She emails my husband often and says horrible things about me to him and encourages him to get rid of me. Now I have had only 5 contacts with this woman in my life and her behavior is so insulting and disruptive I had to ask her to leave my home...well now she calls several times a day to talk to my husband and emails him constantly. I am a very hard working and good person and to see this behavior is really unsettling...she is an in-law from hell. My husband has told her to stop and he has even broken contact with her because of it...what should I do?
2007-11-11 06:53:44 · 8 answers · asked by BookButterfly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nothing. Your only concern is your husband. If you are both on the same page, meaning he has broken contact with her, both on your behalf, and, because he is tired of it.... then let it go.
No one can harm you unless you let them. By not having contact with her, the wind is literally taken out of her sails. Eventually, unless she is emotionally sick, she will fade away. If you let it bother you, she wins. Don't let her. You ARE better than that, don’t forget it, by allowing her to affect you. Smile at her silly antics, knowing where they come from, and walk away.
2007-11-11 07:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him handle this. Its his sister. If he loves you he will protect you from her abuse. My advice is to keep all emails she sends and dont erase the caller ID if you have one. However dont answer her calls at all. If she leaves messages save those too. Then go get a restraining order on her. If she violates that she will be in trouble with the law. She sounds like a nutcase.
The purpose of saving everything is to prove she is harassing you. Just because shes related doesnt give her a free pass to harass and bully you.
2007-11-11 15:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMM sounds like something I went through not too long ago. My husband has 4 sisters. But his mother is just as bad as they are. I ran into one of them last year while getting lunch. We sat down to talk and she had mentioned that my husband is the only man she knows that can get children "by mail" refering to my youngest who is my husbands biologicall child. I was stunned! yes, my husband's exwife cheated on him and had 3 children by other men while married to my husband. And yes, my husband has a low count. But anyone who really looked at my son knows who his dad is. I stood up and walked away. Since then I don't have any contact with her. When my husband broke his skull and almost died everyone of them showed up at the hospital, ecept his mother, who sat outside in her van. Becuase she was on oxygen and it was running low! HELLO IT WAS A FREAKING HOSPITAL!!! his sisters and mother are only there for him if they want something. I say let your husband handle this. If he has broken contact with her then he doesn't beleive what she is telling him. That won't change. trust in him, becuase it sounds to me like he trusts you. Just love him and let him know you appreciate him. It'll all work out.
2007-11-11 15:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by victoria E. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well apparently he hasn't broken contact. He doesn't have her email blocked and he's opening it and reading it. She calls several times a day and he takes her calls.
Systematically block this woman out of your lives. Enough closed doors and she will move on.
2007-11-11 15:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only conclusion I can draw from what you wrote is that she may be jealous of your relationship with her brother, it's like she feel sort of threaten by you. I would have you, her, and your sit down for a heart to heart talk and come out and her "What do you have against me" or "What's the reason why you don't like me" and see where it goes from there.
2007-11-11 15:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Beauty101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do really,have you asked why she doesn't like you?
as long as you and your husband are OK and its not causing friction between you 2 then just let her get on with it she is the one loosing out on your company and your husbands,hopefully she will realize and stop behaving so badly towards you.
good luck xx
2007-11-11 15:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by lovebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either beat or up...LOL or talk to her and ask her y the hell is she doing this to you. I think that is apalling... Do this quick before she takes over your life and people will judge you by what she sed... GOOD LUCK...
2007-11-11 14:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and say "hey biitch whats wrong with you" and then give a her a slap :)
2007-11-11 15:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋