His girlfirend asked me out but i really like her and i want to go out with her, but not dissapoint my frined. What should i do.
2007-11-11 17:18:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His girlfriend wants to go out with me and i want to say yes but i do not want to dissapoint my frined. Guys what should i do?
2007-11-11 17:20:14 · update #1
Do not go out with her! There is no way your friend will ever understand you dating his girlfriend even if - especially if - they are having problems! Your friend needs you to be there for him right now. By going out with his girlfriend, you'd be "kicking him while he's down". Not only will he feel like he's losing his girlfriend, but also his friend. Put yourself in his shoes...would you like it if he dated your girlfriend...even if she was a soon-to-be ex?
AFTER they have broken up, and once the heartbreak has healed, if you still want to date his ex, talk to him about it. Friends are hard to find, so don't throw it away for a relationship that may just be a rebound for her.
2007-11-11 17:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how you would feel if your friend did that to you. Of course you should not go out with her. Wait until everything has cooled down before you do anything like that.
2007-11-12 01:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mate as I have lived through this situation- dont do it
trust me girls come and go mates should be for ever.
if she is truely "the one" for you she will understand you dont wont to hurt your mate and ive you some time and space for him to heal and get over her. Once this has happened feel free to talk to him and let him know how you feel and ASK if it is ok with him if you start seeing this girl.
that way you can keep you mate and get the girl...
2007-11-12 02:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even touch that one. It's not only like dating a friend's ex - they've been having troubles. Tell her you're not interested and stay away.
2007-11-12 01:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you would never risk your friendship over a girl so you can't go out with her. Tell her her own reputation will suffer if she goes out with her ex's friend.
Learn this lesson early - you don't sh!t where you eat!!
2007-11-12 01:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about it and see what happens let it go for a little while do date her let everything settle down and see what happens . you never no it might be a set up or it might be your chance......
2007-11-12 09:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Rebel Cowgirl 10/13/07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it . it's a set up bro
2007-11-12 01:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋