im remembering my past relationships and how great it felt to feel loved. what can i possibly do to pass through these feelings?
2007-11-11 06:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by hammy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am also very bored and my friends are busy with their own lives right now. so i cant go to them, i feel like i got no one.
2007-11-11 06:32:13 · update #1
on top of feeling depressed, lonely, and bored i am sick. i got two kidney stones that are bothering me like crazy right now.
2007-11-11 06:34:03 · update #2
Hi, You sound like a very caring sensitive person with a lot of heart. To get a feeling of being needed & Loved? To get pass these feelings?
1) May I suggest calling Big Brothers of America which can be found on the Internet and state your zip code/and give one day a week or month to a child who is looking for a day of basketball,movie or shopping for a gift for their Mom.
You will get back such a feeling of love and selfestem.
2) Is there someone close by or within your family that could use a day out for lunch and conversation with someone like your self? How about checking in on grandma? Does she need a hug?
3) Life isn't over for you, your pass relationships are just the beginnings of your journey. Learn from them and look forward to opening another door into your life. So brush your self off and walk through the next faze of new experences.Embrace it, make your life meaningful. You give and life will give Back. Best regards, Arden
2007-11-11 07:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there honey. Try to stay busy. When you reflect on past relationships try to learn something from them. Don't dwell on the past and missing someone. Things happen for a reason and your mate is out there somewhere. I believe people are put in our life so we can learn a lesson and when the lesson is learned they leave us. I have felt the same way in the past. What helped me was staying busy, doing things that I enjoyed, making more friends like me and being positive. Do something safe that makes you happy right now. Live in the moment and enjoy being single, soon you will find love.
2007-11-11 06:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Pssssh Whatever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, because I'm up so late at night. I bet if I was a day person I wouldn't be. There's less to do at night. It usually goes away on it's own though, after a few hours of feeling that way. Sometimes my stomach hurts so bad I have to get out of bed with nearly no sleep at all. It doesn't hurt if I sit or stand, only when I lay down.
2016-04-03 07:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still good friends with your past girlfriends then take time to go on a coffee date with them. To pass through these feelings, get active. Don't spend time at home wallowing in depression. It's only make it worse for you.
Try going to a socializing party and meet a couple of friends or have an accountability partner to make sure that you don't ever stay home feeling lonely or depressed.
2007-11-11 06:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by mizfits06 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just have to find something to keep busy. Go to a bowling alley for example or a gym. as far as the past relationships, you have to ask yourself why they failed and perhaps the next one will not when you find the answer. Perhaps you need help with your self esteem so I will give you a link for that and if nothing else, it will give you something to do for a while adn perhaps easier to find new friends who would rather be with you than whatever they are doing now. Good luck!!
2007-11-11 06:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you need to lay down,turn on the tv and do some crosswords or a puzzle to pass the time...if you get to feeling to depressed you can always go to the hospital - they have social workers there that are trained to help people dealing with depression
2007-11-11 06:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone feels this way,at times.The fact that your physically not well isn't helping.When your feeling better,try to pursue interests that you enjoy,such as,sports,running,movies,& try to meet new people that can become friends.The past is over,so look forward to a positive future..LOL
2007-11-11 06:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow join the club.
everyone seems to be busy with their own lives and have no time for you. and i thought college was supposed to be fun.
2007-11-11 06:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mellissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop feeling sorry for your self get out ,what about going to a gym, work out meet people
2007-11-11 06:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by mirrorbee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish i knew the answer to this question, my life would be so much more cheerful =/
2007-11-11 06:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋