some of the problems deal with control, and one mate wanting to control the other, unmet expectations, finding out they aren't who they portrayed their selves to be. this would require both spouses to be willing to work on the problems, and never sweep problems under the rug hoping they will go away because they won't they will just multiply and get worse.
2007-11-11 02:07:28
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answered by jude 7
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I think in the "Early" part of marriage, it doesn't matter how old you are or how long you've known each other or if you even lived together before you married, the problems are usually the same. . .mixing money. . .sex after marriage. . .bills bills bills. . .If you are already married then it is a lil too late for pre martial counseling. . .but it is never too late to talk with someone NOW. . .ALWAYS talk to each other about everything. . .if there is something you don't want to discuss with your partner then it will only become a bigger issue in the future. . .BE HONEST with each other at all times, even if it hurts. Remember, you have the rest of your life to spend with this person. . .you get to decide how that life is going to be! GOOD LUCK!
2007-11-11 09:04:18
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answered by dawnsmisti 2
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I married at 18 the first time, obviously I divorced him -6 months later!
Neither one of us knew what the hell we were doing and he had control issues, I was homesick as hell! We couldnt budget our money because we were 2 young kids more concerned with stupid stuff rather than the responsibility of bills.
If you're contemplating marriage before having a career and an education i would advise you to rethink it very hard! You have to think of #1 first(yourself). Once you know who you are and what you want in life, then find someone who has the same outlook!
2007-11-11 08:58:42
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answered by *** 2
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one can't answer a q about consequences unless we know the issue that brought them on
2007-11-11 10:13:50
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answered by racer 51 7
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