i feel kinda bad inside, cause i feel like im a little whore kinda. i like to sometimes were low cute camis to school justso i get some extra attention from the guys, and well i feel uncofortable saying this but well....id dont mind if they look at them, but i dont mean like tjhat i mean look just at my shirt ya know. i feel really bad cause i know im not a **** but does that kinda make me one? =( please help me out.
2007-11-11 17:29:09 · 15 answers · asked by We all will be the greatest 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well this sounds weird but i just answerd this question and the guy who answerd this quesiont answerd that question also and i said to myself that guy is gonna answer one of my questions, and he did. huh?
2007-11-11 17:36:29 · update #1
i only wear low cut shirts to school and i only wear them once or twice a week, and i havent ever slept around.
2007-11-11 17:37:51 · update #2
its not really that much cleavage and yes i always ave a sweater/henley type shirt over it, i dont go over board, i just like to wear them even if i have a jacket over it.
2007-11-11 17:40:41 · update #3
Well, certain clothing can get attention from boys.
Always be yourself.
You showing off your cleavage, only makes them think of you naked, and half the time they befriend you with hopes to score.
(Remember, be yourself)
2007-11-11 17:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Skyleigh's Mom :)™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT a whore so don't you ever say that about yourself! There is nothing wrong with showing a little cleavage though. Just keep it tasteful. While I was reading your story, it seems to me that you have low self-esteem about yourself and you are feeling insecure. Find something that interests you and try to keep yourself entertained- such as yoga, an art class, gardening, whatever. Keep in mind that there are plenty of fish in the sea and be yourself, sweetheart. Don't be somebody that you're not. Do what YOU think is comfortable for you. The right guy hasn't found you yet and there is no need for you to show cleavage just to get a guy's attention because you don't want to attract the WRONG kind of attention. Good luck.
2007-11-11 17:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow lil gal, you sure do have a low opinion of yourself and worse yet you don't know the gen description of a whore. You are seeking the wrong kind of attention and can mistake a guys interest in your assets as real love which can in turn cause you to have sex with more guys then you can count on your fingers and toes. It is at that point somone might call you a ho. I would believe that either your father is not in the picture or does not give you much affection and this is what is making you seek out male attention in the manner that you currently are.
2007-11-11 17:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt say that u are a whore yet. I think every girl would like a guys attention by impressing them by what they wear. Just dont go too far for attention. Like too tight, too short, low cut shirts, size too short and small skirts etc.
2007-11-11 17:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never start depending on what your body looks like to get attention. Years from now you will be very disappointed when that body does not look as good as it does now. Learn to get attention by being witty, smart, fun, interesting, etc... You can still dress cute, but have a lot more going for you than just your body!!!
2007-11-11 17:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to want attention from boys, but you don't have to wear low-cut shirts to get it. Just be yourself. If you feel uncomfortable doing it, stop. If you don't-continue. Unless you're under five feet and exchange sex for money, you're not a "Lil' Whore".
2007-11-11 17:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're not a whore....calm down....you like attention....that's fine...just don't take that attention to the next level and start wanting it for the wrong reasons or acting upon it.....Be a tease who cares!? Just don't sleep around....that just wouldn't be safe nor smart. Wear what you want lady! If you've got it, flaunt it!
2007-11-11 17:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Riley P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A whore? No. A tease? Kinda. And that's a dangerous thing to be these days with all those over-aggressive jackasses out there.
2007-11-11 17:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Same here. It's just that sometimes I get unwanted attention...like an ugly guy liking u and askin u out....anyway...ur not a w.... u just crave attention from guys.
2007-11-11 17:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by Danuta F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal, every girl goes through that stage. it might last days, weeks, months, or for some years..
But at one point you will realize that you can get attention and power without showing skin.!!
2007-11-11 17:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋