2007-11-11 06:50:13 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you think about Hugh Hefner? He is going on 82 and his girlfriends are 27, 26 and 21. He met Kendra, 21, when she came fresh out of high school. And we all know it really ain't love that's keeping them together...
2007-11-11 06:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Marigold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some men mature later, some women mature earlier, if they are at the same level then it will work. The guys prob been around to know what he wants and the women may like the idea of feeling more secure. But if they stay together for a long time then the guys going to be an old man and the woman will be just middle aged not fair on her if she wants a family or future plans ect. Do you think the guy is kidding himself on being younger?
2007-11-11 07:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by janeysmithster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure suspicious is the right word for me....I'd just call him a man going through a mid-life crisis. Or better yet, just a typical man. It's not exactly unheard of for older men to go after women who are young enough to be their daughters. The world is full of those types of men. I won't get into the whole psychology of it b/c I'd have to write a book on it. A lot of men are like that and suspicious isn't the word I'd chose to see it. If you're thinking that he's just using the women as sex objects or something and that's why you're suspicious...not necessarily. A lot of older men marry younger women. It's just waht they prefer. But if he's dating younger women (or any-aged women) left and right, then I'd be suspicious.
2007-11-11 06:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by girlie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not really. If the guy's dating someone LEGALLY (18 & up), then who cares? If anything, I'd be suspicious of the GIRLS he dates, for example: a 19 yr old girl w/this 45 y/o guy. Can you say GOLD-DIGGER?
Plus, maybe this 45 year old guy's hot? And besides, women almost always tend to date someone older anyway.
2007-11-11 07:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by jules44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? If the two of them are happy consenting adults, why do you feel that my opinion, your opinion or anyone else's matters? It doesn't.
Danielle
What you have said makes about as much sense as shipping ice to Eskimos. Why wouldn't you want to know what he was doing when he was 25 - 30? If a pedophile is attracted to young girls, it is because they are underage or very young. When they get older, pedophiles don't stay attracted, so at 25 - 30 this guy was probably dating girls who were 25 - 30. His attraction is to women of that age, not young girls who have gotten older. Christ, think a little bit before you open your mouth. This is why you have gotten thumbs down, not because the people who think it is fine are pedophiles. I personally find your comment very offensive, because there is around 10 years age difference between my girl friend and I and I have never had the urge to make it with an adolescent female.
2007-11-11 06:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by Danny 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. A 45 year old man and a 30 year old woman? They are both adults, and you can't put an age limit on love. My boyfriend is almost 56 and I am 43. I'm not really interested in younger men or men my age, I like them more mature.
2007-11-11 06:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's just a 15 year difference. I think at age 30 a woman knows what she wants. I would not be suspicious at all. It's like like the man is near death or anything... No suspicions here!
2007-11-11 06:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Judy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I am not suspicious because I am oloder than he is and prefer the company of younger women myself. I feel more comfortable with the younger women than older women who are completely set in their ways and refuse to compromise in any relationship. Harold B
2007-11-11 10:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suspicious of what, exactly? Older men dating younger women is becoming more and more common. In fact, my boyfriend is 15 years older than I am. Besides, as long as both parties are of legal age, what does it matter? They are two consenting adults; who are we to judge?
2007-11-11 07:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by jlynp84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not but the best relationships are those between men and women who are younger than them by 10 or 15 years.
why? the answer is simple, most women dont stay hot or sexy in their 40s or 50s while a man is still capable of perfoming sexually at that age, and we all know that sex is what keeps the relationship fresh. right?
2007-11-11 07:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Don_$armad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋