What should I do for my wife's cheating character?

Question

Hi,

I am 45 years old and my wife is 33. I didn't have sex with my wife in the past 3 months, but she says she is pregnent from past 2 months. My neighbour is a 25 year old boy, he always stays at my home and my wife always talks about his body strengh and appearance. I am sure it is not my baby, but I am helpless. What should I do now?

Answer 1

Get a spy cam dude. See if you can get it on film and then show her the evidence and dump her and once the child is born get a paternity test you don't want to get stuck paying for a child that is not yours.

Answer 2

You're not helpless! File for seperation and get a DNA test when the baby is born. You're obviously not in a good marriage, especially if you haven't had sex in three months! It's also pretty much in your face that the baby is someone elses. I'm not sure I even understand why you're asking this question! Good luck to you!

Answer 3

You are helpless?
Kick the guy out. Isn't that obvious?
If you own the place, tell your wife to go live with him.
Don't be a pushover. I expected you to write that you made the guy pay for screwing your wife.

She will cheat again a few years down the road. Tell the guy that if he is nice, you might let him see YOUR kid or if you prefer, tell her she needs to choose between the baby with the other guy or you.
Why aren't you more mad?

Answer 4

Ask her if she has had sex with the boy. If she says no, ask her whose baby it is. Remind her that you haven't had sex for 3 months. Tell her that you want a DNA test done.

Answer 5

You are 45?! Well act like it!

Sit down talk with her (not us) .. share your feelings and work things out or go, it's pretty simple.

Answer 6

I hate to say this, but I would leave her and ask for a paternity test. Please do be absolutely certain of everything before doing so though....

Answer 7

agree with marina... get a spine and stand firm.. she is taking advantage of u {}