his cheating on me,but i really love him,maybe because his my first love(or just dont know the diff)..but im really confused ,im not talking to him ryt now,dont know what to do,coz im afraid that if i forgive him,he will do it again and i cant stand it...please advice me how to deal with this situation..
2007-11-11 13:00:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave him. As responder said, "once a cheat...always a cheat." Promises made by this type of person to gain redemption are promises made to be broken again.
Save yourself the future anguish of living with a man like this and cut the ties now. You will get over it, and maybe...just maybe, you will meet a man that will cherish you, love you, and be faithful to you always!
2007-11-11 14:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there, done that...you forgive and he goes around and does it again...my ex-husband did that to me...I took it for about 4 years and then I got up the courage to leave and I*m so glad I did. I now have a new husband and I am the happiest I have ever been...you will get over it, time heals. Get on with your life and stop thinking about the years that you wasted being with him, I was stuck in that mode for a few months, don*t even think about that!
2007-11-11 21:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by Brown eyed girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually this is the beginning of the end. It is a process so you take care of you and do what you think is best. You may not be ready to leave and when you are you will know it you will not have to ask us. Hang in there....Sorry this happened to you. My boyfriend cheated and got someone else pregnant that is the worst.
2007-11-11 21:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Renee C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do it again .... I know you love him, but he couldn't love you enough to love you the way you deserve. Right now I think you're still too angry and upset to even comptemplate forgiving him, so just get yourself some carrots and onions and arrange them on your chopping board (think about it, hon) and get yourself a nice BIG SHARP CLEAVER and have fun chopping away! You could make a big pot of soup this way!
2007-11-11 21:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love changes after I found out my ex cheated on me. I decided to let him go and free my soul. I felt much better now. I think if he really love you, he won't leave you, if he did, then, you got to move on your life.
2007-11-11 21:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by msutw123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I am so sorry he cheated on you. But, you know it will just happen again. Trust me I have been threw it. He will keep on doing it and you just need to be brave and just leave him K.
2007-11-11 23:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by harleymama77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him... Don't forgive him. No loving husband would do that to their wife. He's not worth the worry and the constant heartache.
2007-11-11 21:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by BTB{06.22.09} 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either be prepared to put up with it forever, or leave him. If you tolerate this, he will know he can get away with it and do it again and again. At that time you will have qualified as stupid.
2007-11-11 21:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat, always a cheat.
2007-11-11 21:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is a symptom of a larger problem. Solve the problem.
2007-11-11 21:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋