2007-11-11 16:45:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm new at this and I didn't know people would respond fast. I didn't type the situation in yet. Here's the story...I've been with my girlfriend for three years now. And right now, she's 16. I think the world of her and I love her more than anything. Recently, things been weird with her. I know why she left me...I was her first boyfriend and first love and she doesn't want to go through life knowing she didnt date around to support her if I'm the one or not. I understand where she is coming from but it hurts to know she left to date around. We havn't been broken up for 5 days now and it hurts to know she already like another guy. And when I talk to her...she get's ill at me like I did something wrong. Question is, will I ever get her back or is this really it?
2007-11-11 16:53:17 · update #1
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2007-11-11 16:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by genocide2012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that...but on the flip side, embrace the challenge of coping through this disappointment, with courage, and believing in yourself. Take this time to focus on self. See each day with set goals of trying new things, seeing new places, meeting new friends, etc...find your passion of zest for life. If its sports, find a team, join one...if its the outdoors, check out new travel routes to camp grounds for fishing, hiking etc...Sometimes we lose focus and forget vision/s by being involved in the everyday life, and/or hustle and bustle of life. Healing takes time, but participating in life does help...a lot! Physical fitness makes a big difference relieving stress, and adds better health at the same time, with a sensible diet. The more you participate, the better you feel. Sleeping patterns also improve. Each day you re-gain strength emotionally and physically. Hope that helps some, good luck!
2007-11-11 17:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by lostrebelchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you do anything to get her back? If not, then it will take time to grieve about her loss in your life. Take this time to heal and do not steam ahead at the first cute girl you see. Let your self be alone for a while, and then afterwards then you can seek out a new girlfriend. The best advice is to take it slow, and don't go on the rebound for any 'ole girl.
2007-11-11 16:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by denise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a friend that truely cares about you and doesen't want you to be down. If your sad or depressed about it they will help you a lot. A bit of advice though, you might want this friend to be a girl, a lot of guys will judge you because they might think you are being too emotional, but there are exceptions, but if that friend is a guy, make sure they are not gay, that never ends well.
2007-11-11 16:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only one way out. Talk to her. You might get ignored, insulted, even slapped, but what's a little humiliation when you're in love?? ;-) Keep trying, like the spider that inspired Robert Bruce. And do let us know.... ;-)
When you love somebody, you should let her go free...... if she comes back to you, she's yours. If she doesn't she never was yours. :-)
Stay happy!
Signing off,
Fra Diavolo (Brother Devil)
2007-11-11 16:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Fra Diavlo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out, circulate, get on line to a free dating service, go out to malls or coffee shops or laundromats or supermarkets and talk to women, do something and find another (or several women) who are interesting and interested. Then once you've had 5 or 6 women, you won't be missing the previous one.
2007-11-11 16:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Paul R 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh.
Get over it.
Move on.
and go find a new hobby or
hangout with some of your
buddies or something.
Girlfriend left you, NOT the end of the
world man.
2007-11-11 16:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by jo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to do something to get your mind off her. Don't rush into a new relationship just yet. Get a hobby, read a book, play a video game, DO SOMETHING!
2007-11-11 16:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
recover from her. in case you spend it gradual questioning approximately her and attempting to get her decrease back, you will leave out out on somewhat some opportunities to discover somebody else. if she left you, she's in all likelihood no longer the only. (:
2016-11-11 05:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do alot of activities like sports or going out with your friends. Never be alone!
And if you just pretend your ready for other girls it will still help yourself. Just try not to think about it!
2007-11-11 16:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by Marcus Paul 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋