I have been dating this 23 yr old guy for a little over a yr now. In the beginning it was great and he was my best friend. Now i find myself constantly upset. Since I've known him he has not had a job; instead he gets money from his very fininacially stable family. Now when we met i was an exotic dancer(rarely worked). And held at least a part time job at all times.
Since moving in with eachother has made the most dilapidated attempt to find a job but can't find one, more like can't find one that will fit his standards. And still has the nerve to say that he has contributed to over half the bills(when i feel ashamed to have accepted the money from his family). HE didn't do anything. And last week I had to dance again after 6 months.
If I was to leave I would have to return to dancing in order to get myself established. Is it worth it?
2007-11-11 13:06:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't leave him now and get it over with, you will be kicking yourself. The fact that you are doubting him at all should be telling you something.
2007-11-11 13:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is worth it. Dancing is just a job, it is not who you are. I would not stay with him. Your entire life would be like this. He has no desire to be a man and take care of himself. He will not take care of you or your children if you two were to have any. Get rid of him he is a loser and he is bringing you down. You will be much happier taking care of yourself than you are feeling ashamed. Do not feel ashamed for his behavior. The family obviously condones his behavior so he may never change. You deserve better girl so go and find it. Good luck.
2007-11-11 21:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him, and don't go back to dancing. Find a job that pays well enough and doesn't contribute to the decay of society. (sorry, but it's true) Don't take this as a personal attack, but I'm sure you could find something better for yourself. Good luck to you.
2007-11-11 21:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would ditch him. but don't go back to being a "dancer". You can get a job somewhere else to support yourself. And ya it might be worth leaving him you probably be better off and find a guy who will help you and support you
2007-11-11 23:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by harleymama77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT will be worth it to go....Yes, Dear Leave him. It will be worth it to have back your own self esteem Why chain yourself to a loser?
The very fact that you ask this question tells me that you know yourself the right thing to do is to go it alone Good Luck.
2007-11-11 21:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋