Okay..met a guy on Monday, made out with him Wednesday...He called me twice after that, and I've called him twice after that (one was last night). He acts like he likes me, and I think I may like him, but when I talk to him on the phone he seems un-interested...but when I see him it's different. Now I'm pretty sure that I'm just on the rebound (I'm not sure yet, it's only been a week), but I feel like from his prospective he's using me...what do you think? Am I his rebound girl or something?
2007-11-11 02:17:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's already lost respect for you.
Met on Monday, made out on Wednesday.
Of course he's only glad to see you in person. He knows what he's going to get from you.
And naturally he's not interested in you when trying to converse with him on the telephone. Why should he? The chase is over.
But all is not lost.
Learn from your mistakes and move on.
2007-11-11 02:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just not be a phone guy. I know I am not a phone person, whether I'm talking to my mom, my best friend or even my husband, I just dont like to be on the phone. Maybe that's the case with him.
I would hope you are not just a rebound thing for him. So take it slow just to be sure and to protect yourself from being hurt.
You did say he is different (in a good way) when you two are actually together, so that's a good sign. So dont assume you are a rebound for him, he may be really into you. Get to know him and give him a chance. But again, take it slow and see what his intentions really are.
2007-11-11 10:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by heathermama_tx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be so sure yet that you are a rebound girl. a lot of guys act different on the phone. some can be a totally different guy where they want to talk and figure out every little part of you or there are those guys that get really shy. usually its that they get shy. the guy im married to now HATED talking on the phone so he made me feel like he hated me and i was a waste of his time when we were on the phone but in person he was the total opposite. dont judge him too quick. its probably just that hes a shy phone talker.
2007-11-11 10:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be a phone person. Some people are not interested in talking on the phone and want to get off of it as soon as possible. That is why he is more animated when he sees you in person. Don't give up yet, it's too early to tell where this is going.
2007-11-11 10:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guys point of view it sounds like he is using you as his rebound and when he is talking to you on the phone it sounds like maybe he has something else going on and he is not interested. Maybe he is just trying to rush you off the phone to get back to whatever he has going on. Just a thought.
2007-11-11 10:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by ALAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've noticed that people are different over the phone than in person. Their more shy and not their usual selves because it's harder to find things to talk about (you can't just be like. DId you see that girl with the hair!)
If he was usuing you don't you think he would try to go farther? Try talking to him (in person) or on the phone. or even txt messaging! lol. but ask him where he thinks the relationshiop is going. And ask him what he thinks u guys are realtionship wise.
Hope this helps ;) good luck! n_n
2007-11-11 10:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by ♥hugglez♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya may well be a rebound girl, depending on how attached he was to the chick he's no longer with...also, he may just not be a phone person which could be why he's more animated in person.
Time will tell, alas we cannot read his mind any better than you can.
2007-11-11 10:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a bit closer to him only to find out what his nature is try to identify what he's after if he has more eye contact with you than you thought initially hes not using you if he doesn't look at you too much you should understand hes try to kill some time being with you, get rid of him...
By the way I'm a guy and know a thing or two about this kinda things, in a situation like this its all up to the eye contact...
2007-11-11 10:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does made out still mean just mooching, cause that is ok, in my book a girl that lets a man go too far too soon sends the wrong message that she is easy.
Your feelings of being used is a protection mechanism we all have, trust it, its your other self that know you and things we don't understand how but we all have it its called your sixth sense. Trust it always. Peace
2007-11-11 10:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, some people just cant talk well over the phone. i am once such person and i can NEVER really show interest over the phone.
stop calling him and wait for him to call you. sure, his calls might not be any better, but at least you know he's interested
2007-11-11 10:27:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋