My friend is getting oin my last nerves. she is always talking about this boy who oviously does not give a care about her. But i have tol dher to just leave him alone. But she still tries to talk to him say she love him. But all he does is ignore her flirt with other girls and just mainly ignore her all the way. I hate to see my friend running up behind some boy. How do i tell her im tired of this? she is always comming to me all hurt and sad. all she do is talk about him. But he does not care about her. advice please
2007-11-11 17:14:56 · 8 answers · asked by glamorous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You do or say nothing...When she realizes that there is no way, be there for her when she falls...She will really need you then.
2007-11-11 17:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you can do for yourself is to let that girl vent and hear what she has to say. Let her know one more time that this idiot is not good enough for her and she will find somebody worthy of her. This dude is a waste of her time and he made it very clear that he doesn't want to be bothered by her. His behavior is self-explanatory and your friend is way too naive to see that. Once your friend is finished venting, don't say anything else to her. Let her learn her lesson the hard way because that is the only way she will learn this loser's true colors. Good luck and do whatever you can to be there for her.
2007-11-11 17:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her. she really needs you, especially at a time like this. i've been through her exact situation and my friends being there for me really helped me out. try to have more girls nights with her. if she sees how good of a friend u r to her, she will be there for u when u need her the most too.
2007-11-11 18:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by Gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen and be patient. Let her vent. She's going to keep doing this, I promise you....this won't be the last boy she's chasing who doesn't want her in return.
2007-11-11 17:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by High Fructose Corn Syrup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be supportive.
i mean she'll get beyond this stage.
let her like who she wants to like. at one point or another she'll learn that she should get over him
you can drop hints about it..but nothing too dramatic unless you want to lose her as a friend.
2007-11-11 17:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by anon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive. One day it may be you that needs a friend. She will eventually figure it out.
2007-11-11 17:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her nicley and if she doesnt understand then shes not a friend
2007-11-11 18:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your mouth shut, and listen.
this'll pass.
i'm sure you've gotten on her nerves many a times too.
you're not perfect.
2007-11-11 17:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by ohsohot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋