My boyfriend is a couple of years older than me about is now at university of the other side of the country, I'm worried that the distance will end our relationship.
Have you ever been in a long distance relationship that has survived?
What ways can you make long distance relationships more bareable?
2007-11-11 02:19:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in a LDR for 4 years now. It take a lot of communication, trust and honesty. If you two can do that then you are off to a good start. If you dont' have on get webcams so that you can see each other online. Letters are good too because they are more personal. Care packages are good too, i like to collect things like my bf favorite snack and things like that. He lives in germany and i live in the U.S. so i know that it is hard. It take some creativity, but its worth it in the end. If you need specific idea you can email me and ask. Good luck and let me know if you have anymore questions :)
2007-11-11 18:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship....I live in California and he live in New York. We been writing emails and call each other once a week. It is not the same when you actually around each other. He's not here to comfort me when I'm feeling down, no one to hold me, and talking over the phone doesn't just cut it. It is really hard. After 10 months of doing this, we agree to be friend. I'm not saying that long distance relationship doesn't work but it is just too hard for me. Everybody is different while other can handle it while other can't. I want somebody who will be here physically.
Since you haven't seen him so often, you might not know what going on in his life except of what he want to tell you over the phone. Ask yourself if he's the kind of guy who would cheat on you? He might be telling a lie but you don't know since you are so far away. Do you trust him enough? It's tough but it is up to you to made that decision. There are other temptations. If you trust him enough and you both can handle it. Go for it and good luck.
2007-11-11 10:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by sayon562 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm male
and I just want you to say
Don't worry if your boyfriend stll loves you distance will never end your relationship
I'm more worse than u.
I'm not an american and i'm an asian and my girlfriend is
Caucasian I live in asia and She lives in oregon
We've been in distance love for about 2 years and
I finally go to United States on december to celebrate
chrismas with my girlfriend
See my case [Interracial Couple and even rarely case
white girls and asian male and we aren't even in same country]
We had no problem for 2years ^^ So You should be positive!
Good luck
2007-11-11 10:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Distancelove 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in one for seven months now - NY to Germany, and we've only been able to spend two weeks actually together (we'll be together again for a week and a half in January). So far, so good; he's planning on moving here next summer.
2007-11-12 20:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the most important thing in relationship is trust, without trust there is no relationship at all. You really have to trust him, try not to ask him any question that makes him feel uneasy.
2007-11-11 10:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't last very long. Hard to have a relationship with someone you never get to see.
2007-11-11 10:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by shellshell 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you needs to spend a lot of money on telephone bills to make it work
2007-11-11 10:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about another guy?
trust me it will fed up
2007-11-11 10:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by PIMP 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Give up not but be in touch and it will bounce back to please you much!
2007-11-11 10:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Sami V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋