesnt want me to do anything ...well im tired..how do i react?
2007-11-11 22:18:15 · 5 answers · asked by barley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the best part she WAS staying in my portion since 4 months shes going down the stairs in a day .. but still i suffer!!!!
2007-11-11 22:24:47 · update #1
It is your house, decorate it as you wish! I love balloons, perfect for any and all occassions, I disagree with your MIL, but if you two are having a communication problem, then sit down with her and talk to her, she sounds like a bit of a control freak, and if you can't talk to her, and she won't talk to you, then talk to your husband and have him talk to her.
When I had problems with my MIL, I put my foot down and made my husband talk to her and he did, sure, he was a mama's boy, but after many times of me putting my foot down, he talked to her, because he could see it was making me upset.
So, if you can't talk to her, then have your hubby talk to her, he might kick, scream, throw a tantrum, but put your foot down and make him talk to her!
It is causing stress, and you do not need that, I really hate it when someone comes in my house and totally takes over my house and my plans!
That is when my foot comes down!!!!
2007-11-11 22:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband that it is time to move from the mil's house or you are going to explode.
2007-11-12 06:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wife and MIL , are natural enemies so its best they don't live under 1 roof....
2007-11-12 06:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by essential 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move far away from her and don't give out your address or phoen number. Out of sight...out of mind.
2007-11-12 07:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is time for you and your hubby to tell his mother to back off.. he has to step up to his mom and so do you
2007-11-12 06:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by eyesicyblue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋