I said something I shouldn't have said last night, and it resulted in her ignoring my existence and me storming out the door. We're still playing the quiet game. What should I do to make things better again? I've apologized a few times, but she ignores it. Help!!!
2007-11-11 02:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by Brad 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its best that u take some time.......both of u and then take it slow.......dun worry thing would turn out fine
2007-11-11 02:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you apologized about it and you were truly sincere, I wouldn't say anything else. The ball is in her court now. She shouldn't be too proud to tell you that it was okay and that she has forgiven you. Pride can make you or break you.
Pride is not a good thing to have when you truly care about someone. I'm sure she will come around when she has cooled off. -Just give her time and space. -Good luck.
Note to self (F.Y.I): When you apologize about it, not only are you sorry about it but it also means that you will not do it again.
2007-11-11 02:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space. If you can just get a word to her how sorry you are and you understand she is hurt...tell her how sorry you are and ask her forgiveness but you will let her alone for a bit to think about getting back together as relationships are worth saving. You may have to email this or send a card if she will not hear you out...then do it leave her alone for a week and test the waters again.
2007-11-11 02:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by Teddy's Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her.. Even though she may try to ignore you, she actually wants you to approach her.. Carry on.. she will definitely respond.
When women are angry or sad or upset, they want someone to talk to about this.. You can be this person, rather than her some friend. This way you can maintain a healthy relationship.
On the contrary when Men are upset they want a time alone.. Just said this for some knowledge on the subject.
2007-11-11 02:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by crashbird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have self assurance me, in case you save this up, you would be a grandmother quickly!! A 14 and 15 twelve months previous laying on the mattress, kissing in her upstairs room! WOW! Hormones run loopy at this age! whether they comprehend they might desire to no longer have intercourse you're making it fantastically ordinary for them to accomplish that! Yeah, i comprehend! you're in all probability sayin "in the event that they are going to do it, they'll come across a manner". sure they'll, yet a mom shouldn't facilitate it! My females boyfriends could come over and stay in the kin area of the residing house and that i'm no longer a grandmother yet!!
2016-10-02 02:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. Don't force the issue.
Buy a cheap lippy or use some aftershave to write "I'm sorry.I love you" or something similar on her mirror in the morning.
If you said something that needs mending, only you know what you can do to mend it. If not, then time is the best healer.
2007-11-11 02:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by jo :) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time to cool off. This happened last night; don't rush it! You each need to cool day. Write her a nice letter and send her some flowers, but don't do that until at LEAST Tuesday.
2007-11-11 02:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What has your apology been like? Did you acknowledge her feelings, have you given her a chance to explain her feelings?
If you're apology is all about you and relieving your own guilt, that might be why you're not getting anywhere.
2007-11-11 02:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by Tikva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its the hardest thing to do, but you have to let it be for a couple days.
This will give you both a chance to cool off. Too many times I have gotten in an argument and too many times I rushed to apologies and tried to "fix" everything right away.
Just let it be, sit back and think it over.
and remember to put yourself in her shoes to see her viewpoint...
Good luck
2007-11-11 02:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy her flowers, sit her down & explain you're truly sorry.
Good luck :)
x
2007-11-11 02:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by Juzzy [[&]] Roxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋