and would do anything for them but in the end you know theyre not good for you and its best to part?like we have had sex 3 times and hooked up twice.only problem is she has a bf and she pretty much begged me to sleep with her and i felt bad but i was like ok ill do it,she wants it and i want it so we had sex.ever since then shes started ignorning me and we where best friends.im not sure what to do.she knows how i feel about her but she uses it to her advantage.like she knows i love her but how do i tell her i dont want to do this anymore.i cant carry on being in love with someone who treats me like she does?how do I get over her?
2007-11-11 21:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok....sorry to be harsh but this girl is a b****. She is not respecting you, and she isn't respecting her boyfriend.
No matter how you feel about her, nobody...NOBODY should make you feel so bad.
She doesn't deserve your time.
Just be blunt and tell her it's over...she has disrespected you and now much face the consequences, or else you will be kicking yourself for not going through with it.
The sooner you let her go, the sooner you can move on and find somebody who will love and respect you the way you deserve.
Good on you for realising that you need to get rid of her.
2007-11-11 21:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by Kylie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her ur feelings. But let her know u dont want to cause conflict between her and her bf. If shes been sleeping wiv u chances are she really likes u. If she is being distant its prob coz she has messed her own head up by havin sex wiv u. She now knows that there are two guys interested and she just dosnt know wot do do for the best. I suggest you stay away while she is wiv her bf but let her know ur feelings so she can make an informed choice.. Its hard i know, ive been there.
2007-11-12 05:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont contact her anymore. somehow i feel she treats you as a rebound and a bootycall.
forget about her already. ignore her just as she does. and just go on and look for another better girls that you deserve. imagine that now she has a bf and she still have sex with you, and what if you were the bf and your gf is having sex with someone else. thats so not cool.
just treat her like shes not there anymore. she doesnt deserve the friendship that you have given her. and you definitely dont deserve someone you know that misbehaves behind the bf's back.
go on now and look for other girls to befriend with. maybe youll find someone way better. good luck.
2007-11-12 05:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by -pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds horrid. You need to get back out there start meeting other girls and get over her. Then you will see you deserve better and be happier for it . Also when she realizes you have moved on she will probably come running after you. the tables have turned!
2007-11-12 05:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by hotlips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is exactly why you shouldn'thave sex before you are married.
2007-11-12 05:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋