Here's wat happend I did get all of my work done and I kno I have to do it but she won't stop buggin me about it.
2007-11-11 06:39:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Be like Damn mom i want u to shut up the heck up i want u to
get off my back women
2007-11-11 06:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by littlechris673 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have a mom that is very overbearing, so I can understand where you are coming from. The best thing to do is find a calm setting to talk, go out to lunch together. Tell her without yelling or getting angry exactly how you feel. She should hear you out then analyze what can be done to help the situation. My mom doesn't listen very well so I am still having trouble with her, but most parents are understanding.
Also think about what it is that you are doing to make your mom get on your nerves. Is she constantly having to come behind to make sure you do things? Are you disobeying her often? Usually parents don't annoy their children just for pleasure. Come to a compromise between the both of you.
2007-11-11 06:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by lethal_z32 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some moms just want the best for you and in doing so they come off as pushy and annoying! A smile will leave her a lone a lot longer then rolling your eyes.
My mom was ALWAYS on my case... So I moved out and now she can care less about the **** she always yelled about.
Just do what she is asking, show her, then tell her" You know mom, I was going to get it done. I know you like things done your way and when you say. But I have been feeling like your nagging me for the smallest things and I dont want to fight with you, I love you =) "
Make it short simple and sweet!
2007-11-11 06:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and finish the job. I know my mom is like that too. She isn't happy until the job is done. If you have a good reason why you couldn't complete what you were doing, let her know and go ahead and get it over with. I don't know how you could say she's getting on your nerves nicely. If you have a busy schedule that's legit, then explain to her that you did start but couldn't finish and will finish when you can.
2007-11-11 06:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by onenappsoul 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you don't wont to get her upset. So here's what i suggest based on past experience.
Calmly tell her that you need to talk to her alone.
Sit her down with you
Tell her that there are times that you feel she is overpertective if thats what the problem is (or you can substatute the real problem in there)
but the idea is to get your real feeling out there in a nice way, and to tell her that your grown up now and can take care of yourself (the problem usually is that no matter your age your mother will always think your a little kid, show her your not)
2007-11-11 06:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I have had the same problem for a very long time. But my mom actually has anger issues and it turns out to be a big mess. There really isn't anything you can do at this point unless you move out. You just hve to respect what she wants and try to act like it doesn't bother you otherwise she gets the best of you. Stick it out. Only a couple years.. then you should be moved out by then and on your own where she cant bother you, right?
2007-11-11 06:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mitzy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You could do it before she has time to say anything to you about it. You could also tell her you love her and you're glad she cares about you, but you would appreciate it if she could not get on you so much about it. My mom did the same thing. The best thing is to just do it when she says to and that'll make her happy. Then she'll realize she doesn't have to tell you anymore. Hope this helps!!!
2007-11-11 06:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always get your work done then she'll stop buggin cos she knows u will do it and wont have to nag ya.
2007-11-11 06:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At this piont of my life, i really don't know becuase my mom just pees me off sometimes, so i just deal with it, keep it bottled up till i'm older and return the favor by bugging her alot and then we're even. that's just what i'm doing right now. WHAT EVER YOU DO, don't take it all out on depression and then become emo and slit your wrists. most people do that, but not me
2007-11-11 06:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by Shyllow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what I tell my daughter, once the work is done she won't hear me "getting on her nerves". It is easier to just do it than to have someone hound you about it.
2007-11-15 06:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you really feel. Try to put it in a nice way.. tell her why she is getting on your nerves and tell her you'd really like it if she'd stop.
2007-11-11 06:43:55 · answer #11 · answered by Linda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋