I with this boy that I love so much. But he is just so attached to me he loves me and gets really scared that i am going to break up with. I asked him Why does he worry so much he said its because he scared he is going to lose me. The thing is i am like this extreme cheater and scared that i am going to hurt him really bad.
I want to stay with him cause i love everything about him. I dont want 2 cheat on him but i am scared it just might happen
Stay with him or let him go?
2007-11-11 02:13:41 · 15 answers · asked by devil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you say that you love him, but you are afraid that you might cheat on him? Where there is true love there is no doubt....If you are an extreme cheater than perhaps you do this because you fear long term commitments and the ability to hold on to one person and that is why you cheat so you wont be hurt or dumped first, .so you make sure you do it first. I don't think you are ready with your self to be in a long term relationship. You have to be alright with yourself before someone else can be alright with you. If you feel you truly love everything about this man then stop trying to control every aspect of this relationship, cuz when you try to control things then God can't put his hand in it. Stop trying to figure out all the "what Ifs " and allow nature to take it course. You might need to find out why you feel the need to cheat on everyone your in a relationship with...Sounds like a self esteem problem!!! I hope the best for the both of you , and he probably fears loosing you because he See's your track record with everyone else, but yet he still seems to think your worth the effort, imagine that!!!!!
2007-11-11 02:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by chill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this...
Most people cheat as a way to re-assure themselves of their ability to remain sexy and desirable. Are you sexy? - most likely. Are you desirable? - certainly. Do you love him? - only you know the answer... but I think yes. Sweetie, the bottom line is this, IF you love him, then stay with him. When you see another man you want - go home and make love to the man you love. Only you can make the choice, but if you have found a man to love and Cherish you, don't loose a lifetime with him because of an hour of hot sex with another man.
Good Luck
2007-11-11 10:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Bear~~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love someone, you won't cheat... I think your are not honest to yourself. Let him go and you do not need to worry if you will cheat on him or not.
2007-11-11 10:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by msutw123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you will think of what's best for him. If you think you can never be faithful to him, then you don't really love him and you have to let him go to find someone who can love him the way he deserves to be loved.
2007-11-11 10:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by reg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't ****** cheat on him! If you're gonna cheat then break up with him. This one is too nice for you to hurt like that.
2007-11-11 10:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont really love him then do you? if you are a really bad cheater, then... why do you get into relationships then? let him go to find someone who will treat him the best he needs to be treated. sucks but let him go!
2007-11-11 10:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by peanutran 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break up with him because once he find out you cheating he might go crazy
2007-11-11 10:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is so scared to lose you are you scared to lose him. so the question is if you really love him to stop cheating
2007-11-11 10:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by MR.COOL 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u say u love him very much,then y do u wanna break up???
u think it wont hurt u either??
wat if u don get a person who loves u truly lik this guy again in ur life
think twice
2007-11-11 10:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by deep 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u want to break up with him then break up with him sure he will be sad and cry but its better then just cheating on him and let him know that and if u want to be friends with him he mint not talk to u and could hate u at 1st but he will c that it ment be better to be friendss soo yeaa do what u want
2007-11-11 10:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋