Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

why date for two years, tell an 8 year old kid who lost his mom to call you mommy and get married then in 7 months say you didnt get what you wanted and you gave up on the marriage and bailed?
what kind of dirtbag does that?
i raised this kid on my own since birth, finding a wife to complete my family was important i am 29,, i didnt take anything for granite.

so why bail?

2007-11-11 06:59:20 · 9 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok theres this guy that goes to my school nd is in my one class...everytime we're in class together and r talking he starts flirting a lot...like he tries to make me laugh and goofs around...but any other time we're in school and he sees me he just walks right by (sometimes he smiles in my direction though)...so does he like me or not?

2007-11-11 06:57:51 · 22 answers · asked by {[mAdNeSs]} 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my partner for 7 years on and off we have a 4yr old daughter. He was my first love, when i was pregnant we split up and i met someone else nothing happened though as i was preg.
Anyway me and my partner got back together when my daughter was born that was for years ago, i still speak to the other guy.
My partner and i often argue about silly things, we hardly ever make love and have both admitted we wouldnt be together if we hadnt had our daughter.
Do you think we can make it or shall i leave?

2007-11-11 06:57:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Long story but my Husband and I had seperated for about 2 months. We both were seeing other people before we decided to work it out. He was seeing this girl for 3 weeks and when he dumped her, she went crazy. She emailed him & ME trying to start problems. He told her that we were working it out. We blocked her... then she email's us from another email address. He and I just ignored her. She let us be for about 2 weeks almost and now she is texting him! He refuses to reply. He showed me the text messages and basiclly she was trying to turn him against me.

His plan is to ignore her. Do you think she will just eventually go away if he ignores her? Ive tried to tell her, he's tried to tell her and she just goes crazy!

2007-11-11 06:55:50 · 28 answers · asked by none-ya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How should hubby of 9.5 yrs and i communicate when it comes to my eldest daughter(14 yrs old) who is from my first marriage?Our arrangment has always been that all major discipline for my eldest daughter was handled by me and my hubby would simply monitor the situation only making comments to me in private.Ever since she turned 13 she has been horrible toward her step-dad spitting at him,screaming(cursing) at him,shoving him,and telling him constantly that he's not her dad.The reason is usually because her outfit was inappropriate and told her to change,he cant or wont drive her to the mall ect. She has even started treating her own siblings badly bullying them.She put nair in her12 yr old (bio)sisters hair,cut her eyelashes and shaved her eye brows.She told her younger siblings ages 12,9,9,8,7 that she hates them and does not consider them related because my 8 yr old is adopted and the rest are only half siblings .I have gotten her under control for the moment but how do..

2007-11-11 06:54:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-11 06:53:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She emails my husband often and says horrible things about me to him and encourages him to get rid of me. Now I have had only 5 contacts with this woman in my life and her behavior is so insulting and disruptive I had to ask her to leave my home...well now she calls several times a day to talk to my husband and emails him constantly. I am a very hard working and good person and to see this behavior is really unsettling...she is an in-law from hell. My husband has told her to stop and he has even broken contact with her because of it...what should I do?

2007-11-11 06:53:44 · 8 answers · asked by BookButterfly 2 in Family

This is a military question. My husband says he won't have to supply my daughter and myself with health benefits after the divorce is final. I'm under the assumption that he continues to give my daughter benefits while he is still in the military until she's 18. And he continues to give me benefits until he leaves the miltary or I re-marry. What's the truth here?

2007-11-11 06:52:57 · 11 answers · asked by Smithy McShagwell 6 in Marriage & Divorce

and well this is my situation I'm in love with my ex of 3 years and we broke up last month and also adding i'm 18 years old. and well a close guy friend since i went to middle school we were friends and well i found out he likes me alot and started to tell his parents about me and well he knows i'm still in love with my ex and yet still wants to be with me. and as for me i don't feel the same. but my friends said i should give him a chance. what should i do?

2007-11-11 06:51:17 · 45 answers · asked by Red K 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for about 5 months, but she has cheated on me recently. So we agree'd to end it, not that she cared, she was glad I think... I love her though...

SO today, I find out she is on the phone with the guy she cheated with, booked a ticket to go and see him and stuff...

I can't take it!

I want to forget about her but I can't.

I have never been in a relationship that lasted more than 2 weeks, I am 18, only had a few girlfriends in the past... but she, she was serious to me.

2007-11-11 06:51:06 · 32 answers · asked by .... 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 06:50:13 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex and i havent spoke in a year, recently she had called me crying because her bf had cheated on her.

everyday now she texts me asking how im doing and sending me pic messages. which is wierd because we havent spoke in such a long time. I still love her and all and i havent been in a relationship since we broke up so im confused if i should get back with her or not.

two days ago she had called me saying she wanted me to visit her, my gut feeling is saying yeah go, but my mind is telling me no and something bad might happen.

What would you do?? and What do you think about the situation??

Thank You very much!!

2007-11-11 06:48:52 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this boy,im sure he likes me too.im 14 in hs,he always stares @ me he asked me for my #,he told me i was pretty,he always texts me back,he called me babe in a text message & he also asked me how my day was?he got jealous when my guy friend tickled me cuz he did it 2 & @ the end of class he came & sat on my desk.he touches my arm a lot 2. & he said my name in a cute way.he asked me if i liked this kid & i said he was ugly & he asked me what i think bout him & he told me wat he thought bout me.he put his hand in the front pocket of my sweater once & he made me put his fone in my short pockets.Last Nite,my friend texted him and asked him if he liked me, he said "idkn" a lot.she told him that i kinda like him. he said 2 me, its not true rite?i said "no",but i was lying.i asked him if he was afraid 2 say yes or no, he said "u go first" i said "no u" he said "were just friends so for now no". i think he said that cuz i said no but i think he likes me, do u?will he act diff. in skool?

2007-11-11 06:47:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous A 1 in Singles & Dating

and the last 2 nights i have walked her to her car and gave her a kiss. But its just been like a peck. How do i know when it should be more than just a peck on the lips. Its kinda felt right to give her more than just a peck but i have no idea how to give her a little tongue or someting and i don't want to make myself look too stupid because she has probably made out w/ boys before me. And do u think dating someone for 9 days and making out with them would be appropriate? Any idea would help. Thanks And by the way if it helps we are both 16 years old

2007-11-11 06:46:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been very good friends since our childhood. These days I hardly get the opportunity to meet her as we both are busy with our jobs, but that really didn't affect our friendship.
I love her from the bottom of my heart, but I cannot be sure whether she has similar feelings for me or not. I could never express my feelings to her in the fear of loosing her and her friendship. Occasionally when we talked about our views on love in general and how she 'got rid of' the guys who had proposed her, I noticed that she is a bit conservative about relationships. So now if I go and propose her, it might also sound like a betrayal from her childhood friend and our friendship will be ruined forever..........
So please help me, I need to be sure before I proceed..........I simply cannot loose her.............

2007-11-11 06:46:16 · 8 answers · asked by but 2 in Singles & Dating

What name do I sign? We are legally married and we are just waiting on the certified copy of the marriage certificate before I change my drivers licence and social security card. So am I still legally my last name or am I his?


First time wife ;) help me out!

Oh yea and HOW do I change my name? I assume I just take our marriage certificate to the social security office and then the DMV. He doesn't know either.

2007-11-11 06:44:35 · 17 answers · asked by none-ya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to ask my friend to do me a favor by helping me move. The problem is, my friend just got back from a long trip and he also has to work today. I haven't asked him yet, but I would assume he would be tired to help me. I feel very bad asking him. But he's the only one who has a truck and I don't know anyone else. What's the best solution here?

2007-11-11 06:42:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Here's wat happend I did get all of my work done and I kno I have to do it but she won't stop buggin me about it.

2007-11-11 06:39:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family

Well we have never been close since there is a 13 year age gap between us, I find it very difficult to talk to her about ANYTHING! she doesn't live with me but comes to the family home often, the trouble is she doesn't come to chat to us she comes and just sits there staring at the walls or on the phone. I have pulled her on it many times and she just changes the subject so I told her she was ignorant if she wants to stare at walls do that in your own home.

She is always telling me things and then saying I cant tell anyone and makes me uncomfortable around the people I cant tell espicially when they ask about her, I told her if its a secret then don't tell me either because its not nice lying to my other siblings.

This isn't even the half of it but hopefully you get the jist

I have tried talking to her but it goes in one ear and out the other, and it has got to the point where looking at her boils my blood.

Any suggestions what I can try next?

2007-11-11 06:36:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Even my dad is like "No, you're not wearing that!" I mean, he lives in a totally different state and I hardly ever see hm. Why does he even try to control my life?

And then my mom tries to make me "socialize" with ancient Christians. Even though she knows that every time she forces me to go to church, she's making the chance that I'll ever be a Christian smaller and smaller.

What should I do?? I'm 14 right now..

2007-11-11 06:35:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

are muscular men actually hot???

2007-11-11 06:32:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im remembering my past relationships and how great it felt to feel loved. what can i possibly do to pass through these feelings?

2007-11-11 06:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by hammy 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok I want to know if I fill out divorce papers and have a friend serve them on my ex does he have a certain time limit to sign them and return them? I mean what if he won't is that considered default or what?
Please tell me I do not have to stay married because he will not sign the papers?!?!?!?

2007-11-11 06:29:17 · 8 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

and go around showing it off to both guys and girls, even people she just met for the first time? she also has like 5 tattoos...
but says she is a christian and puts God first.

is it attention?

2007-11-11 06:28:59 · 10 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-11 06:26:02 · 16 answers · asked by drewpop 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so i started going out with this guy over the internet about 4 weeks ago maybe not even that!! and ive tired to break up with him 3 times already, but he always seems to say something to make me stay with him!! and hes told me he loves me and ive asked him to stop but he like gets all mad and yells ( emails with caps. ) i havent talked to him over the phone or met up with him and im not planning to!! but how do i break up with him?? i dont want to be mean. but i just cant really "be" with him anymore.

2007-11-11 06:23:14 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lol my question sounds stupid but plz read :( So about a month ago i asked my dad if i could cange service providers, since he did give me the option. Even after a week he still said no. This was just so i could get the iphone- this is the uk one im talking about! Then my brother recently started to ask for the iphone, for xmas. My dad doesnt like the idea, but my mom doesnt mind buying it for him. The thing that aggravates me the most is that I said i would pay for it, and they were like hmm. i dont know. but with my brother, my mom is just going to buy it for him like a zombie. I feel really frustrated since I am always helping around the house, getting gd grades being responsible ect. My brother is kinda the opposite. He gets okayish grades, barley ever home, and often gets in fights with either one of my parents. Lastly, I always felt that my dad favoured me more, and my mom favoured my brother more. But my mom told me flat out that she thinks I am the better child! wats going on?!

2007-11-11 06:22:50 · 5 answers · asked by Woman 4 in Family

once there lived animals in the pride lands two lions called simba and nala but the father was killed by his brother scar in the end simba fund out and simba and nala had a baby. the end. who liked my story?

2007-11-11 06:22:45 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just deciding on what to get my boyfriend of 10 months for christmas/bday. What do ya think? Either:

A night or two of fun in a hotel (maybe a meal too?)
An experience e.g. racing driving with his friends/banger racing
An ipod engraved "i love you"
Some other gadget (please suggest)
psp if i can afford it

Hmm what ya think, he'll be 19 and don't suggest sporty stuff cos he doesn't like sports lol!

2007-11-11 06:21:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys are straightforward as hell...i've always known that if a guy wants nothing w. you - to be friends or anything, he'll cut you off completely

but what about if he'll cut you off and them come back, cut you off and come back? or just be there, but not completely - doesn't wanna get too close and too attached?

2007-11-11 06:16:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating