Hi, I just found out this 25 y/o guy I went on 2 dates with is trying to make me fall into a relationship with him just to have sex with him. I didn't though - i am not that type of girl. He went as far as claiming he is a virgin and asks me to come over and crash over. He lies about everything. He played with my emotions and made me think he likes me and all that. I also found out a mutual acquaintance told him about how i treated her cousin really bad when we went out, so she knows he is playing me and she is trying to convince he is a good guy and def. not a player type. They are both plotting against me as a subliminal payback. Apparently, there are some people that still hate me in this world. I know ths sounds crazy but i am shocked as well. How should I handle this? What is the best way to get revenge on this type of guy? I really just want to go up to him and smack him and pour a cup of coffee on him. How should I handle this situation?
2007-11-11 00:39:15 · 11 answers · asked by Svetlana Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Turn around and walk away. Why would you want to stoop to their level? Or, give them the satisfaction of knowing that they got to you? Just ignore them and leave them alone. I think that is the best revenge you could accomplish.
2007-11-11 00:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, if he's trying to use you for sex, etc. then you will NOT be able to get revenge, he is not going to care.
WALK AWAY and do not associate wtih those people. 25 years old is young and he'll grow up one of these days......in 10 years or so, haha. but really, there is no revenge for him because I'm telling you he does not care. If you show that this has upset you it will only feed his horny ego! Remember less is more!
2007-11-11 08:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by *** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best revenge is success, is what i have been told, so in this case first just ignore them as if they don't exist and go out do great things with your life, take your time and find a good man one who is honest and upstanding in all he does, then those jerks will eat their hearts out, to show you were hurt by them will give them what they want, move don't look back that is what will get to them
2007-11-11 12:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by George 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dealing with that type of person, you will never win. The far you go with him, the far he will play your emotion. I'm afraid, you will loose.You are wasting your time. Forget about him. there are so many good men out there. Stay away from him.
2007-11-11 08:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by LadyAnis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a creep
you are lucky you found out what type of person he really is
i dont blame you for wanting to smack him and pour coffee on him.. but i dont thing assaulting him is worth jail time do you?
get rid of him out of your life.. that is the best revenge
find a nice male friend
2007-11-11 08:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by pastels c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a cheep pair of underware .... wrap them up as a gift.....
As you tell him not to bother calling or seeing you again ... give him the gift and say "This is as close as you'll ever get"...too bad you wearn't more of a grown up non game playing man ... you could have gone so much farther.
Be Happy !
2007-11-11 08:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you a pretty smart person. Just keep your dignity level on the up and up, do not stoop to their level. Just walk away. It will prove to them that have more class than they do.
2007-11-11 09:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge breeds hate. The truly innocent do not plot revenge.
Let go and walk away...you don't want people like this in your life then let them go.
2007-11-11 08:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a fish at the grocery store and stuff it into the seat of his car. Then wait.
No....just kidding. That might get you in trouble.
Just don't return his calls. Act like he doesn't exist. That will piss him off enough....
2007-11-11 09:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by RoseRed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be the grownup in the situation and leave. Don't try to get "revenge", because then, you're just as pathetic as they are.
2007-11-11 09:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋