so i started going out with this guy over the internet about 4 weeks ago maybe not even that!! and ive tired to break up with him 3 times already, but he always seems to say something to make me stay with him!! and hes told me he loves me and ive asked him to stop but he like gets all mad and yells ( emails with caps. ) i havent talked to him over the phone or met up with him and im not planning to!! but how do i break up with him?? i dont want to be mean. but i just cant really "be" with him anymore.
2007-11-11 06:23:14 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just stop responding, that simple.
2007-11-11 06:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by sexy one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling him one more time, and then ignore the emails after that. I would agree with the other person..get a new email. Or why don't you just block him. If you never met him or talked to him on the phone, I don't think you have to worry too much about it.
2007-11-11 06:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Smithy McShagwell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't answer online or talk to him or answer his calls. Sooner or later the creep will start bugging someone else. Here is a hint if you started going out with him online the guy is a loser and he is extremely desperate. There is a reason that people warn you against this kind of stuff. In the future you can be friendly online, but if I were you I wouldn't get too close to someone.
2007-11-11 06:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by dgeag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that its not working and that its over. If he dont understand then just stop talking to him and eventually he will get the picture. But I think he's a little crazy and good think you havent met him. He sounds like he's crazy. In the future be careful on who you talk to on the internet they have some crazy people.
2007-11-11 06:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by nadinesu01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you're done no matter what he says... when he says something that makes you wanna stay just think about the times when you wanna break up with him and having to go through all that again. If you don't wanna lose him as a friend tell him you don't wanna date him but you'll still keep in touch with him. But if you want to be rid of him for ever, just say you're over and you won't talk about it anymore and block his e-mail address or just ignore them, eventually he'll stop sending them. Good luck, I hope you get rid of him, he could be dangerous and you're missing out on going out with people you know in person!
2007-11-11 06:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey,
I've dated guys like that. They always seem to say the right things right when you're about to break up with them, right? What you have to do is really think about why you want to break up with him, and stick to the thought while you end it. That way, you won't stay in a relationship where you live on compliments instead of truth.
You seem smart, and you've got the right idea and the right heart. Don't ever meet him in person.
Good luck!
Opal
2007-11-11 06:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Opal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have some uncles or older guy friends that would help you out, have them email this poor fellow and set him straight. Maybe if you could email a pic of them, especially if they are huge dudes! Then either spam his email or like the other suggestion, just get a new email.
2007-11-11 06:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lucia in Iowa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-24 01:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him its not working out. then since you haven't talked to him over the phone or anything than theres no real reason not to just change everything. get a new email and change anything else you can that he can use to contact you.
2007-11-11 06:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so funny, how are you going out with a guy if you've never seen him, or heard his voice over the phone... for all you know hes gonna be like Listen, lemme make it up to you lets meet up... you meet up and hes a 50 year old convict...what to do...what to do....
2007-11-11 06:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by pimpingsanart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
change your email. cancel your web page accounts and reopen them under a different email address. sounds like a Internet predator. be careful. if you are underage tell your parents..maybe even make a police report. do not open his emails...do not respond. eventually he will tire and find another person to stalk. thats what he is doing to you...stalking you. when you don't want contact and they wont leave you alone its bad. be afraid..very afraid.
2007-11-11 06:28:54 · answer #11 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋