and the last 2 nights i have walked her to her car and gave her a kiss. But its just been like a peck. How do i know when it should be more than just a peck on the lips. Its kinda felt right to give her more than just a peck but i have no idea how to give her a little tongue or someting and i don't want to make myself look too stupid because she has probably made out w/ boys before me. And do u think dating someone for 9 days and making out with them would be appropriate? Any idea would help. Thanks And by the way if it helps we are both 16 years old
2007-11-11 06:46:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Spank her and run
2007-11-11 06:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by littlechris673 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i remember when i was 16 years old, wow those were the days. The best way to go about with this is to give her subtle hints all the time. Tell her she's beutiful, tell her how much you like whats she's wearing ect. Girls her age love that sort of thing. Even buying her a stuffed animal is a good idea. When you do all this (subtle hints and a stuffed animal) there is a good chance there will be alot of chemistry in the air, i suggest you go for the kiss after you do that.
Although at the age of 16 make sure you've been on a few dates first, like seeing a movie in a double date or going to the zoo with her and her even if the parents have to come along ... go for the kiss at school.
2007-11-11 06:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm. I guess if you really love her and she really loves you - go for it.
Do you ever feel any type of sparks when you hug/peck? If you do, its the time. Just, when the moment is right she give her a little peck on the cheek, back away, smile - lean in closer. If she backs away dont - if she doesnt then make out lol. DONT GO TOO FAR IF SHE DONT WANT TO THOUGH.
Remember your only 16 - you dont want a baby in your life. Lmao sorry I went too far myself there.
Hope I helped. :D
2007-11-11 06:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something romantic or spontaneous....like go for a walk and without thinking spin her around and kiss her or something special that she will remember....don't do it by inviting her over and watching a movie ...can you say boring!!! My husband first kissed me on a bridge under the stars about a 1/4 of a mile from my parents house (we were both entering senior year of HS at the time and yes it was actually my first kiss and it was a month or a month and a half after we started dating...we took it slow and in "our time") he first kissed me there and throughout our 5 years of dating we now and then walked down to that bridge and shared a kiss...in 2006 he proposed to me on that very bridge (decorated in roses and my favorite flower sunflowers). What I'm trying to do for you is let you know make it special for both of you if you really like this girl...if you don't really like her and it is just a fling kiss her in the movies or by the car..... good luck!
2007-11-11 06:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sierra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking of 2 people in their 20s...but since you're both 16...I think a peck(or longer peck) should be appropriate
2007-11-11 06:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude between DUDE convo right now What u gotta do Bro is feel the right moment walk her to her house if he walks into the door and looks back at you give her a BIG kiss if she just pecks says good ngiht walks into her house and dont look back give it some time
2007-11-11 06:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi...
Do you mean that you have no idea how to kiss someone? Well..if that's the case..just be honest with her, and if se is into it as much as you are, she will let you try...:)
I did...my bf had no idea how to kiss...but it soon became right..:)
I don't think that dating for 9 days and making out is a good idea...I mean, if you are not into promiscuous sex. If you really like her, and love her, you should just love her and ot think bout making out. But well, you are a guy...and I know it can be hard to resist (unless she wants it). IF you respect her though, you will win her heart...
Hope this helps...
2007-11-11 06:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok. If anything, if she really likes you, she will just be wanting more. But if you keep her waiting too long, she will get mad.
Best way to get a kiss or the best moment to give a kiss, is during an intimate moment. Slow dance with her a bit, tell her she smells beautiful and wonderful. Be in love with the moment and just let your mind enjoy every sensual moment with you while she's in your arms. Say what you can to make her feel alive, bold, special, something great.
And then if it all feels right do one of the following:
-tell her, "Baby, I want to kiss you." and then kiss her
-kiss her
-kiss her neck
-bite her neck (gently)
I'm a romantic guy, so I usually like my first kiss moments to be something memorable, and then spontaneous later on.
2007-11-11 06:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Adam S. 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nine days and all you got was a "peck" dude you need to stop dating right now and focus on becoming the greates "trekkie" of all time because dating game is in the basement
2007-11-11 06:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
when walking her to her car take her into your arms and move slowly towards and give her a kiss, a peck at first, and see how she respondes, then make the move to give her a full kiss. just be gentle and react to her. hope this helps. x
2007-11-11 06:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right, it would just happen. Just don't force anything. If you're meant to do something more than peck, it will come...really.
2007-11-11 06:49:06 · answer #11 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋