Lately, I have been going through some stress of my own&I have been HORRIBLE2my AMAZING boyfriend. I never cheated but I say HORRIBLE things. I belittle him, I don't do anything4him, I call him names etc.Hes told me that it pisses him off, its disrespectful and he doesn't like it, but I never stopped. The other day he called me and I had an attitude (as I have had for the past YEAR...off and on...obviously we have or good days and good weeks even)...but he said that hes tired of my attitude and hed call me in the morning, so I broke up with HIM, for NO reason, just being a b**** and the next day I realized how dumb I was. I tried to get back with him but now, he does not want to have ANYTHING to do with me. Even though I left HIM, he feels free of all the **** I have put him through and doesnt want to be a "yoyo"...I KNOW FOR A FACT, that he LOVES me. he wants2be happy wit me but he THINKS i wont change n wont gimme a chance.HOW do i fix things.if i cant...how do i get over him??????
2007-11-11 03:04:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love him and he loves you as well (as you mention), then some time off may be a good thing. It will show you that respect is key for a successful relationship, and hopefully he will realize that he still loves you and will want to be with you provided you are more respectful. Write to him telling you how you feel, how sorry you are about the mean things you said to him and begging him to give the relationship another opportunity.
2007-11-11 03:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Vic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just had a girl do the same thing to me. Most people lash out at others for reasons that aren't the others fault. For instance, if you can't show love toward another, it probably means you don't love yourself. You need to work on yourself before trying to commit to a relationship, because a good guy doesn't deserve to be let down like that. I still love the girl I just broke up with, but a relationship can't be about one person trying hard to make the other happy... it has to be reciprocal, and people take a long time to change. I think it's time for you to move on and try to learn something from your mistakes so you'll treat the next one much better. Focus on yourself and making yourself happy for a while, so that you don't have to rely on another to make you happy and your next relationship will be easier.
2007-11-11 11:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by DocJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl..I'm sorry to say this..but you don't deserve him! if he went through all that trouble..staying with you even though your a *****...then let him go..he deserves to be happy..and that's something you can't provide him with. no offense. you need time alone. you need to figure yourself out first...i mean- it has been going on for a year? don't you think you need some help?
it's obvious he loved you.. otherwise he would not have stayed and coped with it. but i think he's relieve of all the ****. i mean- you broke up with him..so let him go..please? you will only hurt yourself and him as well..sorry Hun!
2007-11-11 11:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by **lil princess** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're like some evil step-sister in a disney movie you know that? You make fun of him and act mean to him and then out of nowhere you break up with him and you still thinks he loves you? You are way off, I'm happy for your ex.
2007-11-11 11:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by Alex T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost did you tell him why you were stressed and maybe find a solution for your stress? If you were my girlfriend I would have dumped you after the first outburst but that is just me. Consider yourself lucky he put up with it for as long as he did. As for getting over him.......MOVE ON! He probably found someone with out all of the drama anyhow.
2007-11-11 11:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Brian R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, deal with the stress before getting into a relationship...If you don't, it'll just happen all over again...Then, I don't know the guy...but AFTER you deal with your stress, you could try to talk to him...If he still won't, find someone else...But if you did treat him like crap, this was your fault...Stop treating guys like crap...They'll dump you too...Karma is a b*tch, and you've been one too...
2007-11-11 11:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve him...enough said.
When you're as emotionally and verbally abusive as you are, it makes people run and not want you. Good for him for sticking up for himself! I suggest you seek counseling for your behavior and let this guy go. He deserves better.
2007-11-11 11:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
u need to fix yourself before u get in any relationship with him or anyone else. no one deserves abuse.
2007-11-11 11:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by spoodleroo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋