my husband first starting lying a frew months after we married (well when i started to notice. ) we have a 5 month old baby and its hard. He lies abot such stupid things..like wat he did at night or who he dated or who he talks to on msn ,..just CRAP..but there have been so many little lies that i dont complety trust him any more....
I feel like a police officer every time he comes in from going out.......with all the questions...What can i do to rebuild my relationship or once a liar always a liar?
2007-11-11 02:53:03 · 22 answers · asked by only1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My soon to be ex husband is a habitual liar. They lie about things to cover up the wrongs they have done, lie to boost their ego, to cover up another lie......the list goes on. I am now going through a messy divorce. We have been together for over 4 years and married for 2 1/2. a couple months ago he revealed several things I did not know, but not including cheating on me with numerous women and admitted to being a habitual liar. The others are not awful to mention. After admitting these things, of which the lying I already knew, HE begged for us to go to a marriage counselor. I agreed with full doubt he would ever do it. That is something else I have found habitual liars have in common -THEY TALK BIG! They will promise you anything without you even asking and never deliver! We are now going through a divorce because of his cheating & lying (by the way the lying usually is covering up cheating or something they dont want you to know). I dont know how old you or your husband are but my husband is 38 years old, I havent seen one thing about his lying improve at all. He has gotten 10 times worse than he has ever been.
My advice, check his internet history for porn, no joke. That is where my husband picked up every woman he met! If he's pervin out on the inet, RUN LIKE HE11! he's got problems!
2007-11-11 03:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by *** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not one thing that you can do to rebuild your relationship with that liar of a husband you have. I know first hand from a previous relationship where an ex-wife was a habitual liar. She lied about anything and everything. Stuff that didn't even matter like little stuff to major things that mattered a great deal. She was compulsive and never stopped. I too felt like a police officer towards her. I talked in great depths to a counselor about my ex and her behavior. I was told that it is a disease and not treatable. I feel bad for anyone who goes through what I did with this gal. So I would suggest that you consider divorce to save yourself a lot of grief and headaches. You will never again sleep well or stop thinking about what lies you are hearing. Sorry but that is the way it will be for you. You will probably not do anything right now such as a divorce but eventually you will have enough of his garbage and want out. (smile)
2007-11-11 04:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I'm dealing with the same situation. Just found out my hubby's been hiding a credit card that he's spent thousands of dollars on and we've been married 20 years!! But he also lies about stupid stuff, mainly things to make himself look better.
I just confronted him and told him I wont stay if there's secrets and lies in our relationship. I cant handle it---feels like Ive been punched in the stomach every time i discover a lie he's told me, even if it's small. It's been one week. I guess time will tell. He is going to therapy. I think he has to work out some unhappiness inside himself. Hope this helps.
It is hard---day by day~
2007-11-11 14:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by mattygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband lied too, and I don't know why. He told huge lies and when I found out the truth, I really didn't know the person I married. For example, he had some family pictures hanging on his wall and while we were dating I asked about who was in the pictures. Imagine my surprise when his "neices" turned out to be his daughters.
2007-11-11 03:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Tyra99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband lies about stupider stuff. Like .... money. or a loan he got behind my back. or doing drugs........ or ...........pills come up missing out of my purse or wine out of the fridge and he swears he didnt do it. We must have a ghost or someone broke in. How ****** up is that? Everytime he leaves the house i am like a detective too. Just looking through every nick and cranny to find something... but i dont even know what i am looking for.
2007-11-11 03:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband who lies....?
2014-12-18 21:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The burden to rebuild your relationship and trust with your husband lies upon him....
2007-11-11 02:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the problem is with your husband not you, his is a liar and wont change with out help, make him get help or be prepared to make a life decision to stay and put up with his lying , which means you can not trust him, or move out of this relationship, if he doesn't get help it will be along and miserable relationship if you stay, but please encourage him to get help and don't except words only action you can see with your own eyes
2007-11-11 05:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by George 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What emotions do boys have when they at nerves?
2017-04-02 22:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you hear these names
2017-03-05 12:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋