what am i to do?

Question

my wife wont give me oral at all, but always demands that i give her. i do love stimulating her but im getting tired of her refusing for me, i tried talking to her but that doesnt work, i suggested counseling but she refuses i tried stopping her oral but she getrs extremely angry and its no sex for 6 months if not more. what am i to do?
7 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer

Answer 1

She is treating you like a doormat and you really need to stand up to her because this is how it is going to be for the rest of your life if you do not do something.

Answer 2

She sounds pretty selfish to me, but maybe she has a deep-seated reason for her hang-up. It would be good if you two could talk about it so at least you would know the reason why she refuses and maybe not feel so rejected about it. In a healthy sexual relationship, open communication is a must; also, whatever you do should be agreeable to both partners. Maybe if you can talk about it, you can come up with other ways for her to please you so the lack of oral won't seem so important. She should NEVER use sex as a weapon to get what she wants.

Answer 3

We all have our preferences. Will she give you relief by hand at all? I don't know why she doesn't like oral. I personally love it! Could it be that you're not properly trimmed or washed downstairs so it grosses her out? Will she touch it to her mouh but not swallow? What is exactly the deal?

You might have to accept the fact that she's more into receiving than giving and just live with that. If you don't like giving the oral, then you guys have something to worry about. But if you like giving and she likes receiving, then you guys might be okay...except who will get YOU off????

Answer 4

I would trade her in on a newer model