Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

2007-11-11 03:17:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how old does the child have to be to choose which parent he/she will live with after a divcorce?

2007-11-11 03:16:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I am always worried and self concious that other people don't like me, but recently I found out that people think I don't like THEM because I seem unfriendly because I'm shy. I was always self concious to smile because i have braces but I'm getting them off not thursday so that wont be a problem ne more. :)

I'm 16 in high school can anyone give me some tips on conversation starters, how to make my body language so i seem relaxed and friendly, how to meet more people outside my regular group. Anything thanks. :)

2007-11-11 03:15:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A mother of seven beautiful kids searching for Divorce advice and assistance to get Divorce Finalize. I’ve tried filing my divorce on my own on several occasions, but no results. Went through Legal Aid Services and was told can’t help me with services due to case is too difficult, having been separate from party too long and having problems’ getting other parties serve to get Divorce Final. There are three fathers that I’m having trouble getting to cooperate with the divorce to bring this divorce to a conclusion. I’ll like to get this problem solve on several occasion.

2007-11-11 03:14:00 · 4 answers · asked by shasha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really don't want to contend with going away next weekend. I've already talked to them and they said think of what else you can do..

2007-11-11 03:10:52 · 2 answers · asked by S H 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are very unalike. The love of my life is a cute clean cut guy working with important people with his own image set out for others. I’m...different. He says there is absolutely nothing wrong with me and that he loves me the way I am. He wouldn’t ever lie to me but why do I feel like I owe him something?
He studied overseas in a law firm, I was lucky to get out of high school. I wear ALOT of pink all over which I’m starting to see isn't really normal. I’m a waitress at a cute cafe. I’m 5’2”, my figure is great, and so I’m not worrying about that. He says he likes my hair and it’s up to me if I’m going to change it. Its lavender for god’s sake! I like it, I guess he does, but the reason I really want to change is whenever I go to his office to drop off his lunch, I see his friends making faces and talking in private. I’m thinking that he'd be embarrassed to be with a walking crayon. I get embarrassed too because his office is the only place I ever get that feeling. I’m really not much at all, I just want him to be proud of what he's got because he makes me so happy
I heard he had stood up for me before, I felt so grateful at the time. But now it’s made me realize, does he get criticized at work? He never says anything about the subject to me when I ask about his day.

Another reason for me is that in his office, there are a lot of girls just like him. Pretty, clean, cut, people and I sometimes wonder would he ever cheat on me?

2007-11-11 03:09:48 · 14 answers · asked by Avatar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend and i know this guy almost 2 and a half year. since i befriend with him he always being kind to me. but for the past 2-3 weeks i realize that he some time not being honest with me. so how to ask him the he lied to me and how actually we deal with this type of person?

2007-11-11 03:07:18 · 4 answers · asked by kambing.. 1 in Friends

Lately, I have been going through some stress of my own&I have been HORRIBLE2my AMAZING boyfriend. I never cheated but I say HORRIBLE things. I belittle him, I don't do anything4him, I call him names etc.Hes told me that it pisses him off, its disrespectful and he doesn't like it, but I never stopped. The other day he called me and I had an attitude (as I have had for the past YEAR...off and on...obviously we have or good days and good weeks even)...but he said that hes tired of my attitude and hed call me in the morning, so I broke up with HIM, for NO reason, just being a b**** and the next day I realized how dumb I was. I tried to get back with him but now, he does not want to have ANYTHING to do with me. Even though I left HIM, he feels free of all the **** I have put him through and doesnt want to be a "yoyo"...I KNOW FOR A FACT, that he LOVES me. he wants2be happy wit me but he THINKS i wont change n wont gimme a chance.HOW do i fix things.if i cant...how do i get over him??????

2007-11-11 03:04:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One day, your neighbour woman said this to you," Can you ask your husband if he wants his balls back, those balls he hit to my backyard, UNINTENTIONALLY of course. If he doesn't want them back, I'll throw them for him."

Do you think its suspicious? My husband does play balls in the backyard sometimes but I didn't know that he has hit so many balls to the neighbour woman. How is she so sure that they were hit by my husband not my children?

2007-11-11 03:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by jody 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Maybe because some people don't know how to treat a person.

2007-11-11 02:59:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi. My husband and I have decided a while ago that we will not have children as I am on a prescription that I choose not to discontinue that could harm a fetus. We are saving money so that adoption can be an option for us in a few years. We have already told his sister this and she reacted very poorly.
His parents keep bringing up the kid thing, so what is the best way to just say it?
I don't have a good relationship with them, but they are my husband's family...
We're 32.
Thanks for any insight or experiences?

2007-11-11 02:59:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is scared of being tied down in marriage why?

2007-11-11 02:56:10 · 14 answers · asked by bobbylee_20 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the person who it is about 8-) BUT then you think the person should really know what this person has said?

Do you keep the confidentiality thing going on with the other person OR do you tell a close mate what they have heard? Dont want to fall out with anyone or look like a stirrer?

2007-11-11 02:53:15 · 2 answers · asked by no name 3 in Friends

my husband first starting lying a frew months after we married (well when i started to notice. ) we have a 5 month old baby and its hard. He lies abot such stupid things..like wat he did at night or who he dated or who he talks to on msn ,..just CRAP..but there have been so many little lies that i dont complety trust him any more....
I feel like a police officer every time he comes in from going out.......with all the questions...What can i do to rebuild my relationship or once a liar always a liar?

2007-11-11 02:53:03 · 22 answers · asked by only1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have known this guy since i was four, we're almost 17 now, ive been going out with him for about a year and a half. he wants to have sex with me, but i dont want to yet, i mean i love him extremly much, but i just want to keep my virginity a little longer, he knows im a virgin, and i know he's not, i want to just tell him i want to wait, but will he get mad, how will he react? what would you do if your girlfriend wanted to wait?

2007-11-11 02:51:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People say to keep it cool and like yourself and eventually you'll find a boyfriend/girlfriend. What if this never happens? People say to just have fun and not let getting a boyfriend/girlfriend be your main goal.

2007-11-11 02:46:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's a little hesitant, but I think she can make more money than she does now as a Kindergarten Teacher.

2007-11-11 02:44:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have got a friend coming from a traditional upper community family. When he was 19, his friend's younger sister who is 3 1/2 yrs older and 2 1/2 inches height to him belonging to a lower community . They became good friends but she declined his proposal. Her elder sister married to their family friend and a divorcee. Having come to know that my friend's girlfriend is having a relationship with that family friend turned brother-in-law even prior to her elder sister's marriage, his sincere love request to stop that relationship and pave way for m'age was rejected and seemingly perturbed, my friend migrated but keeping his maiden love in heart and sought refuge in devotion. My friend became a professional. After 14 years my friend got married but because of his preoccupied love could not adjust and took divorce. Then, he suddenly came in contact with his above said gf who was also of the same profession but still not married. She now accepted the proposal and offered for marriage.However, my friend could not take a decision for marrying her 'cause he came to know she is maintaining her silent relations with colleagues besides bro-in-law. However, nobody knowing her background is coming forward to marry though she is beautiful. Her brother-in-law is also playing a role for breakage of any matches because his relationship would be put to an end. Realizing the situation, my friend pointed out silent role of her bro-in-law in lossing matches. Because of community difference and her continued silent behavior with bro-in-law and colleagues which is turmoil, my friend could not take a decision but requested that he be given must-preference when she wants to marry anybody. Shockingly, she suddenly married another person leaving at a lurch my friend. 'cause of her, my friend lost valuable 20 yrs, broken marriage, money and got second hand education by losing a challenging career and though scored good TOEFL, lost concentration on professional higher studies abroad. Is it the reward for TL (True Love)? Getting on life. Is it the reward for a sincere waiter? What to do now? Advice please?

2007-11-11 02:41:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I said something I shouldn't have said last night, and it resulted in her ignoring my existence and me storming out the door. We're still playing the quiet game. What should I do to make things better again? I've apologized a few times, but she ignores it. Help!!!

2007-11-11 02:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by Brad 3 in Singles & Dating

ok guys looking for some answers on what goes through your mind.

2007-11-11 02:30:58 · 12 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so. i have been with my boyfreind for a year now. we had a rough time getting to where we are now, but now that we are on this level things have been great. we live together and so fourth.

I have been home with my family sick with MONO and i get a call from my boyfriend who had just left his frat's mixer with a soroity on campus. He tells me something I already knew... that he had cheated on every girlfriend he ever had except me and his first girlfriend (she broke his heart) and that his honesty plagues him....

he tells me tonight that he could had an opportunity where he was inches away from cheating (twice)... and that he walked away because it was wrong and because he loved me...

Then he started telling me about how all the girls wouldnt let him stop dancing with them and that it felt so wrong having his body up against another girls'
I mean thats good and all

but now i am going to be going nuts every party he goes to and i am not there?!?! how do i deal with this?

2007-11-11 02:29:46 · 11 answers · asked by boots4939 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy (my best guy friend) acts like he likes me but I don't know how to tell.

2007-11-11 02:28:05 · 2 answers · asked by bubbly 2 in Singles & Dating

So it was computer time, and I was really bored.
So I started typing in notepad and writing really bad stuff about my teacher.
I really didn't mean it, I swear.
But then, she found out about it since she can see everything we do in her own computer.
Now she's really really mad at me and she might badmouth me to other people.
I said sorry and she said she forgives me already.
But still, I feel really bad about it. I don't know why I did it.
Now, other teachers might have a bad impression on me too.
I feel really really bad.
What do I do?
I want everything to go back to normal again.

2007-11-11 02:20:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is a couple of years older than me about is now at university of the other side of the country, I'm worried that the distance will end our relationship.

Have you ever been in a long distance relationship that has survived?

What ways can you make long distance relationships more bareable?

2007-11-11 02:19:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 02:18:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm currently going through a divorce and I'm not certain on spousal support/maintenance. My attorney tells me I stand a good chance at times and other times he is not so sure. This divorce is messy and here's the situation: My husband and I married 2 1/2 years ago. After marrrying I had to quit going to college to go to work full time because as a single mother I was given grants to go to school. He promised to pay my tuition but never followed through. Then in March 2007 he convinced me to quit myjob to have more time for him and my children(not common children). In June we started having problems yet he still did not want me to work. I could not work the summer anyhow because the daycare fees for 3 kids were too high. Now before I quit school and work, we bought a home together. I sold my home I had before we married to help with this home. In the time we have been married, my life has changed dramatically from a struggling single mother to the wife of a man making a healthy(cont

2007-11-11 02:17:57 · 6 answers · asked by *** 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay..met a guy on Monday, made out with him Wednesday...He called me twice after that, and I've called him twice after that (one was last night). He acts like he likes me, and I think I may like him, but when I talk to him on the phone he seems un-interested...but when I see him it's different. Now I'm pretty sure that I'm just on the rebound (I'm not sure yet, it's only been a week), but I feel like from his prospective he's using me...what do you think? Am I his rebound girl or something?

2007-11-11 02:17:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 02:15:17 · 10 answers · asked by virgox 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom wants to find a place to donate her wedding dress to a good cause. The problem is, it's from her wedding 25 years ago, and I can't find a charity that that'll accept wedding dresses this old! Well, I take that back, I found one that makes burial shrouds and gowns for "heavenly angels." My mom kinda freaked out about that one! We live in Florida, if that helps at all. Any advice?

2007-11-11 02:14:17 · 6 answers · asked by Andrea 1 in Weddings

I with this boy that I love so much. But he is just so attached to me he loves me and gets really scared that i am going to break up with. I asked him Why does he worry so much he said its because he scared he is going to lose me. The thing is i am like this extreme cheater and scared that i am going to hurt him really bad.
I want to stay with him cause i love everything about him. I dont want 2 cheat on him but i am scared it just might happen
Stay with him or let him go?

2007-11-11 02:13:41 · 15 answers · asked by devil 2 in Singles & Dating