Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

any suggestion???? what should i do on my first date....

2007-11-11 21:30:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 21:29:55 · 14 answers · asked by juicy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can they fall in love?

2007-11-11 21:28:33 · 13 answers · asked by always4him 1 in Singles & Dating

and would do anything for them but in the end you know theyre not good for you and its best to part?like we have had sex 3 times and hooked up twice.only problem is she has a bf and she pretty much begged me to sleep with her and i felt bad but i was like ok ill do it,she wants it and i want it so we had sex.ever since then shes started ignorning me and we where best friends.im not sure what to do.she knows how i feel about her but she uses it to her advantage.like she knows i love her but how do i tell her i dont want to do this anymore.i cant carry on being in love with someone who treats me like she does?how do I get over her?

2007-11-11 21:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or turn off?

and why? just want your opinions.

thank you!

2007-11-11 21:24:24 · 4 answers · asked by volley_ballchick815 1 in Singles & Dating

i have an uncle, but he's not my direct uncle..let's say he is a distance family. I think he's too "nice" to me, i don't know if i could call him a pervert but i don't feel comfortable if he's around me.
he likes to touch my hand and his hand are like all over me such as put his hand on my thigh and other stuffs i dun want to mention.. so i'm always scared if he wanted to stop by my house.
In fact, he had helped me so much but i want to avoid any physicall contact with this uncle.
one of my friend said that she didn't feel comfortable when i introduced her to my uncle, he holds my friend's hand for a long time.
sometimes i lied to him that i'm not at home or i'm just too sleepy to accept any guests..
My problem is his wive, is my grandma's cousin and she is very very nice, so.. what can i do?am i just being paranoid?help!

2007-11-11 21:23:08 · 16 answers · asked by Aimee J 2 in Family

cant stand being tickled
hates math homework
has very little pain tolerance

lololol i lost a bet i have to ask
pls be specific they said
they also said i had to say the most painful and worst answer according to my hates gets best answer

2007-11-11 21:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a friend of mine, who we used to live and hang out together. He moved from Texas to California. He just text me a message saying he just find out that he cannot fertilize a woman so he need my help. My help should be high secret thing. He is requesting me to sign an agreement, for me to be sleeping with is wife to get him pregnant, They had talked about this between them and agreed. So if she becames pregnant, I will never claim the child to be mine. The wife wants a child really bad. She dont want to adopt neither. All she want is to give birth to her own child and she feel comfortable if I will do it. To my part, this is the most strangest thing that I have ever faced in my life and I don't know what to tell him. I do respect them very much but as he explain that he don't trust anyone else to do beside me, its weird. I know he has helped me a couple time, he was there for me and now he wants me to be there for him. Can you all help me please in this situation?

2007-11-11 21:21:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering I have heard that one way to tell if a person has good character is through their handshake. If someone has a very weak and limp handshake does this eman that they cannot be trusted ? Because I have amet some people who seem to be very nice but they have a weak handshake so I am not sure whether to truly trust them or not. So can a person with a weak handshake really be trusted ?

2007-11-11 21:16:11 · 11 answers · asked by Sammy G 1 in Singles & Dating

Im gonna make this as short as possible.
I am having a decorator around to paint today and my fella knows him so he is picking him up to bring him to and forth.
I got a text this morning from the girl that gives me a lift in the mornings to work to say she couldnt pick me up. I didnt read the txt until it was too late so I asked my fella what time he was going to pick up his mate for my decorating as it passes my work. he asked why so I told him I would be late for work if I had to get the bus. He didnt answer me so I asked him if he could take me and asked him again what time he was picking up the decorator and his reply was 'well it looks like I have to go now doesnt it'! I didnt like his answer so I told him to sod off and it didnt matter and i would just go for the bus. We ended up arguing and he was shouting that he takes me everywhere . He then called me a selfish b*tch. I was so stunned and im so upset. I would do anything for him too! How should I deal with this?

2007-11-11 21:08:12 · 12 answers · asked by vintage-topper 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who I believe to be an alcoholic. Myself and my girlfriend have bent over backwards trying to help him, taking him out with us etc. He lost his wife, his home, and is currently staying at his parents. This has been really rough on them, he is 42 for God's sake. I am running out of things to try and patience. What can I do or do I drop him like a hot brick ?

2007-11-11 21:03:12 · 11 answers · asked by snowleopard300365 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so my boyfriend told me that he thinks im so gorgeous that sometimes he just sits and watches me sleep, at night. is that kind of weird?

2007-11-11 21:02:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

assuming the "i'm going to the restroom" trick doesn't work.

2007-11-11 21:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

have you ever fall in-love?... how does it feel?

2007-11-11 20:58:19 · 7 answers · asked by Pringles 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you like a short thin girl with long straight brown hair and quiet small boop (B cup)and green eyes ???????? Honestly ?????? Is it true that if you are not tall blonde and like Pamela Anderson you can't attract a guy ????

well i know my question sounds silly ... and yes i'm young (16) and totally insecure... i don't ask you to boost my confidence i was just wondering what is the general thought of real people because if i believe all the magazines and tv i should go straight ahead to a plastic surgeon .... and find a recipe to become tall.
Not big boops are always not attractive and not beautiful ??????

2007-11-11 20:58:01 · 5 answers · asked by ....................... 7 in Singles & Dating

Should you forgive an ex who cheated on you and then the next day, he says he wants to have a single life?
Should you still be okay with an ex even though his break up reason is just a lie, when in truth he started liking that one girl?
Should you forgive that type of person?
Should you still be friends with him and act like nothing happened?
Should I forgive that one girl (who i thought was a friend) but end up betraying me in my back and act like nothin happened?
Should I still hang out with them and show them that Im good and nothing is bothering me?
Should I act fake or just ignore them?


Sorry if its complicated, but its hard to explain everything.

2007-11-11 20:56:20 · 6 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you marry me if I had eagle claws? I only have one good tooth. I have to keep it in my pocket in a napkin so it don't get chipped. My left leg has a half peg in it. My hair looks like I got a birds nest in it. I live in a cardboard box under a bridge. I just need love. Who is willing to marry me and where do you want to do this?

Did I mention I also have a glass eye?

2007-11-11 20:41:17 · 17 answers · asked by Bree 3 in Weddings

The 1st marriage was anulled and the 2nd marriage lasted 2 years and ended in mistrust and dishonesty.

2007-11-11 20:40:41 · 13 answers · asked by MIA 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a very talented person but have made a lot of mistakes in my life. How do I get a life back on track thats near failure?

2007-11-11 20:38:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Mmmkay, well first off this question isn't meant to be perverted in any sort of way. By touching I mean do women find it stimulating if say a man were to touch you on your arm while you were having a conversation. Or playfully grab your shoulders...just subtle "touches" along those lines....sorry if this doesn't make any sense, it's late as hell.

2007-11-11 20:36:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy. He keeps staring at me and when I look his way he pretends he is busy doing something. He always write notes to me, that says.. " Hi how was your weekend?" or "How have you been?". He always comes up to me and say hello. Sometimes when he see me, and I look at him he pretend that he didn't see me.And he is really popular and i am not. Do you think he likes me? And what should I do?
Thanks for reading! xox

2007-11-11 20:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by Rochelle 1 in Singles & Dating

If you were given 24 hours to be a girl,
What would you do?

2007-11-11 20:32:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 20:31:54 · 2 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

My father died some years ago, but my parents divorced when I was five. Now in my thirties, I got married several years ago. I was the last child to leave home and get married. My mom retired two years before I got married. Then I got married and the whole relationship changed. My brothers and sisters had fallen out with her many times over the years, so when I left home, she was aggressive with me too, and my wife. It put unecessary pressure on our marriage. My mom never understood that my wife, and my life, comes first. It has to, right?

Anyway, I find it harder and harder to be friends with my mom. My question is, how much should I be doing for her? She is a generally negative person, even though I try and gee her up, she is not interested in improving her life, alwayts seeing the black side of things. Add in that she gets really nasty when she drinks alcohol.

I care about her, but can't bear spend time with her. What else should I do?

2007-11-11 20:23:43 · 13 answers · asked by jonoxk 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my lover is the sweetest , funniest, loving guy and i belive that he really love me but when he got angry at me he yell and say bad words at me, he's like a crazy person wd mental illness ") , and blame me for making him behave that way ?!? i really dont understand, should i stay or go?

2007-11-11 20:20:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend dated this girl for about one year. There relationship was never that great but he is basically obsessed with her.

Well here we are TWO YEARS after they broke up and my friend and I are both in college (different schools about 3 hours away) and I go up there one weekend and low and behold she is there (she goes to a school near him).

Anyways. We get to drinking and talking and her and i end up kissing and becoming really good friends

Over the past month I have spoken with her a lot and went on a date with her and got to second base with her in her basement

Anyways. Long story short my best friend found out and he’s furious at me because “he loves her”.

what do you folks think I should do? i really like him as a friend but hes really ******* things up for me as far as my relationship with this girl becuase of his obsession. what can i do that will be good for everyone? how can i make him see that he is being selfish and full of false hope?

we are all 20

2007-11-11 20:11:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-11 20:11:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 21! Recently my fellas mum left and moved 100 miles away to live with a fella she met through a dating agency! When she left, she left her 13 yr old behind leaving it up to us to care for her! We moved in with her and her older brother (25) as he could not cope financially and looking after her! Since moving in I have not seen my family and I am constantly feeling really down! I am always tired, my mouths full of ulcers, my skin has all dried up on my face! But the thing is that I feel guilty for it because I know I am not the only one going through a hard time! As I am sure you can imagine living with a 13 yr old, that you dont really know it really hard! Her mood changes really quick and she can be quite nasty! Ive heard her saying things behind my back! I just dont know what to do! I do everything I can to try and make up for her mum deserting her but its just thrown back in my face! I am just at breaking point! I know my blood pressure is high as I can feel it! What do I do?

2007-11-11 20:11:14 · 17 answers · asked by emzy 3 in Family

I lied to my Ex a lot in our relation of 4 years, we loved each other a lot!when we broke up. he date many times after our relation! After months of breaking, we are back in touch and trying to get back together! I love him so! and i stopped lying to him because he means a lot to me! what shall i do to convince him again?

2007-11-11 20:10:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why would someone who is practically engaged start another relationship and not end their engagement...besides the fact that they're immature...

2007-11-11 20:10:26 · 6 answers · asked by ele 5 in Singles & Dating