Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

Ok so here's the story and question....

I was with my girlfriend almost 5 years....we loved each other very much....we did have some fights and arguments.
I wasn't perfect, I did say mean things sometimes or do things but I have OCD and Borderline Personality Disorder.
Not all of it, but most of it was caused by my problems, I have been getting help and working on myself for the last
year and a half and been getting better. I regularly go to my therapist and psychiatrist and take my meds as prescribed.
I have gotten better. She left me 3 months ago because she said she didn't like the way I treated her. She is the type
that wants a "fairytale" relationship. Everyone has told her including her parents that she won't get that with anyone.
She also expects no fights or arguments. Well anyways she told me for the first two months after she left...that she
still wanted to be with me, she loves me, misses me, wants to know I'm serious about us, etc. Then two weeks after
that go by and she doesn't say much to me....well I texted her a lot but it was because when I tried to give her space
before by not texting as much, she would text me and say why are you ignoring me or I don't think you're serious about
this...and then when I did she didn't want me to text or wouldn't text me back most of the time.

2007-11-11 00:44:42 · 4 answers · asked by YouWillRegretIt 1 in Family

Hi, I just found out this 25 y/o guy I went on 2 dates with is trying to make me fall into a relationship with him just to have sex with him. I didn't though - i am not that type of girl. He went as far as claiming he is a virgin and asks me to come over and crash over. He lies about everything. He played with my emotions and made me think he likes me and all that. I also found out a mutual acquaintance told him about how i treated her cousin really bad when we went out, so she knows he is playing me and she is trying to convince he is a good guy and def. not a player type. They are both plotting against me as a subliminal payback. Apparently, there are some people that still hate me in this world. I know ths sounds crazy but i am shocked as well. How should I handle this? What is the best way to get revenge on this type of guy? I really just want to go up to him and smack him and pour a cup of coffee on him. How should I handle this situation?

2007-11-11 00:39:15 · 11 answers · asked by Svetlana Z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-11-11 00:26:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found totally accidentaly a message on my father's old mobile phone from a lady that WE know!The message said "I miss u.When can I see u again" but I couldn't read further more and I still don't want to.she has a family with 2 children in my age and they have been family friends for 16 years.we go on vacation together and stuff.i am really shocked.i am shaking right now.i found it yesterday and I couldn't sleep all night.I've been having terrible stomache aches and I cry all the time.what should I do??I know my mother loves my father and I know he loves her too,but I can't understand why he would do that.He is a rolemodel for a father.I can't believe it.What should I do?I don't wanna destroy my family(i have one older brother,too) but I can't stand that woman lying in my mother's face.I am shocked...I am crying right now...please help me...i love my family...My father treats us all very very well...please help me./...

2007-11-11 00:08:56 · 29 answers · asked by kalli 1 in Family