Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

I really hate it when every time a black man makes it to the NBA or get a good job they always wanna run to the white girls. Thats the reason why we black women get so mad. It's so fustrating. Its like were not good enough for the successful black men. (Kobe Bryant) (Tay Diggs) Ect. Any black women feel me.

2007-11-11 13:12:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ever since i got out of my sophmore year, my friends arent talking to me, the reason why i droppped out, was because i couldn't spend anymore time with my loveone and my mom kicked me out because i couldn't find any job; non of them would hire me either :[

2007-11-11 13:12:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i didnt mean wat i said and hes taking it really serious!!

2007-11-11 13:12:02 · 21 answers · asked by MR.H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A "friend" that forgets all about the fact that you exist and breathe the same air she does until her raggedy boyfriend of 7 months shows up to her home out the blue on the weekend, and now she suddenly needs you to keep her 6 yr. old daughter for her on the weekends? You have been through war with this person (literally) and known her for over 3 years.

Now, she invites you to her new home while the boyfriend is out gallavanting with friends of his own, and you bring her a housewarming gift of a large candle, wine, and a houseplant...and expect to sit and chat for a few...but ANOTHER girlfriend calls them and tells them they need them to come straightaway to help with something, and you've been there all of 20 minutes...after she INVITED you to come in the first place. Now, she is trying to play nice and proper as she scurries for her keys and purse and shoes without blatently telling you to "get out"...

But calls you later that weekend to babysit the child so she can go out???

2007-11-11 13:09:58 · 17 answers · asked by goldenchilde11 2 in Friends

How do you tell someone is losing interest in you?

2007-11-11 13:09:55 · 18 answers · asked by ~*Lucy*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend just got surgery. He's out of the hostpital but is in bed resting. My friends and I want to visit him and do something special. Any ideas??? We want to make him feel special and feel much better after his surgery.

2007-11-11 13:09:20 · 1 answers · asked by InuKag4life 3 in Friends

I happen to be in love with this guy, right? He's smart, hysterical, and sooo cute! He's really good at science and he always does this weird flirting thing with me. My friend says it's kind of creepy. Why you ask?

Cuz this guy is my teacher and he's 13 years older than me.

Yes I am in love with him. Yes I have tried to give him up. No it cannot happen. What the heck can I do? Can I win him? Can he ever love me? Will this work out? What should I do?

Don't tell me to forget him. I CAN'T. He's perfectly amazing. I LOVE HIM. But what can I do about it?

Hellllllllllllllllllllp!

2007-11-11 13:09:10 · 2 answers · asked by Opal 1 in Singles & Dating

1. Tall or Short + Why

2. Slender (Not Skinny) or Thick + Why

I ask because guys are always talking about short girls and/or thick girls (alot of behind) just because thats what other guys like. My boyfriend used to think that way and only dated girls for their thickness, but fell in LOVE with me and I'm tall and slender lol. (I dont mean skinny because that means bones sticking out, slender means a little less than average).

2007-11-11 13:08:28 · 7 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Singles & Dating

im 22 and never had a girlfriend, and the ONLY 2 girls who i thought both showed any interest in me were my mates gf's (so obviously i didnt try anything). i know im not the greatest looking guy goin around, but i do feel like i could still make a girl happy. also since i have been single i have been able to focus on many other things like getting a degree, professional job, house, car, taught myself guitar....it seems though that i am destined to 'enjoy' these things alone. most girls are nice to me, some have told me that im ugly as sin, but none have ever really wanted me. i am losing the desire to socialise, and just feel like i wont ever have a gf. im a virgin, but not by choice. i think i come across desperate but how can you not after 22 years? i think physically ive got no hope, and my personality just isnt that exciting....all my mates are "good-looking" according to most girls, so im normally last on the roll call....am i depressed? i dont know, but any help would be great!

2007-11-11 13:07:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I have this guy whom I constantly look at 'cause I just can't keep my eyes off of him...he thinks I am just in a daze though. "You're in dazes a lot though" he says to me with a smile, I reply "No, I look at things for a reason." He then turns his head to the side smiling and says, "But...you can't do that too much." He changes the subject, but I still feel bad about it, for sure he must know that I likes him. I've been staring at him constantly these past few days and once when I said bye to him before leaving, he winked at me. He didn't seem to be ignoring me.

2007-11-11 13:07:15 · 8 answers · asked by Chained 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this 23 yr old guy for a little over a yr now. In the beginning it was great and he was my best friend. Now i find myself constantly upset. Since I've known him he has not had a job; instead he gets money from his very fininacially stable family. Now when we met i was an exotic dancer(rarely worked). And held at least a part time job at all times.
Since moving in with eachother has made the most dilapidated attempt to find a job but can't find one, more like can't find one that will fit his standards. And still has the nerve to say that he has contributed to over half the bills(when i feel ashamed to have accepted the money from his family). HE didn't do anything. And last week I had to dance again after 6 months.
If I was to leave I would have to return to dancing in order to get myself established. Is it worth it?

2007-11-11 13:06:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Even at first, we kissed once in a while, when we were departing or something like that. But now even she is noticing that we dont act like a couple anymore. She wont kiss me. Im pretty sure Im being too nice of a guy. I know how to be playfully jerky. I just dont like being an a hole.Could there be another reason besides my being a nice guy? That hasnt stopped girls in the past. I know it takes two to tango, but she doesnt even give me room to try. I know she likes me, but as I said even from the beginning she seemed reluctant. Maybe she doesnt really know how? What do you all think

2007-11-11 13:06:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since He works during the day and I work full time and study at nights, we can't go out during the week, but we do chat over the phone.
We mostly meet on weekends [or those days when I can skip a class]..we have fun together and said he likes me, we'll be having a month together by next week, and he never said he has feelings for me. He just said he likes me and that I'm cute. Not love, nothing.

What do you think..?

2007-11-11 13:03:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with out telling him in words or signs

2007-11-11 13:01:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is a question for the guys out of curiosity.
so i had this boyfriend and he was so sweet and treated me like a princess. he insisted on doing nothing "inapropriate" until we were dating for longer.
he dumped me for this other chick who didnt even like him.
anyways, now he's alone...kind of.
he gets around ALOT . (only 16 btw)
before it was with different girls but now hes with one. all the do are "inappropriate" things. they arent dating though. he calls it "dealing"
so my question is....why is he getting around with this girl and doing "inappropriate" things with her right off the bat, when with me he didnt want to do anything?

2007-11-11 13:00:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his cheating on me,but i really love him,maybe because his my first love(or just dont know the diff)..but im really confused ,im not talking to him ryt now,dont know what to do,coz im afraid that if i forgive him,he will do it again and i cant stand it...please advice me how to deal with this situation..

2007-11-11 13:00:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when he thinks about me he tells his cousin things that he doesn't want me to know what do you think he is telling him

2007-11-11 13:00:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im goin ova ma bf's place... n he asked me to wear sumthin cute... n i really wanna look hot for him... any suggestion abt the dress? PS he luves me in skirt n tight jeans buh i wanna wear sumthin which he hasnt seen me in.....
ideas plz????

2007-11-11 12:59:17 · 6 answers · asked by Britney 2 in Singles & Dating

...skippped his savoir vivre classes. Do I begin to worry when the chicken legs still sticking out of his mouth are still moving?

2007-11-11 12:58:22 · 14 answers · asked by :::::: A :::::: 3 in Singles & Dating

and then kisses me and hugs me! Does it mean he really loves me or he doesn't want anybody to see even though he said he didn't care if people did!

2007-11-11 12:58:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 12:55:38 · 15 answers · asked by Katie R 1 in Singles & Dating

yes? no? why or why not?

2007-11-11 12:55:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anomaly 4 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys only want to have sex with virgins. I don't understand.

2007-11-11 12:55:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Later on you found out who this person was after they had been jailed?

2007-11-11 12:54:07 · 19 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

OKAY so me and this guy were dating a few weeks ago and my best friend was going out with a guy for like a year.. Me and the guy I was dating weren't readyt for a relationship and he wanted me to have sex with him but I didnt want to so we stopped seeing each other. Right then, my best friend got dumped by her bf and met my ex. She slept with him after knowing him for 2 days basically. IS THIS WRONG? Am I crazy to be extremely angry at her? WHat can I do to GET REVENGE? I'm so mad. PLZ tell me what I should do in this situation.. I'm gonna cry.

2007-11-11 12:52:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I plan to lose my virginity within the next little while, and I'm wondering how much blood there will be. I don't want to offend my boyfriend. How much do you estimate I will bleed? If it helps I am an athletic person, partaking in regular workouts plus competitive volleyball, I use tampons, and I masturbate. I'm not sure if these factors affect the amount of blood I will lose. Any advice is appreciated.

2007-11-11 12:52:31 · 20 answers · asked by Chrissy 3 in Singles & Dating

girls of the world,
is it just me or hav dances got to be just plain gross. i really want to have a sock hop at my school, where everyone dresses up in 50s stuff and do swing dancing to a live band in their socks on the wood gym floor. would you do it?

2007-11-11 12:51:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We just started dating a lil while ago..and i have no idea what to get him!!! He loves music but he has everything known to man!! what would you get a guy? or guys what would you want?! (my last boyfriend of 9 months i got an ipod. but no way..not that much money! lol we just started dating! dont even know how long we will be together yet!! [if you understand that!]) please help!!

2007-11-11 12:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by *~*Moonlight Path*~* 2 in Singles & Dating

I was tidying up in our walk in wardrobe.I didn't mean to really open his bag & check on it.That's not me,Coz once I trusted my husband,I will never do such kind of inspection thing.I'm not that kind.But,I don't know,all of a sudden I saw it,Like, something tells me'open it'!so I did!..And to my surprise.,I saw 3pcs of "Condoms!"..we don't use that anymore as I'm already tied up...I usually open that luggage,As when we travel together,I have to check whatever left behind..But I never see this thing before..I don't know,Perhaps It's been there..,Perhaps not!!Aaah!!&It's really hidden under that foam(sob)..I gues,This were the late'meetings'he'd tell me all about than.I've dedicated my whole life with him,Looking after the Children,Give up my Career!I've always been a good wife to him.Inspite of lots of guys out there who'd even look at me,& try for me.But I never even look at anyone.I respected him,&did my role very well.How could he!?why!?I need someone 2 talk.I'm so helples,what now..

2007-11-11 12:46:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl that i like for 3 years i always hanged around her and messed around with her we are best friends and i really like her do you think i should ask her out or should i just stick to being bestfriends with her and nothing else?

2007-11-11 12:45:50 · 10 answers · asked by zombie pirate 1 in Singles & Dating