Why are white women Taking all the good Black men?

Question

I really hate it when every time a black man makes it to the NBA or get a good job they always wanna run to the white girls. Thats the reason why we black women get so mad. It's so fustrating. Its like were not good enough for the successful black men. (Kobe Bryant) (Tay Diggs) Ect. Any black women feel me.

Answer 1

girl I DEFINITLEY feel you on this one. and for all those white girls who will post something along the lines of "stop being so racist", don't waste your time reading it. they don't know. they don't know what it's like to be a black woman. watch somebody post some mess like "you're just jealous". that is so d/a/m/n annoying. I hate it when those white girls try to tell us what it is. like they could possibly know. and the white girls who try to mimic black girls then our men go running to them. the ones who pack their hair with dr. miracles and try to speak in ebonics. I just don't understand. Almost every black man you meet will tell you he's been with a black girl.

Answer 2

ok first of all im gonna say that im white, but i'm from europe so I can look at this case from a very different philosophical perspective. THe reason why black men like to date white women is because they're "simply gettin the most for their money". This is a very delicate and complicated answer but I really hope that you will try to understand what Im trying to say:
Biologically, every human being changes so that they'll be fit to the environment or just built for survival. Anatomically, black men are "well endowed" due to the chaotic periods of slavery which resulted in black people being mistreated and abused, and sadly, black people were bread so that they will give the strongest and toughest offsprings. Black women, have undergone evolution to be fit for black men, especially sexually. Black women can handle "black men's fury" best. During intercourse, if a women does not show signs of pain or uncomfort, it makes a man insecure because they feel like they're not "good enough" or "big enough" for you. And in the other side, with white girls, they get what they want: they receive sexual appreciation and appraisal because white women simply tend to "struggle" with black males. Now, black males favor white women because they know they get to have fun, and prolly know that sooner or later the white girls will probably want to break up due to unfortunate racial social pressure, so the black man, sees the light at the end of the tunnel. He probably thinks this way: Im getting to have fun with da white girls, and they won't get attached... Bingo.
I'm white and until recently i dated a very attractive black girl, and she was a dream come true in every aspect:social, sexual, intellectual, and spiritual. But, as I said earlier, social pressures that still exist accross races, are too strong, and simply caused us to grow apart from each other.
Sorry i wrote such a long explanation; I did not have time to think more effectively.
Hope this helps! And to all black women out there, I LOVE YA n i want ya to know that ya be realllly sexy and ya can hold it down when ya need to!!! ;)

Answer 3

It is because these black men have seen how some black girls grow up to be extremely ugly (on the inside) and very flirtatious and untrusting and that puts a flag in their head when the see a attractive black woman they already have the prejudgement of marrying a ghetto girl so they think they'll avoid it by marrying a girl who may seem to have been raised better

Answer 4

The white girls are not taking them. Black men just seem to forget where they come from. It's like an inferiority complex. And, just because they're rich from playing sports does not make them good. Are they intelligent, well-mannered, articulate, or cultured? Some of those men in the NBA are just plain ghetto. Some of them cheat, too. I wouldn't want them; Rich or poor, a jerk is a jerk. I see some black men on the way to the top and I don't mind losing them to white girls because their personalities SUCK. They can have them. I'm not begging any man to stay true to his race. If they doesn't want to, we're better off without them.

Answer 5

maybe you should stop seeing people as black and white, and just look at them as people. There's no one saying you can't go for a white guy, and sometimes black guys fall in love with white girls. This isn't the 60s, it's not shameful anymore to be with someone of different race, so just let it go. You'll find the right one eventually!.

Answer 6

hey there Im not black, but Im with a guy who is a Maori (Pacific islander) I dont know about the famous or the hanger on women out there...but I just found that I respect this man for having different opinions and a different attitude to what I was bought up with... we have been together 15 years now. It wasnt about colour for me it was about personality. Good luck I hope you find a really nice Man who is everything you ever wanted, Im sure you will.

Answer 7

The black men who run to white women (Excusively) Have a inner self hatered, otherwise those men would love black women. and you should not worry about thoes type of men anyway those men belong with anyone but a black women, who needs a man who does no love himself, he cannot treat any color woman well.

Answer 8

i think black men are just trying to find something different, not like the usual black woman...i really don't know. they just might be more attracted to white women. but i totally understand your view.

Answer 9

It's cause white women and men always think there better then every other race and culture. The only time they would look at someone who's not white is when they are rich or successful.Otherwise they are pretty much only in it for the money.

Answer 10

Yes, leave our men alone.