i didnt mean wat i said and hes taking it really serious!!
2007-11-11 13:12:02 · 21 answers · asked by MR.H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't do it again, and when he speaks to you again say you are sorry.
2007-11-11 13:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know its hard but don't call him anymore. He already knows you tried calling him so he probably already knows you are sorry.
Depending on what you said you can say I am really sorry, I just wanted to see what your reaction would be?
Anyway I said that once to get myself out of a stupid moment where I put my foot in my mouth.
wow I like what Married 28 years said, so much better than my advice!!! Yeah do that.
It will pass and it will all be good soon you will see.
Everything will smooth over.
Go make some popcorn and then get out for a fresh walk outside, come back in half hour and check the phone, watch a movie. Good luck, God Bless.
2007-11-11 13:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might consider going to his house to appologize or give him a day to think. You must have said something REALLY BAD!!!!!! Always think before you speak. Let me tell you a story. There was a boy who always lost his temper, and one day the boys father handed him a bag of nails and said, everytime you lose your temper hammer a nail in our fence, after a few months he didn't need to put nails in anymore for his temper was controlled and the Dad then said for everyday you DON'T have a temper take a nail out of the fence. After months went by the boy said, Dad that fence looks HORRIBLE with all those HOLES!!!!! His dad said let this be a lesson to you son, the things you say cannot be taken back, once it's out there it hurts forever, you can say your sorry a million times but it can't be taken away as an unsaid thing. Alwasy remember once you say something it's already out there, you can only say your sorry but nothing can take it back. I would tell him you lost your temper and said things you really regret, and that youll work on blurting things unneccessarily. I wish you luck!!
2007-11-11 13:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by darlin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go over to his house and apologize if he won't answer the phone. Shame on you for saying something so hurtful. You probably know him well enough to know what his "hurt" buttons are. You're either very mean-spirited, or he's over-sensitive. Either way, you two had better straighten this out or your marriage will be short. Marriage is about supporting each other and sheltering each other from the cold cruel world. If you can't do that, stay single.
2007-11-11 13:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Reality Man 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said that this you your fiance (unless it's one of those situations where YOU decided that you was his fiance, lol) so he loves you. He's just acting like a spoil brat right now. Girl look, go take you a hot bath, get a movie or something & relax your mind. When he get though pounting, he'll call you or turn on his phone, then you can applogize (you know, treat him like a baby). But for now stop worring, there's nothing you can do but wait.
2007-11-11 13:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by oly4luv 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that's why people say "Think before you act?" I'm sure you realize this now, but I hope you two can work this out because words can be very damaging. That's why I'm now divorced. I don't wish that on you two though. I hope you two can work out your problem with eachother. Maybe you can make him a nice dinner and candles and explain why you said it and that possibly you were upset and weren't thinking at that time, and hopefully he will have the descency to forgive and forget.
2007-11-11 13:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out and see what happens. Stop trying to call him because your number is probably showing up on his phone anyway. Make him wonder what you're up to.
2007-11-11 13:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by Laredo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him cool off. You can text him and he'll still get it even though his phone is turned off. Make sure you apologize over and over.
2007-11-11 13:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Charlene K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a true heartfelt "I'm sorry note" and stick it on the windshield of his vehicle, or on his door.
The ball is in his court now, so it's up to him when to forgive...if he does.
2007-11-11 14:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys always do that and ur he's fiance just imagine whenever u marry him just incase of emergency wher can u comunicate him think girl just think all guys they do that dntbe sacre if he says it off cuz seriuosly he will be stupid
2007-11-11 13:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by ViRY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Let him have his space. He will talk to you when HE is ready. When he does, just be calm and tell him you are sorry.
2007-11-11 13:21:52 · answer #11 · answered by Ali Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋