Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

She is hot and I think she would go for it. How can I approach her without getting fired?

2007-11-11 17:39:34 · 12 answers · asked by Christophertallingsworthiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Tried everything with this guy I was married to for 8 years. We had 3 of our own children and one from a prior marriage. After our divorce, he tried to get back together with me, but I was happy with things the way they were and wasn't ready. I would spend nights over at his house because he wanted me to and I was lonely too. And then, boom ,he met someone, and now when I thought we were working things out, all has beenspoiled because of this other person. What do you do in a situation like this? What can I say to him now? I feel betrayed, and am concerned that he is thinking the grass is greener on the other side. He is so infatuated with this woman. Any advise? I would like to be a family again. My kids are confused, and counseling would have saved our marriage. I can not talk to him... Is it true that love is blind. I keep telling him that this woman is not going to work out for him.To top it all off, the weekend that he doesn't want the kids,he is taking vacation with her

2007-11-11 17:31:42 · 15 answers · asked by Time4Tivo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel kinda bad inside, cause i feel like im a little whore kinda. i like to sometimes were low cute camis to school justso i get some extra attention from the guys, and well i feel uncofortable saying this but well....id dont mind if they look at them, but i dont mean like tjhat i mean look just at my shirt ya know. i feel really bad cause i know im not a **** but does that kinda make me one? =( please help me out.

2007-11-11 17:29:09 · 15 answers · asked by We all will be the greatest 3 in Friends

i met this guy on a summer soccer leage quite a few years ago when i was a sophomre in high school and he was a senior. we were friends then he moved six states away. we kept in touch talked on the phone every once in a while,few letters but not much. i didn't hear from him for about 8 months then all the sudden he started calling again. he got really overprotective, demanding to know where i'd been if i'd missed his call earlier. he'd give me a guilt trip, sayingi'm the only one he can talk to and trust and then i end up not being there. recently i've had some serious health problems, spend lots of time in hospitals and i don't always feel like a three hour phone conversation. now hes talking about having kids. i'm getting ready for college i do not want kids. or to be married. i'm still a teenager. how do i end this? i want a clean cut with nothing left unclear. i do not want kids, i do not want to get married i do not want a relationship right now. i want my independence.

2007-11-11 17:28:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can my grandma get in trouble if she lets me move to a other state with frineds.?k im 16 going on 17 and i know ppl in a other state and the are older then 30 years old
i need and want to get away from this part of my life and IS THERE A WAY WE DON'T HAVE TO USE THE OF GO TO THE COURTS and or not deal with COPS ?( WITHOUT )

2007-11-11 17:21:53 · 3 answers · asked by Kally A 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my wife, and I love being with her. The problem is, because of my job, I find myself very exhausted most of the time. She has been expressing to me that she wants to spend more time with me. I want to also, but she is an active person and I'm more laid back, and usually tired. And in all this, I usually find little to no time for myself. What time we spend together usually consists of my lunch break, or sitting around at home.

The thing is, I would like to spend more time with her, but she wants to get out and go places and do things, while I want to rest and recover. She is happiest when she is physically active, I am happiest when I'm mentally active. She gets frustraited sitting around, and I get frustraited running around.

We both want to spend more quality time together, and even get out and go somewhere (small town, few options). And I want to have more time to sit down, rest, and let my creative and intellectual side out.

Any suggestions?

2007-11-11 17:20:18 · 6 answers · asked by The Link 4 in Marriage & Divorce

His girlfirend asked me out but i really like her and i want to go out with her, but not dissapoint my frined. What should i do.

2007-11-11 17:18:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 17:17:47 · 10 answers · asked by tony s 5 in Singles & Dating

My friend is getting oin my last nerves. she is always talking about this boy who oviously does not give a care about her. But i have tol dher to just leave him alone. But she still tries to talk to him say she love him. But all he does is ignore her flirt with other girls and just mainly ignore her all the way. I hate to see my friend running up behind some boy. How do i tell her im tired of this? she is always comming to me all hurt and sad. all she do is talk about him. But he does not care about her. advice please

2007-11-11 17:14:56 · 8 answers · asked by glamorous 1 in Friends

I have this best friend of mine. I've known him for 6 months, and from the minute we met, we talked like we've known each other for forever. Talking on the phone til 3 AM the whole nine. We have the same sarcastic sense of humor, love mostly the same movies [he's a b**** when it comes to horror movies tho].

And we've actually kissed more than once, but it was only a peck on the lips. I really like him, and I HOPE that he likes me, but I don't want to freak him out by asking.

And if he does, what should I do?! I've never had a boyfriend and I don't need my mother telling the whole family either...-_-'. Any advice for this confuzzled girl?

2007-11-11 17:11:14 · 22 answers · asked by MyTokioRomanceXo 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I'm 14, and all when I was 13, I wasn't the only one that was immature and laughed at silly things. But now, it seems as though I AM the only that thinks that things like that are funny. Also, I seem to be the only one that uses the word "dude" anymore. I act really childish (I don't know why), and even my 10 year old brother is more mature than I am (somewhat).

This seems to be a problem because, I really feel like a kid around all my friends, and my immaturity seems to scare people away (so, no one wants to talk to me). Is there a way to change this? I can't help being immature and acting silly (for example, overreacting and screaming when I see my dog, or acting like a little kid). Also, I don't know where I got it from, but I tend to talk without thinking. I can't help it, I just do. So yeah, it makes me seem intimidating and a like a weirdo. I really don't like this, and I just realized it today. Is there a way to change that? or does it just come naturally?

2007-11-11 17:07:24 · 21 answers · asked by DookieCookie 4 in Friends

Hi,

I am 45 years old and my wife is 33. I didn't have sex with my wife in the past 3 months, but she says she is pregnent from past 2 months. My neighbour is a 25 year old boy, he always stays at my home and my wife always talks about his body strengh and appearance. I am sure it is not my baby, but I am helpless. What should I do now?

2007-11-11 17:05:04 · 7 answers · asked by KRIS BEN P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been posting this question for sometimes.It is hard for me to make decision to break up with my girlfriend.
She is seeing someone else i know she told me. Even though she and he are now apart but they are meeting each other on phone and to meet at his place outside country . Please advice me the best suggestion to break her up. Every time I want break with her it just that I cant after seeing her also Love that much . I know it is too lame for a man to be soft hearted but that guy is married and with children already? Please need big time help , although I have many friends say is to break up .What should I do? And This is my first love too , I am deeply loving her . But it cannot be like this forever it is torturing too for me . I see her always say she dont have antthing to do with him but facts is facts they have do wat u all have though of if they are together for a day of two?

2007-11-11 17:01:52 · 3 answers · asked by Bren C 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in Texas and I'm about to meet a guy in Michigan, and im feeling anxious. And just trying to see if online matchmaking works does anyone have any real life experiences on the subject?

2007-11-11 16:55:22 · 4 answers · asked by ~confused~ 3 in Singles & Dating

My dad was cheating on my mom back in '93 and she kicked him out. So he married the whore he was cheating with. She tore our family in two. She's driven my poor dad to near-suicide multiple times. She turned my dad against his mother, his siblings and his two oldest sons (mainly, me and my twin brother.) She whores out on him regulary, because he's a commercial fisherman and is gone for periods of time. Because my twin brother moved up there, she treats him like ****, forces him to sleep in the basement, can't leave the house except for school,and, very rarely, Mom's house. Because I didn't move with him, I'm the family black sheep, and she conned my little half-brothers, who used to jump with joy upon hearing I was coming over, into believing I'm the Anti-Christ. Even Dad hates me,and considers me a "Nuisance" when I come over. I told her to her face once, and Dad threatened to kill me. Also, she'll abandon the kids to work over the local tavern. Please help me out here, I'm confused.

2007-11-11 16:52:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wife and I have attended 2 wedding receptions here in the USA. We are dissappointed with the amount and quality of food served. We had attended probably about 50 wedding dinners betwen us in our lifetime, in other parts of the world, and we never had come home from a wedding party still feeling hungry.

The 2 families are from middle class, and we were quite shocked. I would like to receive comments on your experiences.

2007-11-11 16:51:14 · 16 answers · asked by alex utd 2 in Weddings

After he called me and told me he couldnt walk , was on a walker I really felt for him . I started coming over and cooking,cleaning , shopping.We broke up because I wanted to get married and he didnt.Well Ive been helping him for about 3 months and he wont be able to walk for another month.2 weeks ago we found out his Dad has cancer.Its lung cancer and he is very weak ,not eating and in and out of the hospital.His mom and Dad love me.However my Ex has been a jerk to me all weekend talking to me like Im a moron. .Well I locked myself out of my car and he kept taunting me saying why dont you call your brothers to help you.Your a pitiful orphan your own brothers wont help you.Well Im not close to my brothers and the one was out of town the other couldnt of helped me.So I called a locksmith. I wanted to punch him in the mouth I mean I just want to walk away.However I did have sunday supper with his folks.His Dad wants us to go to church as a family.He is in bad shape.I dont knowwhat 2 do

2007-11-11 16:50:56 · 11 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering what was everyones worst spanking story. Im 18 but when I was 16 I crashed my parents car driving too fast at night. The next day my mom said she would take care of it. My dad agreed. After dinner that night I went to my room. My mom came up there with her 3 implements. I've been given a spanking with these for the last 10 years. As always the hairbrush, belt, and a thin tree branch. I've never taken a bare butt spanking before so I never minded spankings. I got over her knee for the hairbrushing and she said "no no no, pants and undies down today. I begged but she said they are coming down sometime, if I resist she will double my spanking. So I lowered my pants and my underwear. naked in front of my mom. sucke. The over her knee. 5 minutes hairbrush. Then I got up and was told to lay down with pillows under my butt. 5 minutes belt then 5 thin branch. I couldnt move my butt was so swollen. I had marks for weeks and it was really bruised. Whats yours? suck worse then mine

2007-11-11 16:46:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-11 16:45:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering in GA or Fl is it ok for a 17 to have sex with a 14 year old as long as she agrees to it?? What if he is 18?? I was just wondering cause i thought they changed the law on that....

2007-11-11 16:44:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so this is the story theres this girl i first knew her last year in class but didnt really talk wit her but inthe summer i started talkin wit her on myspace now in skool we flirted did all dat i like her alot an she does to for a fact even her friends told me i tried akin her out but she tol me she aint redy for a realatonship since she jus got out of 1but her friends keep telling me to go wit her go be around her but i just cant idk y . i also am like clueless wen it cums to saying sumthing interesting or sumthin funny an admit in being a afraid at showing her affection in fronty of her friends and my friends cuz of wat they might say or her and recently i messed up i ignored the whole time i was chillin with her an her friends and mine cause i jus stay quiet and dont know wat to say and be funny or interesting i know for a fact i can wit this girl if i can just be more interesting talk more to her an her friends and show her more affection but i just clueless i need help

2007-11-11 16:41:19 · 3 answers · asked by losing it 1 in Singles & Dating

Is the act of getting or giving a lap dances and act of unfaithfulness? No Religious talk please, just everyday opinion.

2007-11-11 16:40:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is in a codependent relationship with his brother, who has issues with gambling and substance, and who has been in and out of prison for the past 6 years. H "detached" from brother and was doing well, but now BIL is out of jail, and I learned from a credit card bill that H had rented a car for BIL for a month and a half on our insurance, using his own license. BIL has a suspended license for DUIs. If there had been an accident where there were injuries or death, we would have been liable, and insurance wouldn't have covered it. We could have lost everything -- house, assets, the works, and with three teens headed for college, it would have been disastrous. I can't believe my husband did this without consulting me, and that he did something that put the family's financial welfare at stake. I can't trust my husband anymore and would like to protect our assets. I would like to avoid divorce for the kids' sake, but is that possible in this case?

2007-11-11 16:39:10 · 2 answers · asked by EstherD 2 in Marriage & Divorce

=) List some.

2007-11-11 16:38:08 · 5 answers · asked by ZebraRider 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to answer people who had similiar questions with positive answers but yikes ...now I find I cant stand my very own in laws what to do its driving me up the wall, luckily my husband agrees with why im annoyed as he sees it to , we are expecting a baby in 3 months and m.i.l is just so obssessd its not funny like as if its her baby coming soon, she is so over bearing and smothering with my brother in laws 7 y.o and 7.5 month old baby that his wife actually never takes them to her house but she lives a stones throw away and walks to their house annoying them and uninvited..... wtf. she has already told me how to dress baby and he isnt even born yet!...omg im so so stressed im getting constant miagrains...what to do?

2007-11-11 16:37:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why or why not?

2007-11-11 16:36:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

seems like my destiny or fate is for people to hurt or use me...i always meet guys like that..why can't i find a decent guy that actually cares, thats all i want..im so hurt

2007-11-11 16:33:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 16:31:48 · 3 answers · asked by Rachael 1 in Singles & Dating

i heard in some places its called some type of rape, but if both partners agree... isn't that like defying the function of life itself?

2007-11-11 16:31:37 · 50 answers · asked by Zetsu 6 in Singles & Dating

Would 24 hours every two weeks be too much?

2007-11-11 16:31:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce