Its been a month.... She doesnt even act like she likes me anymore. Why is that??

Question

Even at first, we kissed once in a while, when we were departing or something like that. But now even she is noticing that we dont act like a couple anymore. She wont kiss me. Im pretty sure Im being too nice of a guy. I know how to be playfully jerky. I just dont like being an a hole.Could there be another reason besides my being a nice guy? That hasnt stopped girls in the past. I know it takes two to tango, but she doesnt even give me room to try. I know she likes me, but as I said even from the beginning she seemed reluctant. Maybe she doesnt really know how? What do you all think

Thats what I was thinking as well. But Im pretty sure she does. And what am I supposed to say to that? "Hey.. Why arent you showing affection anymore?" Kind of akward. Maybe you are right.

Its been a month. At first I thought she just wasnt that affectionate of a person. But yeah.. I dont know.

I tried being a suck up.. Showing her how I felt with little things (I know its cheesy but it works)

Things looked up a little, but I thought my being a "suck up" (or a nice guy) was what was pushing her away. Dang you all answer fast. Thanks

Wow.. Thank you NeeChi. That kind of helps.. In describing youyrself you kind of described her. She told me once that when she really likes a guy, shell push him away. she told me why, Its understandable. because if you really like someone its just going to hurt worse when you lose them. But it doesnt seem like that kind of distance.. Ive felt that kind of distance before. Again, maybe Im wrong. Thank you again

Answer 1

Maybe she just doesn't like you any more...

Yeah... I would have this conversation with her. if you can't communicate openly and honestly then she's not the one. Have the talk, or move on.

Answer 2

Sounds to me like she has found somone new or wants something new...Or it can just be that she has a lot on her mind..How is everything with her family,work,school?? Think about all that ask her if everything is ok. Do not blame the whole nice guy thing. If anything she is blessed to have a nice guy. And think if it doesnt work out "everything happens for a reason" maybe you will end up finding a great girl who will appreciate the nice guy in you! good luck hun and dont changer your nice ways..There arent too many "nice guys" out there anymore im sure tons of girls would love to date you!

Answer 3

I think maybe she eels uncomfortable. A grl usually doesnt like 2 b the 1 2 lean in 4 the kiss. We try 2 keep things slow. Also maybe u guys have been spending 2 much time 2gether and she feels seperated from hr friendds grls hate 2 not be able 2 hang w/ only there friends. Hug her b4 u star kissing lol that sounds wierd idk y. Dont try 2 rush things. Every relationship will take its own pace. Hope that helps and good luck!!!!!

Answer 4

Hm...okay i see.Well i'm TOTALLY like that girl in all ways.I went out with this really nice guys,the best.But i kissed him just like 3 times but i stoped after and started ignoring him and trying to hide from him....not because i hated him or didn't like him.I SO loved him.I was just shocked on what a guy he is and i blushed when i saw him even though i knew him really well and i'd run,hide or act mean because i was scared,and shy to love him back.He was too good to be true.I just didn't know how to love him?or how to?I thought mabey he wanted to be loved the opposite..or something and i'm still trying to figure myself out with the weird attitude twards him.

Me and him later broke up,he decided to..because he said i didnt love him and he didnt want to suffer and not be loved back..i relized i could have tried too..and "two takes to tango"but i wanted "one to guide me along"I love him and miss him so much i regret ignoring him!!]=

I say she might be in some trouble like me.

Answer 5

I'm sorry to say, but if she won't show any affection, shes probably over you. it sounds like she's also too nice and doesn't know how to tell you that she doesnt feel the same anymore. She's dragging you along.

My advice: YOU break up with HER. cut your losses and move on

Answer 6

It's not that girls enjoy jerks and that's what makes them want to kiss them. Maybe you've been ignoring her lately and she's showing you how it feels- sounds immature but I'll admit I've done it, since my then-bf was ignoring me too much to listen when I talked about it. Maybe she wants you to just listen to her talk about it.

Answer 7

I think that she might like u but she doesnt kno how to show it, how long have u been dating her?? give her a chance to come out.. and be a suck up she might act like she doesnt like it but every female does!!! Good Luck wit her:)

Answer 8

well...you shouldnt let your being a nice guy be the problem
if she thinks your too nice ther must be somethin wrong in her mind
lol
there's nothin wrong with a realy nice guy
as long as he has an opinon....
i say you should ask her
thats hte best way to solve your problems

Answer 9

I think she's not interest in your anymore. Sometimes, people will change their feeling after a while, they not change their feeling for someone else, but the feeling just gone.

Answer 10

Hmmm.. sounds like she's got her mind on someone else. Sorry dude, happens to the best of us.