Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

well im a 25 year old female seeing a 39 year old male.when we first met he was more intrested than i was, it took me to actuly a few times to really party or just hang out with him (we have the same circle of friends) to really want to do any thing with him. never any disrespect from him, then it was like what ever between us we still talked but nothing serious after that. i hadent talked to him in a while recently i called him to invite him to a party at my house i was having for my best friend we ended up hooking up and i was all for it but when it came down to it i noticed that i felt the same way i first did when we started off being together?i thought it was cause i didn't see him in along time but he called and came over last night and yeah we hooked up and its a trip cause again i felt the same way from the start. he's a very attractive man, now my ? is why do i really
feel this way? i know i like him or i wouldent be hooking up with
him, im confused i need some advice

2007-11-11 15:23:18 · 1 answers · asked by ms droopy 1 in Singles & Dating

My mate wanted me to post this. Hes having trouble with the ladies lol
The only 2 hes got are....

I'm here! "what are your other 2 wishes"
&
"Do you believe in love at 1st sight? or should i walk past again?"

2007-11-11 15:23:02 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 15:22:57 · 14 answers · asked by Sydney Johnson 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 15:19:25 · 27 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I want to get engaged and have started discussing rings and whatnot. It turns out he doesn't even want a wedding band, but I think it's an important symbol of the marriage. I don't want to make him do something he doesn't want to, but I also don't want to have a lonely wedding band. Help?

2007-11-11 15:19:15 · 12 answers · asked by detectivejen 1 in Weddings

My husband started to join this sports , and he really loves the sport and theres just this girl who he started to get close with ... and everytime they take photo together (my husband and her)they dont post it up on the websites,because he have his hand over her shoulder,(he knows i hate that but he still does it) i have to caught them before he starts explaning ,or showing me the pics.I realise that he hides stuff about her with me..heres the catch ..he never invite me to join or show me around or even wanting to introduce me to them..(usually he would bring me along)..but i have to argue and argue until i end up inviting myself to go..and when im there i dont see them close to each other or even talk much to each other...and now ppl are making up rumours about him dating her behind my back....well because they are have issues in the team..!

so please tell me what do you think and explain why?
serious answers.....

2007-11-11 15:17:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my best friend is a boy and he likes me but he has a girl frind,talk about weird and a guy that is one year older than me likes me and then another guy that is two years older than me likes me .then my friend that is a girl has a boy friend and he likes me .!!!!....!!

so they r all really hot but witch one of then.
i dont like my best friend that is a boy like that and i CANT like my friend thats a girls boy friend !!!!!!!
what do i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
help!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-11 15:17:36 · 1 answers · asked by JUL!E 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm about to turn 19 next month and ive only had 1 g/f for a short time and we broke up because of certain misunderstandings.... now i find out after 4 months that she still likes me and now this other girl likes me. I like both of them equally and can't choose one over the other because they are like 2 of my best friends as well. The other girl has like 2 other guys that like her. Im not sure about how i would feel being with either girl. The ex has given me a week to decide which one i want, and im leaning toward wanting to live my life and go wherever it takes me, but they want me to decide on one of them. Please share your opinions on what i could/should do.

2007-11-11 15:16:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I have two songs I like a lot what do you think of them? What one do you like best or do you have something better? I am looking for something different and young I am only 27 and he is 30. Thank you in advances!
Colbie Caillat - Bubbly
Lifehouse - You And Me

2007-11-11 15:16:59 · 3 answers · asked by Mrs E 3 in Weddings

Why Age of Empires 3: The Asian Dynasties pc cd games for Windows when I installed the whole expansion pack and I don't have other civilizations to play with?

It only let me play with the Japan's campaign, but they advertised there are supposedly 3 civilization for me to choose from to pleasure myself when I can find a little bit of my leisure time in a very busy scheduled already. I need all yar helps from Microsoft tech support and Big huge games and Ensemble studios and everyone has experience such problem and it will be greatly appreciated in advance!

Basically I supposed to have 3 civilization to play as anytime I want, but not in my case. When I clicked on campaign, it takes me to Japan's campaign with no other options for me to choose from.

Thanks ya'll folks much!

2007-11-11 15:16:50 · 1 answers · asked by Dongfeng!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i talked to a goof ball friend of mine a few minutes ago, cuz the other day he just started asking everyone yes or no in msn. he didn't actually ask anything, just yes or no. Then today i asked what the yes or no was for, and he said to kill himself and said he didnt do it cuz most people said no. I told him i didnt buy it, but he said believe what u want.. which actually made me believe it may be true. he said he just felt like it cuz he was really really sad for no reason, but what worries me is that he really is a goofy happy kid, and he suddendly was serious bout this... i didn't say anything else, exept for "i love u" but i dunno should i believe him or is he just lookin for attention? if it is tue what should i do about it?
ps dont give me a phone number i should call cuz i dont live in the US

2007-11-11 15:16:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey, I'm dating a book loving, halo mater, fantasy fanatic, baseball playing guy with a sweet traditonal way of treating me and we are both in middle school. What should I get him for our 1yr of knowing each other aniversity?

2007-11-11 15:15:02 · 1 answers · asked by cowgal1994 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 15:04:07 · 1 answers · asked by markymark 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom died when i was 8 from cancer im 13 now and since im a teenager i really need help what do i do

2007-11-11 15:04:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm adopted and i'm trying to find my real mother. I haven't seen her for about 9 years and i have a lot of information such as her name and maiden name, state she lives in, birthday, old husbands names, and where she was born. I also know where she was about 8 months ago but for some reason I'm lost. i cant find her I'm starting to lose hope, i really want to find her so dose any one have any tips or tricks for looking for people? I don't have money to search anywhere I'm 18 and going to school so anything free would be nice.

2007-11-11 15:03:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my wife wont give me oral at all, but always demands that i give her. i do love stimulating her but im getting tired of her refusing for me, i tried talking to her but that doesnt work, i suggested counseling but she refuses i tried stopping her oral but she getrs extremely angry and its no sex for 6 months if not more. what am i to do?
7 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer

2007-11-11 15:02:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have not spoken in 3 days. Everytime we're in the same room, he doesn't make eye contact. I feel grossed out at what he was doing. It wasn't just the typically thing he was doing. He had a pillow and balloons, etc. How can I get this out of my mind?

2007-11-11 15:02:18 · 7 answers · asked by Plondaranera 3 in Family

we already have 3 cats, 1 dog, i love the pets we have. he is jealous of the pets b/c he thinks i love them more them him. i want to get more pets b/c i think that we have a great home that more pets deserve to have. we have enough money, food,love, for more pets, there is no reason for not wanting to get more, except that he is jealous of the pets and the attention that they get. he claims i give them more attention then i give him. he is wrong. they are pets, they need love, they need a good home, there is nothing wrong with providing a good home for needy animals.

2007-11-11 15:02:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

-i like this girl
-shes really cute
-she told me she used to like me but then someone said
something about me and she stopped and this person was
a girl so i cant kick her ***
-i am friends with her friends
-i asked her to dance at a school dance and we did for
about 5 seconds but after i was told by her friend that it
was because she had felt bad for me
-im in seventh grade and so is she
-please dont tell me im too young to date since IM NOT!!
-i want to ask her to be my girlfriend not out on a date just
because thats how it works in our school
-i have been told by her friends that if i ask her she will
probobly say yes but this friend is not the most reliable
-she moved here about 1 1/2 years ago and didn't know me
very well when the person said this
-the person said "Eww! It's blah blah blah."
-the girls in my school have said this continuously since
second grade but it has stopped this year
-how should i ask her??

2007-11-11 15:00:45 · 1 answers · asked by joeyjjoeyj 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm single and when I go out guys will say "I know your boyfriend and/or husband is taking care of you." It happens so much I don't even bother to comment because when I do they don't believe me anyway. I don't wear a lot of jewelry or a lot of makeup. It's fustrating because I would like someone in my life at this point.

2007-11-11 14:58:44 · 1 answers · asked by peaches6 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 14:57:49 · 1 answers · asked by iluvmoi100 2 in Singles & Dating

& if you don't, then, do you have a crush?!? But if you do have a gf/bf, then how long have you been together & What is your age?!?(I am bored & Felt like taking a survey!!) Thanks & Have fun!!!!

2007-11-11 14:55:19 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or it can be how you want someone to ask you to marry them.

2007-11-11 14:53:02 · 8 answers · asked by lucasgirlbaby 2 in Weddings

I found out this evening that my girlfreind doesn't know who she is. She is very confused on life in general so to speak. She has been taking a bible study class and says he has no idea what she is reading she doesn't understand a word of it. She goes to church with me every sunday and she tells me tonight that the sermons confuse her she has no idea what to make of them. She doesn't understand why I love her. She doesn't understand why her doesn't want to live with her(she is nine by the way and i don't even understand that one.) Her daughter is constantly over at her grandparents house. FYI when her daughter was younger her ex-husband would treat them both like ****. he would constanly yell and scream tell her that she is worthless. She has never been in a loving relationship until now, and she is not handling this one very well. I love her with all my heart and am not going to abandon her. she constantly asks me why are you with me? I tell her it is because i love her with all.

2007-11-11 14:52:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 14:50:45 · 14 answers · asked by Bobbi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband told me a week ago that he is not in love with me anymore. We have been together for 9 years and we have two very young children. In your opinion can he fall back in love with me or am I waisting my time trying? I still love him very much I just dont want to be drug along just because we have kids together.....

2007-11-11 14:50:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands mom is literally a crack whore she smokes dope and sells her body on the street for it...me and her can't stand each other we almost got into a fight cause I told her she couldn't stay with us anymore cause she didn't want to work she wasn't trying to get clean and she was going out on crack beinges for days....My question is am I wrong for not letting her see her Grandaughter.? I just had my little girl on oct 23..and I have told my husband I don't want his mom around even if she gets clean which will never happen if she is in her 40's and she been on dope since she was 19.......no telling what diseases she is carrying from prostituting and drug use just the thought of her breathing the same air as my little girl freaks me out!!!.....Can I compromise in a situation like this?

2007-11-11 14:49:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I met this guy who told me he was separted from his wife, but they still live in the same home because they have a 2 year old daughter. He said he would leave but he doesnt want to miss all the growing up stuff she will be doing. He said him and his wife live in different bed rooms...... but when she found out he was seeing me.... she freaked out on him and wants to kick my ***. He called me and told me we had to take a break so he could get his stuff straight before we continued on our relationship.....to let things cool off some. For me not to call or email him for a while he would contact me soon to talk about it all. I think I already know whats up but I want to get some of your opinions.

2007-11-11 14:47:59 · 11 answers · asked by Willow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i have liked this guy for about 3 weeks now.
(i'm 14 btw)
and he's a year older,
so he tells all his friends and my friends that he likes me and another girl, he just can't decide.
then when i talk to him he says the same thing.
he calls me all the time and is ALL OVER ME (in a good way) at school. and were always together because we have tennis pratice together after school and we have most of the same friends. so he has liked me for the same ammount of time i liked him but the entire time he has liked some other girl(about 5 different ones)
last night we were at a friend's house and we ended up sneaking off to make out. and he is the BEST kisser. oh my god. i freaking melted!
hahah
then today when we were hanging out he was being all boyfriendish(rubbing my sholders, picking me up out of nowhere and like kissing me on the forehead)
but he didn't ask me out!
what the hell is goign on!!?!?!!?
thanks for reading all this...hahahha

2007-11-11 14:46:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my husband is a work aholic and makes his wok his number one priority! I know he loves our son & I but he is so busy all of the time and he is a position to get some of the work load off of him right now but he has to train someone to use a special program and SHE is a woman obviously by the "She" and they work in an office all day alone about 60miles away from here and I couldn't just pop in if I wanted to but thats not even the point. I have tried telling him that we need him more that he provides great financially but we need him more for security reasons we don't get to do things enough as a family! He works more than anybody I know and makes a great living for us, his average time sheet consist of 115HOURS+ in a two week time period and I think its to much! Anyways I don't know what I could do or say to him to get what I feel I need from him emotionally any ideas? P.S I have told him he doesn't really listen I need a way other than the blunt obvious you don't spend time with us

2007-11-11 14:41:19 · 4 answers · asked by Amberlyn 4 in Marriage & Divorce