i have known this guy since i was four, we're almost 17 now, ive been going out with him for about a year and a half. he wants to have sex with me, but i dont want to yet, i mean i love him extremly much, but i just want to keep my virginity a little longer, he knows im a virgin, and i know he's not, i want to just tell him i want to wait, but will he get mad, how will he react? what would you do if your girlfriend wanted to wait?
2007-11-11 02:51:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he truly loves you, if you say you want to wait, he'll wait. It's that simple. If he doesn't wait, he is just using you for sex. I kind of doubt that, because you've been going out for a year and a half.
2007-11-11 02:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Christoph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he gets mad? It is your body. If he doesn't like it, then he can go stick it in a ant hole.
He just wants to get in your pants so he can say he was your first that took your virginity. If he can't take NO for an answer then it is just a game for him.
I believe you should wait till you are married. When a man commits himself to you, before God. Then, you will honestly know he loves you that much to marry you. Your husband will appreciate the fact that you have saved yourself for him. -Best wishes.
2007-11-11 11:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am proud of you!!! Don't give in to this guy. Save your virginity till marriage and there is a real commitment.
It will be so much better and lots more respect and self respect for yourself. If he gets mad, big deal. Tell him to accept it or hit the road, and find him a whore, your not!! it isn't worth it and he would be a jerk and not real love.====
2007-11-11 11:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by lana s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u didn't put guys only so...... anyway I'm 16 and ive liked this guy since 5th grade and i practically love him too we've never went out. I'm a virgin and hes not but if he wanted to and i didn't i wouldn't he should understand if hes known u that long
2007-11-11 10:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by softballgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bottom line is, if you don't want to have sex then DON'T. He will respect you for that. If he gets it then the respect could be gone. It's good that you want to keep your virginity. Keep it until you are married and you know it's going to be forever.
2007-11-11 10:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by reese 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stick to what YOU want. That is something you can only give one person in the world. You need to make sure he is the one who deserves it. Dont just settle. Just because he wants to does not mean you HAVE to. Keep whats yours and give it when your ready and only then. Your body is yours and your virginity is yours, dont lose it for just anyone.
2007-11-11 10:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he gets mad than he obviously doesnt think tht much of u. he should respect u. so just explain to him tht u do love him but u just want to wait a while longer.it shouldnt be something tht u rush into.
plus the more relaxed u r the more u both will enjoy it
2007-11-11 10:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by bex1405 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to wait... Point blank. Stand strong. If you doesn't take no for an answer then you need to let him go. He should respect your decision and leave it at that.
2007-11-11 10:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by biscuit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he gets mad over you wanting to wait, he doesn't respect you, and only wants to have sex with you...If he does that, he doesn't love you...Dump him...Find someone who does...
2007-11-11 10:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As I'm male Strongly ask him to wait you
If he can't wait that means he doesn't love you he loves
your body. I'm sure Because I'm male
2007-11-11 10:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Distancelove 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋